Is dating a single mother really that bad

fpbp /thread

As long as the kid is white and the father is a semi-normal person it literally makes no difference.

The only people who do that are pedophiles.

The father is in another country and not in their life at all
we aren't officially dating but she does do those things

No I used to stick my penis in a 20 year old single mother when I was 18 and the pussy was good and she was pretty hot. Actually I lost my virginity to her since I was desperate and just found the first 6 out of 10 i could fuck. I was a struggling frustrated virgin as a 17 year old and immediately searched for girls to fuck on Tinder when I turned 18

fpbp

imagine dating a used up hole and taking care of a baby that isn't yours?
ask yourself this, what is appealing about loving a used up hag that has gawked a cock of many men before you, looked into their eyes and said "i love you". you think you're any different and special? she's done that to so many before you who knows how many DNA has landed on her face. don't get me started on the child. it isn't yours, and never will be. start fresh my guy. it ain't worth it.

You will be miserable. At least if you have a wife and your own kid it's your own kid and not someone else's so you're miserable with your own flesh and blood instead of some deadbeat's leftovers.

You are stupid and you will hopefully realize that sooner rather than later and avoid the bullet from the gun you're pointing at your head right now by rationalizing your stupid decision.
For your own damn sake.

You won congrats

I wouldn't do it unless I was a single father

All women will have a bodycount before you get to them, but for a man to have left his mark on her to the degree of leaving a legacy behind will always be in the back of both of your minds whenever you fuck, always. Everytime you look at their child you will be reminded that that is another man's seed. It will damage you psychologically at some point or another. If you can get over that, kudos to you, most men can't and won't. Its a cavemanbrain thing.

Sounds like an ideal relationship. Fuck anyone trying to blackpill on you for serving as a father figure to a perfectly good white child.

Just make sure to put a couple more in her. We need to get back above replacement rate fast. Godspeed to you, Anon.

yes, because you are just on the hold, sooner or later the real husband will be involved in your life.
Also, women will look for a man to fulfill one of the 4 roles they have for a man in life, led by her emotions:
- fun, parties, sex, drinks, raves, woohoooo etc a woman sometime make a child in this role
- short term fix, aka rebound, she tells you stuff and cry about, she dumb trauma you, bullied, relative deaths, etc. and you are here to tell everything will be ok and help her emotionally. A lot of men tried to 'fix her' in this role only to backfire because she's only using you to get rid of these baggage
- provider, now she's looking for someone 'long term' to take of her and child, a real man, not a 'fun fuckboi', someone responsible!!
- once the child is big enough to take care of him/herself, she's now back to the first state
note: sometimes they chose a man 'to fix', so they go with a loser dude not to fix him, but to be in charge, and she doesn't fix anything, and usually get bored quickly.
You are in the 3rd one, once a woman fulfill that role, she moves on to fill another with another man, that's why women don't get attached like men, it's always about her, and no man can fill all 4, the ones who are fun and party zealots can't provide, the ones who provide are not fun.
tldr: avoid

GARETH.
YES.

If she has a daughter, no

Yeah they were single for a reason.

Someone, somewhere decided they had enough of her shit and you're going to try and clean up a bitch who doesn't even think she is a mess despite her having a kid and running off the father. Or she was dumb enough/independent enough to think she was a strong woman who don't need no man and there you already have the warning sign.

Is she a widow? Thats about the only case, but then she may have driven someone to suicide. A lot of variables anon, and you probably won't hear the true side of the story from anyone around her as women tend to drive off anyone who offers constructive criticism and won't simply simp for her.

Also it will always be HER kid. Never yours, so when said kid acts out due to not having a strong male influence you're going to be treated as the cuck you are and she'll demand you mind your business. Hopefully you won't have to and you just mind it now.

Wouldn't bother with it, not worth it.

Double mother is even worse.

Someone has to pay for the bastard mate.

Not optimal but your choices are limited in piss world. If she doesn't suck in other areas and she treats you well take it. Again choices are limited rn and respectful single mom is better than a narcissistic whore who doesn't have kids.

Not if there white.
But why would you date one unless your already a pedophile looking to rape her child?

How do you feel about playing someone else's save file? Now imagine that feeling but it's 1000x worse, not an exaggeration.

If this is really all you can get you should better remain single at that point. People on here are mostly about race, they don't want you to live a good life, they want you to reproduce first and foremost. Under these competitions stay single is better

At least the kid is white. Go for it. The child will need a father figure.

They are like a AVIS rental. Run hard and ran over the speed bumps. Left out in the rain with the windows down. Low on oil and with a worn out transmission.

There are newer cars out there for rent.

You're fucking up already by using the word "date", you aren't a teenage 1950s american going to a diner. Then you're fucking up by even considering non-virgins unless you're a middle aged widower

Meant to say conditions

No there is litterally only pedos that go for single moms

Yes. Why are you subsidizing it? If she left her husband or was unable to keep a marriage together when she has a child then what makes you think a relationship with her would work?
The literal only exception is if the husband died (and the kid is White).

many such cases

better to be alone in hell than married to a single mom in heaven

Single mothers deserve to be punished by not having access to mates.

I like it
especially if the ex has partial custody
they're busy with the kid most of the time, so you don't have to spend time with them
every other week you go over and fuck like rabbits

Not if she has an adult daughter, AKA a glimmer of hope. Otherwise, yes.

we aren't officially dating but she does do those things

This is the problem with single mothers. Does she actually like you or is she trying to find security for her (not your) child? Doing that stuff for someone who isn't even your bf is coming on really strong. Is it because she really likes you, or does she really need you to like her and any guy with a similar income and level of social status would do? I'm not trying to scare you away from something that could make you both happy but you need to be really careful about this because nobody can maintain the pretense of loving someone forever and if you're already married when she loses the will to fake it things will get really nasty. I've seen it happen.

No, unless the father's dead or in prison.

picrel

that's true, there's a way to counter women using sex against men to put them into submissions: multiple wives (not to be confused with cheating/side check, no, announced ones), at least two, and muslims despite how primitive they sound, they hold the true masculine power in the relationship, if one is trying to manipulate you using sex (or cooking food or whatever), you just go to the other, her only power is revoked and suddenly she is competing to win YOU back, not the other way. chads also knew this, that's why they never settle, because in the current system settling down means submission to her, because surprise surprise, when feminism was introduced, they banned having multiple wives, only decades later to see women now having multiple guys aka open relationship, because whoever do the poly in relationships dominates the power dynamics.

Checked but Christian Europe was strictly monogamous for a very long time and it doesn't seem to have been an issue, and polygamy is almost as a rule restricted to the 1% (or at least it was in the ancient world where I actually know about it) and thus not a meaningful imposition on the lives of the whole population.

you really fucked up sweetheart, that's basically your death-knell.
unless you're a widow, you're never going to find a decent man again.

is eating someone elses left overs and settling for sloppy seconds bad?

God, is this really what the white race has fallen to?

Why would you want to raise someone's son if they went to prison? Cuck out much

There's a way to find that, don't rush, don't promise her anything, and pay attention to the details
if she's in it because she likes him, and him personally:
- she will remember the small details about him, things he doesn't even know he does/say
- her actions, do they match the words? otherwise she's manipulating
- observe that for at least a year without any promise of anything
she will stick around if she does like him

if she's in it for the security/safety/provider/etc:
- won't remember anything or barely any little details about him
- showering him with love words but actions don't match, signs of disrespecting your time etc could appear after few months, pay close attention
- she won't be able to fake that more than few months, and you will start seeing her real personality, try to make some arguments too to shake things up and see her reaction
she will bail out quick in this case, she will justify it by some bs like things are getting toxic or whatever, but remember, she has a failed relationship, there's 50% chance she's toxic and bad

You do realize your always going to be the sloppy seconds of another guy who was first even if they don't have a child. In the west most girls lose virginity at 11.

daily reminder: for every single mother there's a deadbeat dad