Zoomer here.This board is often times filled with doom and gloom pessimism and nihilism. Can we have a thread in which successful people share their secrets. What keeps you going how did you make it in life? Whats your political standpoint and how do you keep yourselves from being obsessed with politics. Can you share some of your secrets/ positive life advices. We need more hope and white pills. I need more hope and whitepills.
Advice from successful people
Can we have a thread in which successful people share their secrets.
I lied on my resume to get my job
What keeps you going how did you make it in life?
My mother
Whats your political standpoint and how do you keep yourselves from being obsessed with politics.
Don't waste time on political slop
Can you share some of your secrets/ positive life advices.
Be nice to everyone. When you put out good energy, it's almost always reciprocated. there's that 1% of outliers who will be mean no matter what. avoid them at all cost.
Only way is to avoid boomer at all cost, go live into a small village, don't go to city at any cost, buy everything online, if you go out its in a deep dense forest and hopefully you meet 0 people.
This is how you cure depression, and if you can avoid women, that's a plus
having a good mom really is the secret.
t. had a shit mom and now I'm a 22 year old neet with no highschool diploma and zero drive
So you were 8 when I was 18...?
Here’s the secret. Successful people don’t share their secrets. Here’s Mark Cuban’s advice: “Buy in Bulk”. He’a not telling you shit.
Sound advice much appreciated.
yeah, I call my mom every day after work, sometimes again before bed. we dont talk about really anything of substance, but we are able to connect, and I like hearing her voice even if she's lecturing me on dumb stuff
Mark up at 50% of the original value of the product.
Market the product with some class.
Oh wow you are suddenly getting rich idiots buying your grift.
lmao. (Every successful big business in the west.)
Buy in bulk lol like this is going to work when i have 500 euros in my bank account.
isolate yourself from the outside world and have zero human interaction is the cure to depression
Peak mental retardation
life pro tip
Do the opposite of everything Anon Babble users advise you to do.
gfy
No you don’t get it, he was basically saying “fuck you peasant goyim”
Life really is a social game. People are far less rational in their behavior than anyone realizes.
If you can figure out how to make people feel good about themselves when they are around you then doors will just open for you. It gets more complex the higher up you go but that basic concept remains the same.
Having good references is basically enough social capital to get you any job. That’s why getting into Harvard is such a coveted accolade among elites because it’s essentially the ultimate rubber stamp to other successful people that “this guy is ok to hire and promote into positions of power”
Can we have a thread in which successful people share their secrets.
Get a time machine and travel back to the 80s. I'm poorer than my father despite working the same job as him.
Single best piece of advice is to stop consuming propaganda as much as possible. Install adblock, stop watching the news, stop browsing internet forums, only read books published before 1945 (ideally 1900) and focus on reducing your spending and increasing your income to save money. Learn to invest (you live in a capitalist system, stop being dumb and exploit it), buy a house, become food secure, get a wife (get her to cut off propaganda too), and have kids.
Life isn't complicated, it's just full of predators out to control your mind.
Seems like a bad advice i don't wanna avoid people like that.
Is he a chosen person? Would check out. Saying people should buy in bulk if you know the average person can't even afford to buy stuff the regular way is a fucked up joke.
All of those things are thrown into chaos every few generations when the government collapses or there's an invasion. That advice only works during good times.
Anon Babble people keep telling me that being a cuckold is wrong
How can we make it that the good times start again? And what can we do to make the bad times more tolerable?
How can we make it that the good times start again?
Impossible. The 'good times' are gone forever because whites are now extinct
This is what i am try to do. The problem is every step towards the right direction seems like a massive undertaking. It's so difficult because results take ages to actually be noticeable. I will be getting a job soon and a car and all of that and subconsciously i already know its not enough. Will it ever be enough i ask myself. I need to do so many things and ideally do them all at once. I am afraid i will be 30- 40 with nothing to show for it. And that is terrifying. I don't wanna waste my life and look back in regret. I know that me being aware of that is a good step in the right direction but my worries never seem to go away doesn't matter how many good things i do and accomplish. I have no one to talk about this so it's always in the back of my mind keeping me worried. I hate it
the knights of malta will be defeated by Islam
What keeps you going how did you make it in life?
Yes
Mid 30s anon here, I make close to 200k annually as an IT manager, stay at home wife and a couple kids.
Truthfully the biggest key to my self improvement has been having a true 100% belief in a God and higher power. I’m not a Bible thumper by any means, but when you truly believe you are here for a purpose it’s easier to navigate through the tough times - doing hard things builds character and grows you as a person.
Find what God means to you and then follow him.
Don't take the doomer psy-op shit seriously.
All the NEET threads and Women Hate threads and Only Chads have sex threads are meant to demoralize you.
No white man will ever be allowed to attain your position ever again.
This is what i'm talking about
Oh shut the fuck up. I've been passed over for promotions in ever single company I've worked at. The fucking jeet at my current place literally told me that I wasn't getting it because he wanted "one of his own" to get it.
where can you afford a stay at home wife+kids on 200k?
Don’t make yourself a victim. Being a diversity hire can give you an advantage but there’s plenty of room to grow as a white man.
Truthfully I befriended the black lady who hired me and have befriended her boss who is also a black lady. As they’ve moved up the ranks, they’ve continued to bring me with them. I’ve had 3 promotions in the 7 years I’ve been with my company and I haven’t had to ask for a single one. I’m actively being groomed to take over for one of them when they retire in a year or so.
Build meaningful personal relationships with people and quickly neither of you will care about race.
there’s plenty of room to grow as a white man.
Lmao. Just lmao. You know nothing of this world boomer.
all hope is false honestly. i'm 38 and haven't found any, and when i thought i did it wasn't real. i'm not nihilistic, but at some point you must accept that your life has no real purpose. you can either try to make some purpose or give up on it and go down a darker path. there isn't anything out there to find that will do this for you.
it's why people have kids - kids let them live childhood again.
Chicago Suburbs and we don’t really struggle financially. I work for a government adjacent organization so it also has a really strong benefit package.
Granted we did buy our house before COVID so it might be a lot tighter if we had to pay today’s prices.
Take risks and do what makes you happy :)
Im not obsessed with politics at all I come here for news since canada banned it
Granted we did buy our house before COVID so it might be a lot tighter if we had to pay today’s prices.
Housing doubled after covid.
All my personal friends are white and are also successful in their careers.
Is it harder as a white man? Yes
Is it so hard that you should just give up on life? No.
master Excel
pull yourself up by your boot straps
Go to hell.
common great mother W
Extremely based, don't obsess over politics and ideology, live ur life and be nice to ppl
Give something of yourself to a good cause where you have to muck in and help people. It will create opportunities. Most people here live in hell because all they know is their own mess.
Otherwise skills are worthwhile, just don't expect any of this shit to pay off until you are 35.
Yeah our house has increased in value a lot since then, but truthfully I think we’d be fine even if we had to pay today’s prices we’d be ok.
Once the kids make it out of their baby years, they really aren’t that expensive.
look at your feet
those are bootstraps
pull yourself up by them
The problem is your feelings. They're not actually your feelings. General anxiety like that (worrying about vague possibilities rather than actual concrete problems) is a product of propaganda, which is why the FIRST step is to cut yourself off from propaganda.
I think we’d be fine even if we had to pay today’s prices we’d be ok.
My friends bought their house in 2018 for $350k, a ludicrous price for our area. A house on their block sold for $750k
While i despise this boomer advice what else are we supposed to do? Live is hard but giving up is so fucking gay. Boomers had it a lot easier yes are they pricks about it yes. But what's the alternative to struggling through life? Whats the alternative? There is non. Unless you view killing yourself or becoming some nihilistic fag that gives up on life as a alternative.
Unless you view killing yourself or becoming some nihilistic fag that gives up on life as a alternative.
It's called acceleration. Collapse the system by being a grain of sand in the gears or become a Luigi.
FIRST step is to cut yourself off from propaganda.
And how would i go about doing that? The propaganda is everywhere and i am addicted to the internet i spent so much time here. And when i log off and do stuff irl anxiety gets worse
I was born to middle class educated white parents and have 120 IQ and got a STEM graduate degree with no student loan debt, worked for major silicon valley tech corp with good benefits and profit sharing, its just that simple
Trick is to just be naturally gifted and everything is just to easy.
Like everyone always rants about how "hard" taces are
"Ooh why did they teach us microbiology in school? I just want to know how to follow simple directions and move a number from a box to another box!"
Seriously, I never opened a single textbook, floated through highschool acing tests, applied to exactly 1 college over a weekend, got in immediately, floated thtough that while tutoring the tryhards, and now I have an engineering degree and $150k salary.
Thats it, thats the secret. Just be born better than everyone and its all just easy.
Apply for a job, show up, do what they ask you to, mouth off to boss, get fired, repeat until you find yourself in a career where youre not mouthing off to your boss because youre happy. Talk to women, refuse to be their friends, marry the intelligent one who respects you, get her pregnant, buy a house, maintain a credit card with 0 balance that you use to buy large purchases which youve already saved up for, get 800 credit rating, buy a house, plant artichokes and tobacco in the back yard, experiment with home built radios and cryocoolers, throw a ball back and forth with your 6 month old infant while listening to mom explain how the development class was stunned fhat baby was already crawling, draw up plans to dig a tunnel under the house for a secret shooting range.
Just stop being retarded. Simple as.
Be debt free. Save up enough money to buy a car outright, instead of financing it. I bought 4 vehicles this way, and traded old for new. Toyotas are good because they keep their value over the years. Live cheaply. Go to food banks to save money on groceries. Swallow your pride and just do it. Take advantage of ‘free programs’ for food, clothing, and activities. Very important if you want to offset the cost of raising children. Join a local ‘buy nothing’ group. Look for free furniture this way. It helps to have a truck to pick up free items. If you must buy a house instead of renting, save at least 50% of a down payment beforehand so you don’t throw your money away to the little hat people. Find a reliable spouse to share expenses with (this may be the hardest part.) It helps when one of you is in between jobs. When you’re both working, you should be saving at least half your income.
When you get enough money saved up, but don’t need to buy a car or house, start putting your money into CD loans with your credit union (do not give big banks your business) I have a 100k CD loan that matures after 7 months, yielding 4k. That is 4% interest that would otherwise be less than 1% if the money was just sitting in a savings account. Don’t trust stock market. Be kind to your neighbors and try not to make enemies, this will only slow you down. Maintain connections and good relationships with coworkers, managers, etc. from every job you’ve had. This will help with future opportunities and job references. It’s not a waste of time if it benefits you and your family.
Don’t let bad luck or events in your life bog you down. Setbacks are temporary and drinking / smoking your sorrows away is not a good solution. Moderate your alcohol / tobacco / whatever intake, or quit altogether to save more money. Keep in good health so you won’t have many medical expenses as you age. Do not keep pets, unless you can afford it after saving 50% of your income.
What keeps you going how did you make it in life?
A couple of things. I have a few hobbies i enjoy; warhammer, gaming, building shit for my house. I also have a loving wife who wants to see me everyday since we've met. We also now have a son, a true blessing. I also go to a non-denominational church every sunday for my spiritual well-being.
Whats your political standpoint and how do you keep yourselves from being obsessed with politics.
I used to be fairly socially liberal. After being burned my self-centered liberal ideology i slowly started to become more conservative out of my desire to preserve the natural order of things. To protect my family. I dont obsess over politics because both parties are two sides to the same coin. The ruling class lords over this dichotomous relationship so it is imperative to see through their deception and find the middle path. This will preserve your sanity.
Can you share some of your secrets/ positive life advices.
Keep trying. If you failed, learn from it. Keep moving. Try new things even if you "think" you wont like it. Learn to feed yourself with homecooked meals. Your body and mind will thank you. As for finances, you have 2 levers. how much you spend and how much you earn. Leverage the levers until you find positive income each month. Take this positive income and build a 6 mo emergency fund. After this fund is funded, you can start to invest your money. Either in commodities, real estate, or stocks. Real estate is the fastest way to increase your wealth. Buy the worst house in the best neighborhood, you just need the bones. Everything else is customizable. Stocks, pick a low fee index fund like VOO or SPY. Dollar cost average into these stocks. Every 2 weeks buy x amount (10% of your check) of the stock. In 30 years you'll be a millionaire. Be wary of loans. Interest is an eroder of wealth. Owning a home is an exception as in an ideal scenario you will earn more (inflation) and the loan stays the same.
how do I do that
I refuse to even try and my excuse is "I'm addicted"
Just do it. Stop watching tv, cut screen time to zero, stop listening to the radio, try not to look at paper advertisements IRL, read books instead, listen to music without lyrics.
And when i log off and do stuff irl anxiety gets worse
That's partly withdrawal from the easy dopamine of screentime and partly your body waking up to how dire your IRL circumstances are now that you're confronted with the real problems in your life: your living space is probably a mess, you probably need to deep clean your stuff, your clothes are probably shit, and your finances aren't in order. Clean your living space, make a serious budget, plan out the next five years of your life and start executing on the plan.
To anyone lurking: not everyone can do this. Some people are just loser cattle. The Jews are right about one thing: not everyone is a real human. Real humans have souls, fake humans are just cattle shaped like real humans. Born to be peasants, serfs, slaves, consumers. They cannot take responsibility for their own lives and decisions. Trying to help them is pointless.
I hope a real human sees my posts.
Find a reliable spouse to share expenses with (this may be the hardest part.) It helps when one of you is in between jobs.
indeed it is, divorce rape is the real killer that destroys many economically for life,
When you’re both working, you should be saving at least half your income.
most people dont realize how important this is, at a minimum you need to save 25% of income, if having kids then another 1k/mo from birth for their college
I’m 43, married to a hot trans woman yoga teacher. Celebrating our 10 year anniversary soon! We own our home, have about $300k in equity and $130k left to pay off.
The secret is finding your own meaning to life. Pick a marketable skill and let it become you. Be bored and only invest your time towards being great at something. Your worth on the market is only how specialized your skills are and how hard it is to acquire them.
Once you have purpose and skill then the rest doesn’t matter at all. You can live whatever personal life you want and it won’t matter.
I’m queer AF and present feminine all the time but I make 6 figures and talk with authority in my field. I have the portfolio and credentials to back it up. I work hard and produce results. Even conservative bible thumpers respect that and are great neighbors.
All the culture war nonsense is just scapegoating for low performers and idiots to have some one else to blame for their personal failures at self discipline.
I appreciate the "tough, but not cruel love" approach. I'm trying to run back being coddled and spoiled by my mom through childhood and early adulthood to undo a lot of shitty habits I built up as a result.
The system won't collapse any time soon. What will happen is that you become forgotten by the system. If you don't participate in society eventually you will be forgotten. Friends and family will care less and less eventually you won't even see the point in leaving your apartment. You will stop talking to people because in your head they are all useless npc retards anyway. You might be right about some people but you will also disregard the people that actually could help you. Eventually the loneliness and boredom will get to you vidya cope isn't going to work for ever. You will pick up some substances to deal with your boredom and loneliness. Eventually your place will become more and more messy. Not even bothering to take out the trash or to clean up the place because "it doesn't matter" after a long and miserable lonely life you will die in your apartment surrounded by a mountain of trash and filth. No one will notice your death. Landlord will show up at your place because you stopped paying the rent for a while. Upon opening the door the sweat smell of death will fill the air and he will immediately know what happened. Because you had no children or significant others all your belongings and memories will go into the trash the things that have value will be auctioned off to some random people. You will be buried in a grave with a small wooden cross ontop of it. No one will bother to show up at your funeral. Fast forward another 15 years and your grave will be cleaned up and used by someone else. No remnants of your existence will remain no legacy nothing. Maybe this doesn't affect you. Maybe you truly are the type of person that doesn't care. But i for sure know i am not that kind of person. I want to leave something behind a legacy of sorts. Otherwise what would have been the purpose of my life? If not for leaving something behind. Not to be immediately forgotten.
The system won't collapse any time soon.
ZOG is built on the backs of the white male slave class, a rapidly dwindling tiny minority. Every single white male that doesn't show up to work is a dagger wound in ZOG black heart.
Subconsciously i already know what needs to be done to fix my situation. And i already started working on it but i get overwhelmed quite easily. Have you sort of advice that can help me in these stressful situations to keep my mind calm and make the right decisions?
Lol life advice
From a faggot
Happily going extinct. The mouse happily fed in the humane trap explains to other mice that the trick is to find a nice big block of cheese in a plastic tube.
Look into breathing exercises. You can't avoid stress but you can learn how to "reset" to avoid collapsing and undoing progress.
You can help break bad habits and form good habits if you understand operant conditioning and how dopamine pathways can be used intentionally.
Caffeine spikes dopamine. There are other downsides, but one thing you can do is wake up a little early with a defined task you need to do regularly, like cleaning. Drink your caffeine for the day while you do the task. This forces a dopamine release, and your brain associates the dopamine with the task. I trained myself to get used to waking up early and writing my novel for two hours, every single day. I look forward to it.
The reverse, negative example is if you play video games and drink energy drinks at the same time. Now you're getting two sources of dopamine while wasting your time. It's no wonder people get addicted to video games. Then they often do this in the afternoon or evening, fucking up their sleep, and wonder why their life sucks outside of gaming.
You can also "gamify" life goals. Make a list of goals, figure out how to quantify them, and then track it. If it's losing weight, weigh yourself every day and make a chart of your progress. If it's building up savings, chart it. If it's cleaning up your house, make a map of the house and shade in parts that are 100% cleaned as you clean them.
Good luck man it's never too late to start fixing your life.
so you admit that society thinks you're trash, treats you like trash 24/7, but you still consider loneliness to be the actual problem in your fanfic? If society treats you like trash, why are you desperate for its approval?
Think about how much fun the chaos will be when all the chickens come home to roost. You'll be able to smash sand nigger heads with a sledgehammer and be cheered on for it.
the elites will make you fight niggers to death in an epic battle while they continue stealing your shit behind your back gyppo style
Whats the secret
Always agree to do anything work related even if you have no idea how to do it
Always admit when you fucked up.
Always get back up on your bike when you fail
Its not about how hard you can hit, its about how hard you can get hit, get back up, and keep moving forward, thats how winners are made.
Sound advice i will also get my testosterone levels checked being anxious isn't normal. Maybe i have low T could explain why i often times can't keep my shit together and start to panic.
Yes, college is expensive and I don’t want my kids to be debt slaves. Saving money in a college fund for your children is a tax write-off, as is a retirement savings account. Keep the government’s hands off your money by taking advantage of these accounts.
The spouse thing is incredibly difficult, and having children is, too. You have to make sacrifices when your new family becomes part of your life. People who withdraw into themselves, giving into selfish desires, are prone to ending in ruin. I’m an introverted person and had many hobbies that I liked doing alone or with a small group of friends, like backpacking and role playing / video games. I had to give most of that up. It’s hard, but if you are looking for a fulfilling life, sometimes you have to “hack away at the unnecessary” to quote Bruce Lee. lol
Also, credit cards: have more than 1. I have 3, and use each one for different things like bills, groceries, gas. Never make partial payments, so you’re never paying interest. Just set up auto payments for everything, linked back to a checking account. When your credit score is high, it makes everything easier (this comes up on background checks, big purchases, lease agreements, etc.) I hate the credit system and think it’s a scam, but you have to play their stupid game if you want to succeed in this clown world. Insurance is a scam too, but shop around for the best rates. Shopping around applies to every purchase you make. Find the best quality for the lowest price. Save receipts and get good at budgeting / accounting. Keep a notebook and a calendar with important times and dates. Try not to rely on your phone for everything. What else…
Maintain your appearance and have a clean living space. Not to sound like J. Peterson, but these things help you keep your mind in order as well as your belongings. Don’t eat junk food, because it affects your mind, not just your body, in unforeseen ways. Get good at guns, have a safe.
The stock market is the only way out for most average people. Learn everything you can about it
Fpbp
I am not desperate for society's approval i am desperate for approval of people i like and that are important to me. I wanna be a provider for a loving family. I don't wanna disappoint people that rely on me and people i love. Also not all of society is fake and gay and awful as many people always claim here. This way of thinking isn't helping and only made me more hateful and bitter. I don't want to live life like this anymore. Thats why i asked for white pills and positive advices.
Subconsciously i already know what needs to be done to fix my situation
Move it out of the vague subconscious and write it down (moving it into the concrete and fully conscious realm).
but i get overwhelmed quite easily
Break down what you need to do into small concrete steps and be honest about what you can accomplish in one go. No, you can't spend 20 hours lifting weights in the gym. No, you can't complete a university education in one weekend of studying. You have to do things in smaller chunks, one day at a time.
Like the other anon said, if you're having actual panic attacks, you need to look into breathing exercises and coping mechanisms and reduce what you're trying to accomplish until it's manageable.
If you're so overwhelmed that you can't sit still in a quiet place and think through things calmly and rationally, you're probably in physical danger OR you're so fucked up from propaganda and screentime dopamine hits that stepping away from the screen makes you feel like you're in danger. Start small: cut propaganda out of your life for a week and don't change anything else. If you're still in physical danger, start by finding security: barricade your apartment door, create a makeshift weapon, look into moving somewhere less dangerous, etc. Most likely you're not in actual physical danger, but you might be if you live among niggers, and fixing that should be your second priority after cutting out the propaganda.
By the way, Anon Babble is flooded with propaganda. You'll need to cut out Anon Babble as well. Find one of the book recommendation threads, download the books, and then don't come back. Read the books when you're bored and have free time.
Appreciate you taking the time to help me on my path of being less of a loser bitch, man.
Yeah, it's like the stupid boomer bootstraps shit sorta. Gotta keep going. Pick yourself up and keep trying. Most people give up. If you don't, you eventually make it. Really does work.
successful people are born into it, theres no advice to be given. they fail their way to the top than lord over you. this will be your life. hope youre not a pussy and can take it.
I am not desperate for society's approval i am desperate for approval of people i like and that are important to me.
Okay, that I can agree with and it makes total sense.
Also not all of society is fake and gay and awful as many people always claim here.
That's a reasonable perspective and I agree with it.
Just bear in mind that fucked up societies will use loneliness against you, e.g. FOMO, party culture, tinder.
My advice is to view it as solitude until you find people you can connect with.
Also not all of society is fake and gay and awful as many people always claim here
Actually it is. That's the red pill. Learning to live with it and finding ways to enjoy yourself anyway is a big part of growing up.
you want to achieve something by your own merit, go play games. real life is a rigged piece of shit, would not recommend to anyone whos not rich.
No prob, I hope you're successful. Anon Babble is a big reason I'm as successful as I am, and I'm happy to pay it forward.
Bideo games
don't games just seem more gay as you become a fully actualized adult? i find zero enjoyment in them and stopped playing them over a decade ago. you'd rather play some faggot racing game than go drive a car on your roads that don't have speed limits?
Break down what you need to do into small concrete steps and be honest about what you can
This is the move i already do that kinda but i have trouble sticking to it. Because dopamine addiction. If things can't be done right away i lose the goal in front of my eyes. And then i feel like it's all pointless and give up. It used to be way worse. It got better when i started writing things down. And the cutting out propaganda thing would be the next move. Thats probably the root cause of my worries and demoralization. Overall sound advice all i need to do is stick to it and try not to freak out. Keep my mind calm enough to actually get shit done.
car upkeep and gas is too expensive to use for leisure unless you are already very successful
It’s losers like this who are just born to fail. Slave mentality, without any balls or backbone.
This guy is right. Boomers are right, even if there are despicable people.
It’s possible to think this way and still ‘play the game.’ I do. Some sort of collapse is clearly coming soon, could be 2 weeks or 10 years. It’s best to be prepared, don’t you think? You can be prepared alone in a shitty apartment with fat loser roommates, or you can be prepared in a decent house with a garage full of prepper stuff and family you can depend on.
its all bullshit, champaign chad has all his stuff car and house payed by daddy when hes 25 and you can work your ass off until youre 50, alone, burned out. its all a fucking waste of time. dont do it, man. enjoy life anyway you can. dont fall for the traps. its to enslave everyone so champaign chad can fuck his harem of whores and you work for it.
unlike you i have my own business, but it doesnt do shit. i know what im talking about, unlike you rich snobby assholes.
The fastest, best way to break dopamine addiction is to dopamine fast for a week, and then be very deliberate about dopamine stimuli when you end the fast.
Good luck.
Meh whatever. I earned all those inherited gifts on my own merits, raised in poverty, by age 30. Chad was 5 years ahead..okay cool. Hes addicted to coke now and Im a respected adult.
Then again I am American, cant speak for the hopelessness of Europe.
it's actually real cheap, especially if you aren't a retard and can change fluids yourself. what upkeep are you even thinking about
I own a failing business, i know what im talking about
Did gigachad make your business fail too?
Didn't read your post, I just want you to know that things will get much worse.
I thank you man. This type of response wasn't what i expected from here. Positively surprised.
eat healthy. you are what you eat . it affects how you feel and think, and how you treat others
isolate yourself from society, it is wicked and will be destroyed soon
Driving a car isnt a hobby lol what is this?
always stay busy
that's the secret to being successful no matter the circumstances
how do you define success tho? I live alone, have gf, decent paying stable job, qualifications, savings, in very good shape, no health issues so far etc. My success is attributed to the path of destiny laid before me, I didn't do anything that wasn't predetermined.
I’m not rich, lol. Rich people have boats, second homes, and stock options. I’m sharing advice for middle and lower-middle class people. You don’t need to be rich to have the right mindset of building your wealth and planning for the future.
Find a wife, not for sex but for psychological reasons, 99% male friends you make are fucking stupid and useless with 0 psychological understanding of your soul, a wife will clock you in days and if she loves you it will be the greatest experience you'll ever have not because of sex but because you'll have found your SOULMATE. Someone you can actually talk to and not just hurl funny jokes as you do with male friends.
College prof of chemistry here - Millennial, just started a tenure track position this Fall and worked a contract position for five years before that. Making about 80K now, keeping up with loans and saving for a down payment on my first home (might be next Summer if the market can unfuck itself for a few months). My first year teaching after graduation was a clusterfuck, I was working 13-14 hour days during the week and coming into the office every weekend, I was pushing 80 hours a week trying to stay on top of everything, and all the while making things harder for myself by constantly taking on other shit - committee work, admin shit, reports, stuff that's irritating and time consuming and nobody likes doing but has to be done. Six years later, I'm still averaging 60 hours a week during the academic year and 30 in the off season staying on top of research and admin shit, but I'm managing it now.
Boomers love to hammer all that pull yourself up by the grindstone keep your nose to the midnight oil burn the bootstraps shit, and it's fucking tiresome, but they're not wrong. There's only three paths to success: You can be born to it, you can luck into it, or you can work at it; and if your family isn't wealthy or connected, and if you don't win the lottery or trip over a lockbox full of bullion buried in a field, then your only option is to find something you're reasonably competent at and work your ass off at it. Does working hard guarantee success? No. Did Boomers have an objectively easier and more forgiving path from hard work to success 30-40 years ago? Unquestionably. Are their kikes who will take advantage of your hard work instead of rewarding it? Abso-fucking-lutely. But you play the hand you're dealt.
Ignore the faggots telling you to give up and be a useless eater.
Ignore the scammers trying to sell you on their get rich quick schemes.
Work hard and take advantage of opportunities to do the important shit everyone hates doing.
a new car costs around the median annual wage of an american and you cant do any real repairs yourself because jew auto manufacturers make it as hard as possible to do anything yourself
i cant even reach the fucking lightbulbs in my headlights because they made the space too small for someone with regular hands
all the old cars that were easy to do repairs on were destroyed in cash4clunkers by boomers and king nigger
The only thing in this life you actually have control over - real control over - is your own mind.
Remember that.
WHat do you WANT?
Not what do you want to desire, what do you really want?
Willpower means controlling your will.
Take charge of your feelings, there is no other definition of the self.
You feel always exactly what you WANT to feel and nothing else.
Meditate on that truth.
Master the self.
I miss having friends, i have long term gf but my male friends moved away after studies, I wanna shoot the shit with the lads
doing fucking what lmao
working for an unlivable wage? doing some pointless hobbies? the fuck
i made 9k in 3 hours the other week. failing is a matter of perspective but im old. im FUCkING OLD YOU STUPID NIGGER!
youre supposed to have money when youre 25 not 50!
I don't wanna isolate more. Have been doing that since covid because people acted like retards and friendships died because of it. Humans are social beings if you can go through your life without anyone and be fine good for you but the vast majority of people can't even. Based people can't. It's not natural to be alone. And like i said earlier not everyone is bad nog everyone in society is backstabbing evil and cruel. The ones that are like that you avoid at all costs. But what i need are people that are cool and nice and just good people to be around. And they do exist somewhere. The only problem is how i find them.
Secret. It isn't a secret. It is dedication, commitment and focus to achieve a series of goals, and overcoming setbacks no matter how many times they occur. And it doesn't start at 26 it starts at 6 months of human life and builds from there. Life doesn't begin at 30. It begins at the first cry. Get busy. You are way behind the curve.
The system won't collapse any time soon.
it will. war is nearly here. anybody planning to integrate within the current system is planning to fail
The only thing in this life you actually have control over - real control over - is your own mind.
Don't think of a pink elephant.
Point disproven.
lmao what, if you treat an american girl like your best friend you can confide in about everything and show weakness to she will get the ick and find someone else before even dumping you, and then either cheat you or dump you to fuck some other guy immediately without warning
secrets
Its who you know, the connections you have/make, and how much your parents support you through youth-adulthood
what keeps me going
Success enough to keep moving on. My last ‘loser hurdle’ is not married by 31. Past that I’m chillin’.
how did i make it
Not a 75iq chimp, did well in school. Probably some amount of autist/ocd, but can normie-pass. As i said prior, folks helped out with shit like paying for college. My career isn’t one where I compete with the unwashed hordes for entry (fireman), and also is a pussy magnet. Get a trade/hands-on job. Being physically competent is an actual major step up nowadays where most kids couldn’t tell you the working end of a screwdriver.
political standpoint
I’m here, so anything less than right-wing is a lie, but I am primarily so for economic factors than social ones. I’m fairly moderate socially, at least irl
Lawyer with my own firm in a high-building in CR with 29 yo here, just grind 24 expecting no results, in like 6months you will start seeing results
I make 0$ the first month of my solo practice, like 200$ my second one, at the first year I started doing like 10k$ per month
Just grind and be patience
Also don't enjoy your 20s, thats a waste of time and can ruin you for ever, work to automate your work and retire as soon as possible
A well endewed 40yo can bang 20yo chicks in his yatch easily than a looksmaxxed and gymaxxed 20yo
there has to be losers for there to be winners and the conditions we live in now make it so even the "winners" can barely scrape together a middle class lifestyle
I pooed my pants
Why would you consult with people who are retarded or pretend to be retarded? You might get one piece of good advice in this whole thread the rest will be bait and bullshit Are you even in a good enough state to spot, absorb and use the advice if its here?
My first car was a 1970 VW beetle. Cost me about $1k and i put another $1-$2k into it rebuilding and upgrading it over the life of the vehicle. Did all my own work, changed my own oil. More money went into it for gas than anything else.
I owned that car for about 12 years before I finally neglected it and threw a rod. Pity, shame, embarassment, would cost another $1-$2k and some weeks to fix so I ditched it... but by then I could afford a brand new $50k car with my middle class income.
Whatre you trying to buy a new car for if youre on the internet whining about life failure?
Money stuff
Have some sort of income always no matter what. When you have enough to start making equity offers to reliable people/businesses around you, don't hesitate to make offers so long as they won't sink you. Income is king. Learn to apply your monetary influence. 9-5 is toxic and you need to do all you can while young to avoid it by your 40s or things will get much more difficult.
Altseason begins soon. Do not be stupid. Start learning about "that crypto stuff" today. Do not keep putting this off.
Spirituality/Nihilism
No one will ever walk up and hand you meaning to being alive. You have to create your own. You have to choose to be inspired by things, to see positive aspects and overcome negatives. You have to commit to the "fake it until you make it" mentality Americans always drone on about. It's not because there's some magic spell involved, it's because no one else has found that meaning you're searching for either, they just keep getting distracted by it. The truth is, "meaning" for you being here is inherently obscured and you agreed to those terms before you arrived.
As for being all hopeless, put it well enough already. Immense budgets are spent regularly to ensure you keep feeling this way. If you give in, they are properly applying their budgets and your adversaries succeed where you fail. Is that what you want? Or do you want to embrace who you're meant to be or, at the very least, live a life worth living? Truthfully, you can certainly have that, but not if you just sit there and wallow. The whole "do something about it" mentality really works, not just because of the distraction, but because little wins mount and eventually you get to experience the cascading bliss that accompanies reaching your zenith, Apotheosis. Anyone can do this, but it takes dedication.
Be a slave like me! Sometimes Master Kike will give me a 5% raise against 30% inflation!
You disgust me.
I’ve been a neet for 14 years and let me tell you I’m very happy I love it. I worked very hard to get to where I am today. By never having a job I’ve been able to log thousands of hours in vidya and animu and I have kept my mind and body strong by working out and getting jacked. For my mind I have spent countless hours playing strategy games reading quality doujins and countless high effort shitposts. It feels good to accomplish everything you want to do. I suggest you eat lots of protein and pick up heavy things and enjoy your hobbies it’s all a man needs to achieve his dream. Never let anyone tell you that you can’t achieve what you want in life
there are no old cars available to buy for $1k you fucking old newfag idiot
But what i need are people that are cool and nice and just good people to be around.
Stop being racist.
then she does not actually love you, I PRAY that you find love
What kind of NPC visualizes a pink elephant and considers the concept of this animal with this coloring just by seeing the words for it? Im not a computer, I can acknowledge and disregard commands.
If this wasnt retarded, then I can fix your entire psychology immediately. Here we go!
Think about a positive and motived life paradigm
/thread, youre fixed
Or retarded.
I will live and die a poor man. Ideally, dying for my God in service to my people. To the poor and oppressed. If you want to be a rich man do not follow my example.
It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.
Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
And how would i go about doing that?
Look up learned helplessness and take steps to cure it
Focus on meditation and learning to ignore the dumb parts of your brain.
Have some daily steps towards your goal everyday not with the goal of success but with the goal of doing things despite your brain telling you its pointless.
Let Me tell you a story, German-bro. I graduated high school eager as a rabid beaver, tremendously anxious to get out there and go to college and expand my mind, learn new things, meet more interesting people than I had to deal with in high school. Imagine my crushing disappointment when college turned out to be high school 2.0, but with more arrogant midwits and sluttier girls. I crashed into a depressed state of mind, tanked my grades and hobbies, gave up on life. At age 20, I hit rock bottom and didn't find a reason to wake up. I thought seriously several times about ending it all. But every time I did, I thought about the laughing smug faces of my inferiors knowing that they were right to feel contempt for Me. Burning righteous hatred kept Me going, working a day at a time to get fit, work with My hands, grind away at the deficiencies in My character. I turned ruthless with Myself and with those who had no value to Me. Little by little I kept pushing forward to achieve My dreams, knowing the whole time that I was always right and that I was always better than everyone else around Me, and that this was the time to start proving it. Now I am a published mathematician with a six-figure income driven by three major things: to understand and solve everything related to my chosen field, to feed and fatten up My SSBBW feedee trophy blobwife to infinite proportions, and to make pitbosses in casinos all over the world lose sleep at night knowing that I could be coming for their blackjack tables.
You? Do the same. Prove the losers and niggerfaggots of your past wrong. In your blood and genes lies a god; birth him into existence, Mein freund. I'm rooting for you. Sieg Heil.
Its not really a secret though. It just took a long time. Now I am 38 and feel old. I’m not even rich yet but I make around $250k and run my own business from home in Hawaii. At a certain point i literally just said “fuck it, I’m moving to Hawaii”, networked with a bunch of business owners, now I’m a consultant. Its the natural flow of things. I’m still neurotic as fuck though and many years of hard drugs has damaged my system. But I have a jet ski and go fishing often. That’s all I wanted, was the ability to fish in saltwater whenever I want. And I got that, and I love it. Can anyone do what I do? Yeah basically. But I’m sure there are bros in here with easier methods than mine. Protip: don’t move to Hawaii
most people in society are wicked, they are just veiled behind fake smiles
society will be destroyed. we must separate or we will go down with it.
it doesn't necessarily mean total isolation. i ching 24 says:
When misfortune has spent itself, better times return
The old is discarded and the new is introduced
Societies of people sharing the same views are formed.
WE must separate from our wicked, doomed societies
You’re not white
Gad damn you people are so fucking stupid....
to feed and fatten up My SSBBW feedee trophy blobwife to infinite proportions, and to make pitbosses in casinos all over the world lose sleep at night knowing that I could be coming for their blackjack tables.
Grim
there is good advice here
The "fuck it" is quite powerful
Nothing brings out your best more than taking yourself out of your comfort xone. Adventure breeds heroism.
Kudos to you sir.
2010
old
thats a relatively new piece of shit thats probably impossible to work on yourself and its about to break down
This lifestyle can work for some people it didn't work for me. Call me a normalfag whatever. It just doesn't work i end up rotting in bed all day constantly worrying about things i didn't achieve yet. So i started to fix my life but it's a slow process and the years of doing nothing (roughly 3) did some serious damage on my confidence and ability to speak with people. I am just very nervous in general now something that rarely happend before covid and when i still regularly interacted with people and friends. Its Its slowly getting better but i am not used to do work or go out much so when i have a strict timeplan for the day consisting of work and shit i often times get so nervous i can barely keep my shit together. It's really bad i might have to see therapy for it. Even though i am hesitant because meds make you into a fucking zombie. I know i was forced to take some when i was 15. So i try to avoid this
Grim
I'll bite. How so?
take vitamin d
I do not think most men are ready to take my advice. Only those who are very faithful and very brave would want to follow my advice.
Be debt free.
This is only good if you don't know how to apply monetary influence. If you have to survive on running your own business or a 9-5, you'll never get out of this whole without an increased risk appetite.
When you're in the bottom rung of wealth, you have nothing to lose and need to play glorified scratch off lotteries to get out. It's about finding outsized potential and exploiting it as often as possible. Eventually you'll hit. Heading up, you'll have some kind of income and maybe live paycheck to paycheck. Here, you'll want to have a little bit of money sitting around in case of emergencies and Ramsey is right about this, but you'll still be investing basically everything otherwise and looking for a lottery win still. Next is some kind of scenario with leverage, like skilled labor, where you can charge for your time. If you can charge high prices, look for opportunities to start your own business. You'll want to scale yourself out of labor as soon as possible and that'll mostly be accomplished by training apprentices. All scenarios inevitably lead to equity acquisition, however, so you can earn passive income. Couple this with assets that earn income with little overhead and intervention and you will eventually carve away enough leisure time to do as you please when you please. From here, you want to diversify to multiple veins of this sort of monetary allocation to alleviate any active dedication to Labor. Afterward, Leisure Time is dramatically important to maintain.
Leisure Time gives way to focus on Health, Spirituality and Family. This is where true Wealth is contained and this is the footing for building a real Legacy in life. Do you want an Empire? Your children will never work a 9-5 or your dreams are hopeless. That means setting them up with the means to achieve this by the time you die and they reach adulthood.
To circle back around, Debt is Leverage and necessary in most/all stages. Focus on decreasing Risk Appetite instead.
You're slowly killing your wife and wasting any disposable income and time on gambling
jesus h, you’re a massive faggot, please don’t breed
I already do that
probably the jew doctor recommended amount of fuck all 1000 IU
you could need up to 10k a day
Shoot that goal post needs to be moved.
Who gives a shit retard? Its a cheap car.
16 years ago isnt old
Literally retarded.
Sorry for the whining. Again this place is the only place to vent so i will do it now. I normally wouldn't make a thread like this but things are really bothering me atm so i have to. You can click off and browse your favorite bait and shill threads instead if you don't like reading my shit.
Marry rich
last car you posted was in florida, this has no info on location, how far across the country did you have to go to find it?
I did take 10 K for about a month in February and March didn't notice a difference so i am back at 2 K every day
Who gives a shit retard? Its a cheap car.
its $1000 for something that will instantly break down and cost $10000 to fix
Forget about politics.
If your life is garbage, then you need to fix that first.
Get yourself some vitamin D and switch to sugar free drinks for starters. That will help with depression.
Also you need a goal.
People need incentives. I learned that in rehab.
You want to live lower than your means so you can save money/ Get ahead.
Not sure what your problem is, but gut health plays a big role in how you feel.
Try a Pescatarian diet for a few weeks.
You can still eat deenz and eggs and if you get a dallas with bacon in it or something it's OK. You don't have to be super strict.
I was kind all my life and was only used and lied to by everyone I met, that and I was never treated as an equal. This advice has always been bullshit and is always given by people who have lots going on in their life and werent just trailer park shit that would amount to nothing. Also my mom lied and beat me so I guess I was fucked even if being nice worked. Glad your enjoying your pre-determined life that you did nothing to impact but you deluded yourself into thinking you did.
You're slowly killing your wife
That's the feeder/feedee lifestyle, friend. Death comes for us all; she's going out smiling and happy as a pig in mud indulging insanely in everything she loves, comfy and kept in bed all day. She never has to lift a finger, just eat and nap and smoke weed and fuck. Never mind the fact that most girls would murder their own mothers for such a guaranteed lifestyle without needing to breed; she's going out on her own terms with a massive orgasm to accompany her last heart attack. We should all be so lucky.
>wasting any disposable income and time on gambling
Advantage play is investing; gambling is what boomers and niggers do.
be nice to people and people will reciprocate
I learned this lesson very recently as a health and safety guy. I got brought on to carvana a few months ago because people were getting hurt left and right. My boss was some negative attitude faggot who never really attempted to bring the facility into compliance. Only cares about asset protection. Meanwhile our insurance rates were off the chart.
Anyway when I was brought on, my boss told me that I have no real authority to make people comply, because corporate is filled with a bunch of gen x faggots that don’t have the balls to tell the production GMs that osha and the EPA are going to shut us down.
So I had to “kill them with kindness”. Over the past year I have reduced our incident rate by 75% and I’m the golden boy of health and safety in corporate’s eyes. Made my boss look like an incompetent pussy. I remember we were running a site out reach event and he got really jealous how everyone was coming up to me, talking to me. Showing me pictures of their newborn grand kids. I know everyone’s names (450 employees). All while he’s been at the site for 5 years and only the managers know him, but they never respected him.
tldr
You can accomplish so much by just having a little humility and empathy for the people you interact with. You don’t have to best friends with them. But learning their name and asking about the family is always appreciated.
weird, maybe the kind of pill you used didnt absorb well, i use 1000iu pills that are gel caps with vegetable oil in them and i take multiple of them, not one or two single tiny 5000 iu pills with no fat or something
plus eating fat with it will guarantee absorption better and give it more consistent absorption too
Can we have a thread in which successful people share their secrets.
It was pure luck.
t. millionnaire
He really does think it was all due to him, but he just got lucky with family and childhood
Take an interest in what others are doing and they’ll take an interest in you.
Why do you still work there?
Best advice yet.
/thread
The fastest, best way to break dopamine addiction is to dopamine fast for a week,
Here i have a image for that
No they don't. They just give you a weird look and awkward responses because they dont want to speak to you, they only want to speak to people that give them benifit.
You're here forever, nigger.
You guys are so fucking retarded that youre crying about being poor because you cant afford servants to fix your car for you.
This is no different than my car situation in 2005. Adjusting dor inflation, its cheaper even. Buy cheap car, buy new engine, install the engine, stop being a stupid fucking helpless god damn nigger holy shit
Be nice to everyone. When you put out good energy, it's almost always reciprocated.
great way to get taken advantage of. don't listen to this moron.
I could try different ones again but i think my problems are mainly in my mind. I did get blood tests done recently and everything was fine. Will get testosterone checked soon and see if its high or low. I probably guess its fine also. But who knows. The main thing i need to do is get off the internet and actually stop watching doomer shit all the time. Only makes me more nervous and panicky
you're right. I did get lucky. growing up in an affluent area with two loving parents. anon instead of being spiteful, do some reflection
Kill your boss.
I walked across the street and asked my neighbor if it was for sale fucknuts. The image demonstrates that these cars can be found within 15 seconds of looking.
Try actually trying in life. Things are only hard because you are literally incapable of even attempting to do anything.
Agreed. We don't live in an anime. We live in a lame and gay world that governed by the thoughts of sociopathic normies who only care if you benifit them somehow
I did get blood tests done recently and everything was fine.
blood tests dont check for anything but extreme life threatening deficiencies that will literally kill you in a year or two or so
Wow, relflect on how his life sucked and how it wont get better. You normies really all are nasty sociopaths arent you
The image demonstrates that these cars can be found within 15 seconds of looking.
the image demonstrates or at least implies that you found the car online not from your neighbor
Things are only hard because you are literally incapable of even attempting to do anything.
ive looked at used cars and everything was 10k for something 15+ years old with hundreds of thousands of miles
positive life advices
I just picture my death every day and realize that material wealth won’t bring me any peace of mind. I just want freedom. A roof over my head and food and endless hours to spent on what I want to do instead of working for the Jewish market or system or status. Watching paint dry on my accord is preferable than any work.
Waaaa waaah I can't be happy because people I don't know are doing things that I can't control. waaaa waaaah
Grow up retard
Yeah probably right. It's difficult to convince the doctors to get extensive tests done our epic "free" healthcare system doesn't pay for that. Maybe i just should pay for it myself but i am also a broke fag with no money. Hopefully i get a job soon. I already got some opportunities in line. Also i will buy a car today typing this while i am in the train. Wish me luck guys i am fucking nervous af for some reason. It pisses me of i never was anxious but over the last few weeks it got worse and worse. This was one of the reasons i made this thread in the first place. You guys think it could help to see a therapist because of this. I don't plan on taking meds but maybe talking to someone could help idk
Let it out anon
the most successful person i know from my generation was a retarded wigger sociopath raised by a single mother, became a meth dealer who travelled the country whoring out women and selling meth, went to prison for 3 years for selling meth, and was told in prison by another inmate where to go and what to do (legally, afaik) to be successful. he now owns a yacht
this country is made for sociopaths. americans literally want to be grifted. if you arent bullshitting everyone around you trying to pretend you're way better than you really are (effectively), your fellow american will recoil in disgust and horror at your lack of desire to scam them. just look at how much they love trump
just picture my death every day
I do this
And its not helpful at all makes me more nervous and anxious. Its so gay i don't wanna talk about this i never talk about this with anyone because its embarrassing to be perfectly honest but its really getting to the point where i have trouble doing the shit i need to do
Wheres that comic about the retard who cant figure out how to pet a dog? Can someone post it?
I found that image TODAY i bought that car TWENTY YEARS AGO.
Retard
Have you tried looking for more than 5 minutes? What about setting a filter to within your price range?
Have you tried not being an insufferable fucking helpless moron?
So it's Trump fault
You don't belong here you empathy ridden freak. This site is for the dregs of society, the sewer runoff filled with people who have no-one care if they died tomorrow. We dont want people who were given a basic life to start hanging it over our heads of what we could have had. Just know you're life was never given to you from hard work. Your talentless and lack empathy and that will be your downfall when those supporting you wither away and you are left with nothing
Are we related
you probably need magnesium
when you are deficient in one vitamin long enough (in this case vitamin d) you end up deficient in everything but you still needed the vitamin d most of all first. now you need the rest. theres sort of a pattern based on which one you were deficient in. for vitamin d its probably magnesium, vitamin a, k, then other electrolytes, maybe methylated b vitamins and the rest, im not really sure everyone is different but thats how it was for me
You don't belong here you empathy ridden freak. This site is for the dregs of society, the sewer runoff filled with people who have no-one care if they died tomorrow. We dont want people who were given a basic life to start hanging it over our heads of what we could have had. Just know you're life was never given to you from hard work. Your talentless and lack empathy and that will be your downfall when those supporting you wither away and you are left with nothing
Have you tried looking for more than 5 minutes? What about setting a filter to within your price range?
lmao first site and i cant even set the filter below 7k. it has a literal minimum of 7k price. what the fuck? lmao
and every car in the list is 12-15k
Social anxiety? Always had some issues but covid lockdown idolation changed me
There’s nothing embarrassing about it, it’s a mere fact. It is freeing to me, knowing that all shit I could accumulate, whether it’s emotional or material won’t last. So I rather do things I enjoy than things people believe I should enjoy. Why would you want to be "successful" in the eyes of others?
Nonsense. You misunderstand me. I meant little details like remember names, issues people have had, how/if they overcome them, knowing a little about their area of expertise and so on etc in low-key ways which don’t come across as creepy as you said. Particularly effective in job interviews, as you come across as proactive rather than a mere time-server.
next site, carvana
price range, minimum of 6k
nothing shows up if i set it to 6 to 6 thousand
set it to 6 to 10 thousand, every single car is 10k
That is the worst advice he could give you, being nice will never get you anywhere anon.
Okay so youre retarded and fail at trivial tasks which everyone else can handle effortlessly.
Work on that first. Best solution is to kill yourself. You cant be helped.
Before covid i never really had issues with that. It's probably the compounding effect of all my fuck ups and bad Choices catching up to me. I am relatively young 23 i still have time to get things in order but i haven't done anything helpful in a long time and starting to get things back together is difficult and thats probably the main source of my anxiety. I just need to push through and focus on the things i can do it will get better but it's really hard atm.
next website, carmax. price range filter starts at a minimum of $6,000
at this point you're just gaslighting me
Work on that first. Best solution is to kill yourself. You cant be helped.
i hope niggers kill you in front of your family
extensive
Go to an hausarzt and ask for a großes blutbild(probably like 70 euro)
Don't waste time on political slop
I would moderate your advice, I think overall it's fine to have a strong political opinion, but you should always try to stay grounded, try to see how stupid you look from the other side, always question your own ideology as harshly as you criticize other ideologies.
That probally worked in the 60s but not today. I've put myself out there so much excersizing that type of advice and it has left me with nothing.
I don't want to be successful for others really i want to be successful for myself. I want to get things done. But i have problems getting things done the way i want to and this is the cause of my anxiety and constant worries
Also be patient with peoples shortcomings, refrain from advice giving unless asked and never talk over them in ways they will not understand, surefire ways to make yourself disliked.
read no more mr nice goy
basically it is just
you have been raised by wemen
you subconsciously think ithere is a way to do things "right" and "correct" and if you do it that way then you will have no problems
this is bullshit
you will forever have problems, you will die alone etc.
It’s understandable I think one has to have a lot of mental fortitude to be alone with their own thoughts for years at a time. You really have to love yourself and im fucking great I’m the main character so I quite enjoy my solitude. But it’s not for everyone. Especially if you have that ambition defect or the empathy or regret defect, I don’t feel those things so it’s not an issue.
But what are you worried about? Nobody is going to judge you if you didn’t get things done the way you want them. All your worries will dissolve into the ether once you die, from that standpoint it doesn’t even make sense to be worried. Just keep doing what you are doing, lad. Eventually you’ll make it before you hit the eternal peace. And if not, that’s fine too
It’s sounds like you’ve tried to “fix” dysfunctional people, that’s not what I meant and is always a hiding to nothing, which paradoxically leads on to another hard won system of knowing which people to give a wide berth (spoiler alert: the majority.)
We are inflating the price so your monthly payments are higher.
We have the same issues, my father also tells me ich "lebe am leben vorbei". Its like days pass by and i can't move and feel stuck. Covid increased my anxieties by a lot(alcohol consumption included) i feel like a lot of psychological damage during covid is not even showing it's full effects yet(maybe i'am projection, men usually don't share their feelings)
I'm a multimillionaire and I retired at 34. Realistically, working hard won't get you anywhere, you have to learn where and how to take advantage of something to get ahead.
Lift you gotta lift it works because when you walk past a mirror you say god damn look at that handsome strong mother fucker and it instantly gets rid of any of the bad feelings. That girl advice about loving yourself is true you gotta love yourself and if you don’t you gotta change what you don’t love and then your golden.
Heidegger wrote of thrownness, we are born into a world not of our choosing. Make of that what you will.
Yeah no normal person ever had to consider this shit when they made friends or talked to people. I've tried for years and got nothing so I don't care anymore. I'll rot alone in my room with my hobbies, at least then I could die without a mask being left on my face
If you have no friends or family then who fucking cares. No-one lifts for themselfs you guru faggot.
I was born to rich parents. With that done, everything else kinda just fell into place.
Sick of you, fags. Not everyone as the room, winch, ability to drop an engine, the time, let alone the knowhow. That engine isn't even pulled out of the goddamn car, so they'd have to do it twice. At least once likely onset. Fuck off.
You do it for your health you have a terrible mindset don’t you want to be healthy? Don’t you want to live for as long as possible? Don’t you not want your body to shut down on you? Don’t you not want to see a disgusting slob when you look at yourself? Who the fuck does anything for a women especially something for your personal health? Get that simp shit out of your head faggot. You lift so you know you can kill another man with your bare hands. That is real confidence.
Why would I want to live long? I hate this world and my life. I dont want to live into my 30s. Lifting has no effect on my mental state other than 10 mintues of distraction after my workout is complete, from which then my everyday life is still the same. Also I'm 5'9 with small wrists. I am killing no-one even if I got to a 2 plate bench
Lol aw poor thing cant figure out how to take an engine out of a car.
Ill walk you through it:
1: get a skateboard, a socket wrench set, and a carjack with some jackstands. ~$100-$150
2: jack up the car, put it in stands, lower jack
3: jack up under the engine
4: disconnect all wires and bolts, and slide engine out of the mounting onto the jackstand
5: lower jackstand and place engine on the skateboard.
Thats it. Youve graduated from caveman nigger to human child level of expertise.
Eat shit, I've dropped engines, and what you're suggesting is fucked. I put a Ford Escape engine with 80k on in a Mazda Tribute. People don't do this shit for a reason.
Cool story bro, i dropped my engine 3 or 4 times to work on it because it was easier/more convenient to work on that way.
Learned helplessness.
I frankensteined a car once
Cool, sounds retarded... But the good kind
10 minute workout
I workout for 3 hours a day what the fuck kinda gains do you think your going to get if you only work out for 10 minutes? You should just kill yourself if you don’t want to live long and be healthy. Why get fat you know that shit is gonna take a long time for you to die from. I don’t have much advice to give that will fix you eat a bullet or I guess in your case a plastic spork but you get the analogy
I was fortunate enough to be autistically into coding as a teenager, scraped a bachelors and masters degree, got hired by a small shitty company, 3 years later got hired by a sub-FAANG big tech company and that was 4 years ago.
I wasn't good at maths in school but I developed an intuition for programming and I had good
I'm now autistically obsessed with optimising my finances so I have £200k in savings, although a bit less than half that is my pension.
So I guess my advice is to be autistic, but not the type that's obsessed with trains.
What keeps you going
Money and pussy. I don't dislike my job but I would quit or work very little if I didn't need money. I am reasonably good looking and not too autistic to get laid occasionally, but I assume I could get more and better pussy with money (I'd spend more time travelling to places where quality pussy congregates).
Whats your political standpoint
I only really care about myself. I go on Anon Babble for entertainment. What I notice is I think I care a lot more about nationalism and the white race when I'm on here than I do IRL. I think if we really took from the top 0.01% of foruns and kept their population low it would be fine, I don't care about racial purity but I don't want my descendants to be dark, stupid, Muslims, smelly or have small dicks.
I also have a coloniser fetish.
how do you keep yourselves from being obsessed with politics
See above
Can you share some of your secrets/ positive life advices.
Use maths to make decisions. I started modelling everything from different investment portfolios to what order to ride the rides at a theme park so that I make mathematically optimal decisions as much as possible. I use AI a lot to find information and generate code.
I mean the 10 mins after my workout. The workouts i do are usually 45 min to an hour. You're just as much of a lonely piece of shit as me if you workout for 3 hours. A google search can tell you thats a waste of time. You might want to ive long because you enjoy life but I dont, so don't try and understand my point of view.
Don't ask successful people. They'll attribute it to various things for the sake of their own ego, not think to mention things they always regarded as common sense and to them need no explaining or attention, have blindsppts in regards to what was luck, or worsy case even intentionally give bad advice out of self interest. Ask unsuccessful people who are honest with themselves instead. They're the ones with the perspective to see what was done versus what was not done, the separation to see what really works, the traps a person can fall into, nothing to gain by lying, and the incentive to be honest about it all in the hope they can still achieve some measure of success themselves and improve their own life still. For someone just getting themselves started a 45 year old working at mcdonald's wracked with regrets has advice on how not to repeat their mistakes that is just if not more valuable than a powerful CEO on what you need to do to start yourself in the path to success. The successful people can teach you the ins and outs of how to navigate and best take advantage of systems better and more detail, specfic opportunities on the horizon to look out for, and the finer points of it all but for general direction and broad stokes the losers know better.
You bring up a good point though, getting out of your comfort zone is the key here. That said, the stress involved in going from knowing you have a comfy job and a paycheck you can count on, to doing work with companies with fucking NET120 terms, is a new kind of stress I was never prepared for. After a couple years its become more stable, but things like days off and normal working hours are a thing of the past.
But to anyone reading this, if you’re not satisfied working for someone else, you never will be. I’ve made every dollar out of the last 500k with my own two hands, not one dollar of investment. If this old ex-heroin junkie can do it, anyone can.
Just gotta be able to say “fuck it” and mean it.
I was just lucky. I used to browse Anon Babble from 2007 to 2011. I came across the early silkroad threads, where you could buy weed and other drugs. The threads had instructions on how to access the site with tor and how to buy the drugs with bitcoin, and how to mine bitcoin. I would mine a lot, but I was too pussy to actually buy the drugs I wanted to try. I still lived at home with my parents, so I never went through with it. I kept all the bitcoin, you can figure out the rest.
Every success person I know was nepotism. Even the forklift operator I knew who was addicted to H had a girl whose dad gave him a job in construction working a backhoe, and then taught him mechanic BS in a garage. It is what it is, man.
No it dosen't. We live in the modern era were alot of natural insticts just dont apply...ffs, your life is ruled by pedophiles that thinks its funny that we are ingesting micro plastics. You're life is determined, any attempt to change your life isint an attempt, its jus thow things were meant to go.
mark cuban: get lucky as fuck then pretend you're a genius while spending a shitload of money paying people to educate you until you really are a genius
Also he's a jewish faggot. Only retards take his advice
I need to pick that back up. When i did lift i felt better but also more fatigued. Overtraining or whatever. Like i said i believe the main problem is in my head. Unfortunately there is no easy way to fix that at least i haven't found one yet. Gotta keep trying.
Lie cheat or steal
The only people with nice house and cars are governmnet works cops and drug dealers and they all just do what they want
Idiot. Lifting dosent fix your life
Translation: Suck the priest's filthy cock after mass abd he will hook you up with a fake comfy job.
bump
google sesrch
Do zoomers really? You should learn to enjoy life anon it’s gonna be with you for a while. Sorry the depression is kicking your as bro but you gotta drop that loser mentality because when you do try to kill yourself you will bitch out and then what are you gonna do? Too cowardly
to end it too cowardly to change anything about it. You could just skip that bullshit and learn to enjoy life instead. Have you ever been muddin anon? Do they do that there? How the fuck you gonna tell me you don’t enjoy life if you have never been muddin? How is the surf in bong land? I’m sure you have beaches it’s an island. How the fuck you gonna not enjoy life if you don’t like surfing or fishing? Don’t you have pizza for the occasional cheat day? How the fuck you gonna not enjoy life if you don’t have a pizza day? You ever get your dick wet? How the fuck you gonna not enjoy your life if you don’t ever get your dick wet? Don’t you have a guitar how the fuck you gonna enjoy your life without the simple pleasure of making music? Don’t you have sunsets how the fuck you gonna enjoy life if you don’t have the sun which is to be praised? Life is all about enjoying the little moments in it that is what makes life enjoyable yeah there is a lot of bullshit in between those things but you can mitigate the bullshit sort yourself out son.
The tip I've give you germbro is to try to look at purchases over a long term instead of short term and research any single item purchases over whatever limit you think fits your budget best. If you don't have debt I'd suggest getting a cash back card and paying it off in full each month. Claim the cash back and invest it into the market so the necessities you purchase are indirectly making you money. If you're nervous about investing pick an index fund as they have almost no fees and great returns.
I have tried to "enjoy life" join clubs I found interesting, talk to people I found interesting, eat food I wanted to, tried to become jacked and more confident in my skin ect ect. I dont care anymore. Its all hollow. Nothing is worth pursuing in this world if you have no relationships. I lived my life as honest and humble as I could when I tried to learn to make friends and time and time again I was shoved to the side or outright ignore because everyone already has made their friends and their own cliqs and I had nothing to offer them, no-one ever went out of their way to speak to me, it was always me putting in the effort and for nothing in return. I've seen how people truly act, I cant even trust my own mother, so I dont care anymore. This world holds no value to me as I hold no value to it.
Nothing is worth pursuing in this world if you have no relationships
That is just total black pill le edgy teenage faggot dogshit. Like I said you gotta drop that loser defeatist mentality and seriously try going fishing or muddin I refuse to believe anyone can be miserable doing those two things alone. Keep lifting gains take time that is the beauty of them.
hes kind of right though and so are you
when your 90 have dimentia and cant even remember muddin
its not like you can take it with you lol
and your also right imagine not just haveing fun sometimes
even if the world is "hollow" (schitzo chads rise up) and flat dosent mean you have to not enjoy yourself
Use maths to make decisions. I started modelling everything from different investment portfolios to what order to ride the rides at a theme park so that I make mathematically optimal decisions as much as possible. I use AI a lot to find information and generate code.
This. Look deep enough into anything and you'll find math at its core. Reality is how math feels. If you cannot or will not use math to optimize and improve your life, you are not worthy to be called a human being.
That is just total black pill le edgy teenage faggot dogshit
It seems that way to you because you don't have to live an empty apartment
it seems that way to you because you most likely have family/friends who look forward to seeing you
It seems that way because you have substancial prospects and a path forward given to you by life
I've done hikes up beautiful mountains in Scotland but who cares? You have to go back to reality at the end of the day, busting your ass for the day does not fix the pre-determined life the world has given you
ig you dont like the apartment you know you can fix it right?
learn how to pain over a few weekends
each night or each weakend paint a mural on a wall lmao why not
get some peeps from your artclass to paint dope shit on your walls
yea it sucks but atleast you can laugh about how you have the doppest shittiest apartment ever
Yeah but it improves things.
dont get overly attached, everything passes. lots of friends then none, lots of hair then none, lots of sex then none, lots of money than none, lots of plans than none etc. my point is, dont go try hard on anything, be relaxed always thats the key. If you are relaxed you will succeed and to help you with that is that realization, not to take it to serious because it all goes away. Try to say No! in excited way and then say No! very relaxed. You will see what I mean. Charisma = relaxed, thats all there is to it. Find your relaxed spot and surf the kali yuga, dont let it break you, its all just a ride, we pretend to hard that we forget that often.
And also important, dont be an asshole.
yo this is my shitty apartment
ohh that yea thats robocop eating a t-rex while judge dread offers him a citation
ohhh yea my cealing just says thought crimes... i dno anyway lets watch a movie
lmao
If you think successful people post here, I can tell why you're not succesful
I havent been able to make friends to invite to my apartment. You both sound like reddit millenials right now. I get it, you dont actually have any problems in your life but if you can't give advice worth a damn then shut the fuck up
ton of famously successful people posted here newfag and that is only when they did not want to stay anons, how many more lurk or just post shit for lulz.
I am already invested in bitcoin. But the unemployment gibs were cut out have to get back on maybe i get a job soon but i can't be 100 percent sure. Might have to sell some Nivida stocks to get money for rent this month. Bank account is empty everything is invested. Only made like 1K profit over the last 3 months. Because of stupid shit. I bought solayer and this shit dropped hard afterwards lost like 1.5 K there just bs. Now i only own bitcoin xrp and stocks. I should sell some and reinvest soon. Might try leveraging the market but whit my luck i will just fuck it up and ruin the little profit i made so far.
Anon who mentioned anything about friends
be your own friend
(schitzo chads rise up)
but also thats great advice what is it that you want
you dont even know how to ask for what you want start their
you said you hated your shitty apartment
i said you dont have to hate your shitty apartment
you said things are hollow
i said your makeing them hollow
just because you dont understand the advice or even your problem dosent make it shitty
(schitzo chads rise up)
You joke about this type of mentallity but thats what you're telling me to do. Just pretend everything is ok, just pretend my life isin't dull and hollow. Just pretend the world likes me when from experince I know it does not...fuck off.
nobodys asking you to pretend anything
im telling you to make the moment dont allow the moment to make you
easier said than done
but you have a shitty apartment its not ok
never once did i say your apartments not shitty
you could make it less shitty though you could make it not hollow
and again im not even telling you to change so the world like you or pretend that it does
i dont think the world gives a fuck if im being honest its ambivilent
im also telling you if you give a fuck dont change thats fine but dont allow it to twist you into something your not
"omg people dont like me now i dont like me"
why?
if you dont like you change if you like you dont it really is that simple
why do you even want to be liked you dont even know what questions to ask let alone how to recognise an answer
do i like you?
Can we have a thread in which successful people share their secrets.
i'm fairly successful, i got lucky, that's it. anyone who tells you there's any secret other than luck is a fucking liar. yes all the other things like hard work and spotting opportunities are important but luck is always the main factor. whether it's luck of birthplace or birth family or being in the right place at the right time, it's all fucking luck. so be lucky punk. think about it, if an already successful person had some magic formula to becoming successful they'd be monetising that shit to fuck and they'd be able to back their shit up, because the people who were buying the magic product, would become fucking successful in front of everyone's eyes.
You can't expect a reasonable answer from schizos they are insane. Insanity can work for some people they just tell themselves so many lies until they start believing it. That they actually are the main character or whatever delusions they believe in. But being delusional will catch up to you sooner than later. Its not sustainable and other people won't associate with you if you act insane.
ya imagine how dumb he was before he paid for all his intellect when he's still this dumb
How can one be more lucky? There has to be a way somehow.
I want to be liked because I want to be part of a community, I think thats a pretty normal feeling. I dont want to stay in my apartment all day, I want to go out and enjoy life and make memories. Every attempt to do so has been met with me being told I'm not wanted, I was too late to the bus and now I didnt make friends in school, no-one wants anything to do with me. Even trying to enjoy life alone is pain because I have to see people talking to each other or having fun, it makes me so angry and upset I can't have that
based retard
if only it were that simple
people like this and many others are actually the delusional ones they have to pretend something is real when its not so taht they can justify themselfs
IF I WAS DELUSIONAL NOBODY WOULD LIKE ME
theirs nothing even delusional about it your living in a delusion of delusion lmao
is the delusion in the room with us now.
why do CEO's have higher maker's of psychopathy than the average population
are they delusional does everybody notice they are pschopathic and shunn them
are you a mormon?
dude even if this is the case and we can easily talk about how to fix that
dont be angry and jealous be happy for them
if its so good and you want it so bad you should not be mad at others for haveing it because you dont
why in the fuck does other people being happy cause you pain...
do you like that about yourself?
comparison is the theif of joy
I am where I am because of pure spite for all the bullshit in fagworld.
Then what am I even doing on this planet if I can't partake in their happines. I dont want to pretend to be happy because i can see others are genuinley being happy. If tired for nearly a decade to try and fix my situation but I just can't. I dont even want to reach my thirties
one bit of advice i could give is be contrarian and don't follow trends.
when red is the hot new colour, buy a blue jacket
when everyone is going on a certain bar or club, go somewhere else
if everyone is dumping stock think about buying
zig when others zag
when others say based say keyed.
This sounds like an anxiety issue, you can't switch off and have a constant background hum of worry at all times. I have the same thing a lot.
You might not be able to switch it off all the time but try find ways to give yourself breaks from the worry and clear your head. Even just going for a walk is good for this, or give yourself 15 minutes to just drink some water slowly and listen to music and don't do anything else.
When your mind is clear from the background worrying then you can properly analyse your situation and progress. Like you said yourself, you know what the right direction is and that it'll just take ages for results to be noticeable, but that doesn't mean the results aren't there, stacking up slowly all the time.
Also have faith in yourself and in God.
first of all you have no idea if they are happy
thats number 1
seccond of all re-read what your saying
WHY WONT THEY SHARE THEIR HAPINESS WITH ME
its a cliche but why dont you want your own hapiness
also its a sick charicter trait that you would even have to pretend
when i see a kitten and its haveing fun it makes me smile
i dont fucking scream at the sky and lament eternity for the joy of the kitten thats insane behaviour anon
i mean if you like that about you its channelable and useable but you understand thats crazy right like you can understand the concept
your treating happiness like its a pie and everybody has a slice but you....
thats crazy dude you can litterly be happy now in this seccond if you want and even if its a "trick" as you put it its indistingushable from the reality so is it even a "trick" at all
what did you try you seem to have alot of shit backwards and twisted ect
look if im trying to build a house and i spent 10 years shitting in a corner i dont say well fuck i guess ill never have a house lets end it alll
Realistically speaking, try to move out to China when you possibly can (perhaps with a good deegre, if your lucky enough even with a PhD aswell).
It may seem like a r*ddit-argument (even though roddit hates China), immigrating there could enforce you to get a job based on meritocratic values, instead of whatever the fuck we have here, henceforth by itself sounds like a wise move.
Oh yeah you have to learn Mandarin for that btw.
You sound like russel brand.
"You can actually just choose to be happy"
No you cannot, you can try but the circumstances in your life that prevent that in the first place will remind you cant be happy.
I simply want to be part of a community and be ackowledged, likewise and do the same to others, but no-one wants me around because I offer no value and have no friends so I'm seen as weird. You cant just make hapiness like you suggest from finding my own happiness. We are social creatures and thats how we derive our own hapiness. You may not think of it this way because you have always had friends or family but without any of those life is pretty damn miserable
Thanks a lot man. We all gonna make it
And thanks for everyone who participated in this thread today. Don't wanna sound too gay and reddit like but i really appreciate that. Thanks y'all good night.
heroin will make you happy anon... stop pretending you cant create hapiness out of thin air
and you have to go to the hapiness mines and mine it
you dont even know what hapiness is and your looking for it externally when you cant even counjur it internally
i would bet everything i own if i magically gave you exactly what you want you would be twice as unhappy and mvoe the goalposts
if you want to fit in anon then fit in...#
if you cant find a group make a group
if you want external validation seek external validation
if you offer nothing then offer something
its like the most basic shit ever
again now your blameing shit you have no understanding off for sadness
dude sometimes people are happy sometimes people are sad theese are not solid states
if you derrive happiness from family friends and a community its not like heroin its not like a drip fed "happiness" that permiates your soul ect/whatever
it comes with sadness and strife aswell
how is a yogi or a monk happy if what you say is true
they live lives of isolation
like im poor and money would solve my problems
your unhappy and friends/a comunty would not solve yours
there is a massive difference
what does it even mean to be acknowledged
why is that important to you
what have you done to try and earn this?
why have you not become undeniable.
Whatever anon. You've tried but you're life has been to easy for you relate to anything I have said and thats ok, you tried, but don't pretend like you know what you are talking about. If you dont, then its better not giving fake advice and platitudes
you need to answer alot of questions about yourself before you start looking for answers in others
this convo included
why does my input hold any weight
you cant see me im saying shit you dont like
but why? think about why if you cant answer that yourself nobody can answer it for you
maybe its just interaction and dopamene pathways maybe its the need for conflict or your yearning to learn
who knows i cant answer for you
Find Christ. Cease your fear of death and your resulting anxieties through Him. Put down the phone and take breaks from the computer. Cease all porn consumption immediately. Cease gambling. Take calculated risks, but be disciplined and never bet more than you can lose on something. Read a lot of books - classics, not contemporary shit. Doestyevsky, Walter Miller, etc. Doing this before bed can help you fix your shit sleep schedule. Exercise consistently and watch your diet. Limit use of alcohol and other drugs exclusively to rare social outings, if this is not something you can handle the cease drugs and addictive narcotics entirely. Get a proper amount of sleep. Stop thinking so doom and gloom 24/7. Maintain some connection with your family. Forgive people for their personal venom they may show towards you but always stand your ground and defend yourself when pushed. Find a skill or talent that you are passionate about and spend an hour a day on improving it and focusing it towards how you might be able to make it work for you.
t. 25, married, homeowner, have a son and a soon to be daughter, published author.
Do these things and your life will improve dramatically. Fail to do these things and the fruits will become evident. Always make time for interfacing with immediate reality and avoid becoming too caught up in an illusion of the world via technology
dude why can you only take advice from people you belive have had a hard life
why do you need to "relate" to the person
what platitude
their is no platitude it just looks like it
You shalt definetely archive this on Archive dot is or Ghostarchive, in case of you forgetting any meaningful advice given here...
These anonymous threads come and go yk?
Bump so this Anon Babble garbage reaches 300 posts quicker.
you dont want to listen because of an abitrary reason you made up that you cannot even verify
thats poor decision makeing dude and a severe lack of critical thinking content with the arguments not the person makeing them
different fun threads from bad & ruined board are le bad!
you jews are so obsessed with dick and poop.
I dont care, I'm tired. I tried my best and nothing worked. I find the advice you're given just useless and hollow...chat gpt could spit out more practical advice
300 posts... soon
made me laugh
godspeed, architect
also from another angle
lets go into your mystical world and just say its true
the only way you can be happy is if people like you for absolutely no reason yada yada
this can never happen because of reasons completly out of your controll yada yada
ok lets say that is whats going on lets say somehow you are correct
is your defeatist attitude helping you in any way?
like honestly its even true you will never be happy
but is lamenting that fact even helping at all?
its not so why be mad about it
can you improve your situation without being happy
yes you can
so why not
is your meaning in life to be happy?
it would appear not anon so why dont we shift our goal orientation away from being happy
btw ur mystical world is not real just to clarify you can be happy
brother what is hapiness....
the only way you can be happy is if people like you for absolutely no reason yada yada
You make that assumption because you can't picture a world were you dont have friends/family, you think thats normal and what everyone has. You cannot comprehend the feelings that not having those in your life puts on you so any piece of advice you give is going to be flawed
dude i have been a stranger in ever room i have ever walked into since i was like 3 years old
you know nothing about me
im the guy at the party everybody wants to talk to who dosent want to talk to anybody
your saying people like me dont even exist in your world
im living proof your wrong thats how i know
magick and stuff is real. human belief and attention are powerful. fasting and prayer. study occult stuff. everything is propaganda hypnosis
i have had hundreds of friends and zero friends and both at the same time
you dont even know what happiness is and think things you have never had and cant even understand will give you something you cant even describe
Then your obviously miserable like me and just coping so you have no place to give advice on how to not be miserable and be happy
What do you consider success? My zoomer brother seems to not be interested in anything I have to say because I’m not social media famous, even though I’ve built a comfier life than anyone he has ever known.
dude stop projecting im not misserable at all i mean sometimes i am but on the whole im a super happy guy
My mom divorced 3 times and was never home. I turned out fine. I realize this isn’t common but it’s not some hard and fast rule. If you’re smart enough to look for advice, you’re smart enough to turn out pretty good regardless.
I took this pill a while back, but the loneliness was tough.
Dont go into the city is good advice, cities are cancer
If youre already a city slicker dont come though, none wants your kind and you will be miserable too
If you have no friends or family like me then you must be, otherwise you are lying. pic rel is the site you should take your generic platitudes to
also since you are not the sharpest tool just join the army kek and play along dont be yourself you little munchkin
that should solve all of your problems and remember if you kill somebody in the line of duty they were probably happy now theirs more to go around lmfao
The Yookay army is fake and dog whistle for a homosexual freaks. I'll kill myself before I join those fruitcake faggots
Advice
want some work related advice? stop wage cucking and look for jobs that pays well, invest in apartments and land, spend what you make right away
my biggest regret in life was wasting almost 10 years working hard for fuck all money, then i got a remote managerial position in IT in a burger company that paid 10x what i used to make in poorland
covid was great for me, i dont think i could otherwise convince the company to hire me full remote after just few weeks of trial period and training
having all the free time and money you want really makes you less stressed and you can spend time on the most retarded expansive hobbies
not everybody is like you and thats a good thing also your obviously trolling or deeply depressed for legitimately no reason just join the army it is litterly your answer
like not a joke go sign up its the answer you want to hear
just pretend to be a fruitcake homo anon its the answer to all your problems if your problems are what you say they are thats your answer
you dont need to do anything else
deeply depressed for legitimately no reason
How can I not be depressed once I find out that the majority of the normies are nasty people who lack empathy and only care about themselves, such as you have just proven
dude you dont want to hear answers and you have no interest in identifying problems
i dont know what to tell you
im not going to force you to see the world differently that honestly would not be to hard your highly impressionable and clearly vaunerable
we have nothing to talk about
like even if i agree with you the conclusion is not the same you cant even parse the information its cognative dissonance
you cant answer basic questions or form basic conclusions
OTHER PEOPLE MAKE ME SAD
thats a synopsis of what you said
if i only care about myself why am i talking to you at all
make it make sense anon.
if that is how the world is why dont you want to change it?
i am not like you i could never understand your way of thinking we are not built the same
if i found my self in a room full of snakes and they started biteing me i would not ask why they bit me...
People are far less rational in their behavior than anyone realizes.
this
t. had to learn the hard way again and again
If you can figure out how to make people feel good about themselves
easiest way: cold reading. Google Forers Statements
it’s essentially the ultimate rubber stamp to other successful people that “this guy is ok to hire and promote into positions of power”
not anymore. too many incompetent niggers with Harvard degrees out there who irreversibly damaged the Harvard brand among employers
Cheers, mate
Different anon but it sounds like you can't see the world clearly, there's a filter of anger and frustration stopping you. I'm not telling you to be a happy go lucky hippie or anything, but try and recognise that your experiences and internal thoughts are hindering your perception of life.
Idk how to fix this but I know that recognising it is a start.
You shouldn't have your day ruined when you see happy couples or groups of friends, you should be able to see them and just feel whatever about it and move on. When I see a happy couple kissing or whatever they're literally just background noise like tourists taking photos or taxis waiting for customers.
I think that your clouded perception of things is hurting yourself in a kind of feedback loop. Don't pretend to be happy but try and step back and see things without such emotional baggage getting in the way.
just to put it in perspective
you could be insanly happy that you have noticed this and get to be one of the few "good guys"
you could be super thankfull that not everybody is like this
you could see it as a challange to try and change the majority of people
the interpritations are endless
being randomly depressed about it is way down the list for me
I've tried this in the past but the fundamentals of life do not change so I'm just brought back to same point of hating life again.
How does realizing this not lead to depression, its the only thing it can lead to. Realizing everyone is so fake with each other and they lie and so much inevitably leads to this
you needed to say this is a nicer way rofl your just reinforceing his idea that he dosent fit in kek
its well put though tbqhdesu
Advice from successful people
This board
because your reaching fuked up conclusions for no reason dude
1+1 is 2
thats maths
your maths are
1+x=2
no it dosent thats not a conclusion thats your conclusion and its bad not just for you but for everybody and its not even true
let alone usefull
EVERYTHINGS SHIT LETS BE SAD ABOUT IT
No everythings shit......
the rest is pure cope
or EVERYTHING SHIT SOMETIEMS THIS MAKES ME SAD
or x
like if you just said i see people being happy and wonder if i will ever be that happy
again its a stupid conclusion and a silly way of thinking
but its reasonable i could get that i could vibe with it
but your saying the wildist shit lmao
you know you are
your not broken or anything everybody could come to that conclusion its not like ohhh no something wrong with me
its like you stubb your toe and then stub it again to make sure
whyyy you can just not... lmao
What the fuck are you talking about, just say your advice, why do you need to run it through this gay anology?
Learn brevity you fucking windbags. There are two things a man needs to watch out for in his life. Where he puts his signature and where he puts his dick.
dude right i have gave you like 50 years of advice in my posts
i need you to tell me what the problem is because your not understanding the advice
i cant simplify shit to something you will understand when you cant tell me what you dont understand
your makeing arguments
your then extrapolating truths and rules from said arguments
those truths and rules are informing your behaviour and feelings
your entire shit is fucked up for litterly no reason the way you are doing it is fucking stupid and you dont have to do it like that
or maybe you do even then still not a big deal