I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend or had sex, I am also unemployed with no college degree and forced to live with my parents because I can't afford to move out even if I had a full-time job.
I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend or had sex...
Can you explain why you’re telling a Mongolian basket weaving forum about this rather than just killing yourself?
Honest question
Same but 31. It doesnt get better, everyone lied
jus b urself
Boo fucking hoo. Are these posts even by real posters or just Jews seeking to provoke empathic pain in others? Herb
It's quite simple, really. Sell your video game consoles, and use the money to buy a mountain bike and a monthly gym membership. Then, take your shirt off when you ride your bike, with no helmet either. If you're fat, everyone will point and laugh at you. This is good because it will encourage you to change your life. Keep biking shirtless when it's sunny out so you can get a sick tan. Next, start going to the gym 3 days on, 1 day off, forever. Or at least until you're fuggin jacked. After that, you'll be strong, tanned, shredded, and you'll have met some cool people in the gym. In terms of employment, figure it out, buddy.
Do you have any skills?
Can you explain why you’re telling a Mongolian basket weaving forum about this rather than just killing yourself?
Honest question
How am I suppose to get a girlfriend if a full-time job isn't enough to afford living on my own and having my own privacy? There's no way under my circumstances would it ever me comfortable to have a girlfriend living under the same roof with my parents, especially being stuck living with my narcissistic father. Even if I was able to afford to move out, I would barely survive with at least 50% of my income going to rent and not having anything else to afford with and never going to be able to afford my own home, and I'm still in community college since I was 18 because I was too retarded to pass my exams due to shitty study habits and/or my low IQ. And even if I didn't want a gf and just wanted sex, getting STDs from tinder or club whores isn't worth it, and condoms aren't always effective. Maybe if I were my own parents 20 years ago, I could've raised myself to be better but I guess they failed me.
This was me then I woke up one day as a 28 year old elderly man and nothing changed. Don’t fall for the trap, Anon.
Time moves faster as you get older. Do something while you still have time.
Why would a woman want to be with a loser?
Unironically, join the military anon.
I don't want to die!!1
Air force, non combat arms job in the Army, Nat Guard, fucking do it man you're still young. I'm 30, I haven't gotten pussy ever, whatever but not having a job is fucking bad, a man has to make money. You can't just stand around and expect anything to change.
I hate ZOG as much as the next guy but seriously, just fucking do it and get out with relevant skills/college tuition and a little bit of life experience living somewhere else that can help give you perspective.
This. It's hard to tell yourself you're a loser but admitting to a problem is the first step. If you're broke and living with your parents, getting a gf is way down the list of priorities. At the very least get a job and start saving up. Totally understandable to be in your mid 20's and tell a girl you're saving up money to move out or whatever as opposed to saying you just jerk your cock everyday because you're unemployed. Also hit the fucking gym
getting STDs from tinder or club whores isn't worth it, and condoms aren't always effective
Ah, there it is. You’re a coward.
You’ll look down at your unfucked virgin little cock and chuckle to yourself on your deathbed, congratulating yourself for playing life so safe. Live a little anon. I’ve raw dog dozens of herpes sluts, never caught anything.
STDs are not that bad unless AIDS. And they are great small talk starters.
live your life to appease other people and live up to THEIR expectations
Army
I sprained my ankle once 2 years ago, have a constant piss problem where I have to constantly pee because 4 years ago I held in my pee for too long at my wageslave job and most likely did permanent bladder damage, and I'm fat, so even if I wasn't fat I'd probably sprain my ankle again during training so military isn't for me and I refuse to do literal backbreaking work in the trades.
This is the most retarded "advice" I've ever received
And you're just a retard that got lucky, what if you caught herpes? You think it would be epic to pass down your diseases towards your future wife and children?
Bro, you're a 31 year old virgin. I think you should do more listening and less talking. You're worse off than OP and if you cannot see that then you will probably kill yourself in under 10 years.
By the time I get my shit together I will be too old to get a 18 year old gf, I will be called a groomer and get shamed by everyone around me, I will have to settle down for a 30+ year old roastie hag or die alone, it seems that this will be my eternal legacy.
same but 35, life hasn't been kind and now I'm stuck in a circle of fear. I don't know how to beat my own mind, oh well
Then suffer and die. More cunny for us.
the older i get the less i care.
You’re never going to have a wife or children, because You’ve missed the essential developmental stage of learning how to woo women. I will tell you a secret anon, sex begets more sex. Women have this thing built into their brains called preselection. . The older you are without having had sex the more repulsive you are by default to them. It’s evolutionary. If other woman ever wanted to fuck you, you obviously have nothing to offer, And therefore, they are not attracted to. Don’t make the rules anon, its actually how they really are. Get yourself a wedding band and try it out. You’ll be amazed how much attention you get from women.
Now, You can pretend that it’s because you’re afraid of STDs, but we all know that you are actually just a coward.
Community college
Just take the tradespill anon
Jesus wasn’t a learn2code he was a carpenter
Come home white man
i dont think this is the way either
i did a stem degree, did my first job, and by the time i saved 10k up i still felt the same problem of incelism
dont think just getting degree and le job will fix your life and im not bad looking either btw (inbe4 fat ugly) lol
jew
You could have been James Bond, but you chose to be Neville Longbottom. You CHOSE this, faggot. Will you choose it tomorrow?
virgin
Buhuu I'm 24 year old and and ver had gf or sex
Just grow up. I'm 30 and never had these. Stop thinking always about sex and being a crybaby. Try to focus on adult things... Jesus
For men after a certain age society stops giving a shit about you, it simply expects you to be the supporter of everyone else without receiving any support yourself. I found that point was around 25.
You’re never going to have a wife or children, because You’ve missed the essential developmental stage of learning how to woo women. I will tell you a secret anon, sex begets more sex. Women have this thing built into their brains called preselection. . The older you are without having had sex the more repulsive you are by default to them. It’s evolutionary. If other woman ever wanted to fuck you, you obviously have nothing to offer, And therefore, they are not attracted to. Don’t make the rules anon, its actually how they really are. Get yourself a wedding band and try it out. You’ll be amazed how much attention you get from women.
Now, You can pretend that it’s because you’re afraid of STDs, but we all know that you are actually just a coward.
Retard, getting laid isn't difficult, it's just too risky. Literally all you have to do is treat it like a game (hence the term players, game) and act in a certain way and then you get bitches on your dick, but every action has a consequence and doing this will get you lifelong STDs or make the whore pregnant. The solution to this would to get a gf but like I said earlier in my post, I can't afford to move out because everything is too expensive in the 21st century, so I'm stuck in this pattern that I probably will never escape from.
Because they used to. Our problem is society. The loser used to be endearing, the hopeless romantic, who even though he don't have money he'll treat you right whoooaaaa we're halfway there. that was when women couldn't take care of themselves with sin and being girlboss. now its a red flag, and only the biggest dicks (physical and attitude) chads are counted as men. We are now trained that we shouldnt even bother with women if we have nothing to give them, and everyone only cares about what you can do for them, like a business proposal. If you can't compete, you can be easily replaced by your upgrade. And also being gaslit by the same society that everyone belongs, everyone has value and you need selflove etc. And if you ever feel sad, you're not supposed to burden anyone with it, but see your $200 emotional hooker therapy. Real, loyal, sacrificial love can't exist in this environment, and that's why everything is so fucked up, not only in relationships but everything.
is that an insult? id rather be a virgin than a jew.
I refuse to do literal backbreaking work in the trades.
Incel chatbot demoralization LLM goes burrrrr
why would he inflict himself that shit?
That's a lot of words for a coping mechanism. You're romanticising some deranged concept of a loser as being some type of vagabond. That's not who OP is. By his own admission, he has nothing to show for his quarter century on this Earth. Also, of course the cunny market is competitive and it's only suitable that you lose to better men. It's up to you to improve yourself. Once you do that you can reap the rewards, but until then you will be a loser. And not the kind you're thinking about.
Whatever you do, don't go for gen Z hoes.
Zoomerettes are toxic nuclear waste, they're all addicted to instatok and have all got some form of severe BPD going on, MUCH much worse than with milleniwhores of my own gen.
Tried to make something work with a gen Z bitch (non-white, tail end zoomerette) i had been writing for a month or thereabouts - Turns out she was hiding shit from me all the time and kept doing it even after multiple warnings.
Also turns out she's full-blown BPD when i discovered the main social handle she was hiding from me, one of the most blatant examples i've ever seen in fact.
She already bought her non-refundable plane tickets while i luckily managed to cancel most everything just in time. I can cancel the rest of it too with minimal financial losses if she keeps spiting me and stepping out of line (which her stupid hoe ass will for sure).
Considering her responses have been incredibly bitchy, passive-aggressive and gaslighting i might just go ahead and do that later on. The sex would have probably been great (or out of this world even), but it's not worth it when you actually catch feelings and get hooked on the oxytocin + dopamine hits the succubus gives you, that's how they dig into you. BPDemons are after your soul and that only.
Tried offering her financial support from afar too but she was just like "nah i want you to play house with me". This coming from a gigawhore openly telling me she's into rimming guys, BDSM, physical abuse, getting fucked up the ass and "curious about gangbangs with multiple men". Like gtfo here you crazy bitch lol
Become a Natsoc retard and dedicate your life to worshipping women who don't give two shits about you
nobody reading all that shit nigga
I'm an ethnonat and don't support capitalism, because it's a tool of globalists.
I'm gay tho.
I've no family so I've been on my own the entire legal age. I've lost my virginity at 25 when I stopped disclosing I'm a virgin. I had multiple women try to have sex with me earlier in my 20s too. Never lose hope, anon.
Have you considered auto-erotic asphixation? Honestly, you either have the best coom of your life or you'll become an hero and your suffering will be at an end. Win either way, no?
How is Jew an argument? I’m trying to encourage white men to have more sex and stop being such little pussies and go out there and take some risks, yes there are scary stds out there, divorce rape, all of that, but maybe just maybe he might even further the white race if he can navigate the hurdles.
There is nothing Jewish about my argument. It’s the opposite of the Jewish agenda. You’re just retarded.
you should go to the oilfield and save up some money and then buy a cheap place in the ozarks and just grow your food. if you own your house life is ez pz. my bills are $100 for electric and $50 for phone.
youre telling men the only value they have is if they sniff around women and appease them for long enough they might get a crumb of pussy
I am 24 years old and I have never had a girlfriend or had sex
Oh you sweet summer child
Relax after 45 your sex drive starts dying down and you dont jack it as much
life is meaningless so give yourself a meaning and focus on that , stop being a miserable pile of dust suffocating on your own thoughts.
there is only you in this world , everyone else are sidecharacters , start to treat life this way and it will massively improve for you.
i´ve been through hell and back and the lesson i´ve learnt is , stop careing TOO much.
for some of us there is a greater calling many haven´t discovered yet or lie about it , but ask yourself , what do i want out of life ?
what matters to me ?
stick to that and you will massively improve in all aspects of life from there on.
STDs are not that bad
They're an inconvenience. But some of them are a permanent inconvenience. People just make them out to be a subtle inconvenience because it is a flaw of there own. It's like somebody with a stutter trying to tell you it's just a conversation starter.
You're never going to argue with a degenerate with a personality disorder and a sex addiction. Don't even bother.
cowardly virginal screeching sounds
yeah, im a loser worse than OP, im 34 and still a virgin. I've had opportunities to lose it but wanted to wait for something better. i thought if i stayed on the straight and narrow one day my angel would appear. i did go to college too. i had a career before it became obsolete
at this point i may have to pay for a hooker to have sex, and knowing that breaks my spirit a bit. i've been talking to some over tinder/sc, its cheap, it sounds safe (she shows tests, no pimp), but i can't get over the stigma of it, and the possible risk. i thought they were real girls at first actually interested in me, but no, they're hookers, they only care about the money. but hey, so do most modern girls, you gotta pay either way
sheri's/chicken ranch = 1k at least, but totally legal and safe
random hot tinder slut = $200 or even $70
irl whore who comes out late to the casino i'm currently staying at in vegas and pretends she likes you = 100 and would lower price, but i've still turned them down so far. not sure why, i dont really have a reason to keep holding out for something better that's not coming. but fucking them wouldn't really help my problem, maybe it'd make me better at sex though, if they're the kind that'd teach.
but so what if i get better at sex if there's no real girls out there who are gonna be interested. and by the time i can actually generate good money--if the world doesn't end soon-- i'll be 40s.
hey OP i guess you can use me as "don't be me"
i need a mentor. a friend that knows what the fuck to do
Fucking hookers is fun anon. “Holding out” isn’t something a man should do, it’s against our biological imperatives. Fuck some whores, demystify, knock down the pussy pedestal.
this guy claims to not be a jew btw
Win the lottery and move to Mexico
You’re the Jew. It’s the Jewish agenda to keep white men as angry pathetic incels. You are the mouthpiece of the Jew,, and likely a bot
encouraging a life of hedonistic degeneracy is the hallmark of the jew
All right, so just wash your virgin penis every day for the next 40 years or whatever until you die.
Cool story but I literally don't care
I mean if you wanna talk biological imperative then the purpose of sex is just to reproduce with a suitable mate(s). So it doesn't matter how good you are at it and you're supposed to wait til marriage and all that etc...
but the reality of this world is everyone sleeps with eachother, total strangers, based on first surface looks and then they "catch feelings" if anything, implying the pleasure of sex is more important than the relationships. porn has basically become real life and set the standards. and i dont have a big dick either (from 1 to 5x5 grower), so all i could do is learn to compensate in other ways, which a hooker might be good practice for. but again whats it matter if it goes nowhere after that? i could just jack off another night, that's fun too.
mexico is the biggest shithole in latam anon
Mexico City is whiter than Houston
24 and a virgin with no skills is dire but not as dire as say 34 which is a hail mary pass or 44 which is impossible.
If there is anything wrong with you physically or mentally just know there are a lot of dollars put into paying people who can probably find you a sustainable job
it could be better to take a part time or casual job to do while you do courses online or go to community college and acquire some skills to improve your employability - qualifications like cert iii customer service, cert iv business admin, admittedly basic but will help a lot.
The girlfriend part usually works itself out while you're doing other things and meeting people. NEETS think you can order a lady like a pizza but they don't have the access code somehow.
Women don't want someone who is like "first I will get a 9.5/10 and then I will consider taking a couple of shifts as a waiter, maybe if she's a virgin too I'll consider enrolling as a draftsman."
Be busy, be happy, be available. It does get better but not if you're totally passive.
if you want latam try guatemala, el salvador or nicaragua. way cheaper cost of living, way way way less corrupt government, way cheaper bribes, way better people, way better climate. mexico is fucking terrible, i dont even switch planes there anymore. and hookers are about $10 in the countries listed
t.passport bro
just become a slave so you can earn bits of paper you can exchange for items that might impress a female that will let you stick your 3 inches of erect flesh into her wet hole.
do you realise how ridiculous this is?
It's not at all ridiculous. You're beyond ridicule not only for your phrasing which betrays the kind of vacuum sealed, extremely online borderline prison gay attitude of many here - but because he presented specific problems that we have directly addressed. He didn't say "don't try to help me," but thankfully you came in to clarify that unless you're broke, she can't possibly love you and the act of procreation is really just five minutes of slapping noises when you think about it. Well done, you're such a boy genius. What a shame your genes will die out, we could have used another Elgar or Wordsworth.
I feel much better knowing I am younger than you and have had more jobs, more pussy, and I don't live with my parents! What have you been doing for the last 24 years?! The grind starts at 13 if you weren't a retard
Also take the semen retention pill it'll save your life
I bet you voted for Trump and hoped he will give you a job and make you a pussyslayer or something. Your loss.
Keep biking shirtless when it's sunny out so you can get a sick tan.
Such a great recipe for getting a skin cancer.
t. Based wizard
me again, last question before bed, between casino hookers irl, the tinder/snapchat paywhores, more expensive escorts, and a girl i met at a nightclub who is super into me but turns out she's a coke dealer and her husband was watching and they probably just picked some schlub to get drunk swinger thrills, which would you choose?
i'll just copypaste what i told adv earlier
go to nightclub
i hate this music
i dont know how to dance but guess i'll try and move a little
order a $30 drink
run into a pretty hot girl in a tight dress dancing her ass off in front of couches
go over and stop her dancing to talk to her, she seems pretty nice and happy to talk to me
can barely hear her tho so we're leaning in and screaming into eachothers ears
shes drunk and leaning into me a lot
tells me im pretty sexy, tell her that back
this is the first time i've ever had a girl tell me im sexy, some have said cute or handsome, sure, but sexy?
we could be making out we're talking so close face to face
in fact she said that to me, but said we'd meet later and we traded numbers
she's putting my hand on her tits girlflesh feels real nice and soft
tells me how shes a drug dealer and brings them to mexico in her ass etc
turns out her husband is watching us and they have an open marriage or something so he'd be cool if we hooked up
nope
still a virgin waiting for the right one
Is it better to remain truecel, or just have sex once and refrain from contacting women after so at least you don't get called a virgin
It's kinda cost fallacy at this point, but I also don't want to speak with women at all, as they're retarded. My youth is not eternal and my parents might think I'm a fag
I am actually quite handsome and women tried talking with me, but my autism shield is impenetrable
It just would be hypocritic to start pursuing women, after I was proud of not being into this chase, I was the kid that agreed not to watch a movie or shit like that and actually follow that
What a shame your genes will die out
I wonder how long it takes you realise that at some point in the future everything will cease to exist.
Once you age out of the sympathy-receiver age (late teens, early 20s at the latest), you are not only completely on your own buddy, you also have to contend with ever-increasing strain on every single aspect of your life. This will come from immediate family, extended family, neighbours, basically everyone. They will stare at you in disbelief pondering how in the fuck had your difficult lifelong situation not simply evaporate because you reached a certain age.
God forbid you have some issues, you best fix them and fix them fast, if you don't pull solutions out of your ass you will be spat on, disrespected, cheated, drained to the last capacity that you are able to be drained to, then finally abadoned. In some cases it takes an amazing amount of self-reflection to simply see how much a depressed man is actually losing out to in comparison to his narcissistic, outwardly successful peers. Women can see this and that's why they wouldn't be caught dead with a man having personal mental issues.