Is settling better than dying alone?

Is settling better than dying alone?

the best place to be is somewhere else

I felt much worse (and ironically more alone) with a gf I wasn't really into than I feel being single.
YMMV

best thing is to see the world
fuck women of various sorts preferably in the ass
witness the heritage of the white man
eat meat

No. Women are obnoxious as shit and the only way how you can tolerate it is if you are also in love with her and it therefore doesn't bother her.
Remove those feelings ob affection and all you get is some fucking cunt who ruins your life and causes problems 24/7.

It is if you want kids

but everybody dies alone
not sure what do you mean

Marriage is for cuckolds and whores. It’s a humiliation ritual.

it depends. if she gets you hard, you're not "settling" you're just being realistic. if not, its a no-go

Not being alone > being alone, so yes.

what he really means is living into his old age alone, but you knew that, you pedantic cretin

I felt worse with a gf I WAS into. They all turn to shit after the honeymoon phase wears off. No it's not worth it to settle, but I'm not talking about looks. Make sure it's someone sane who won't make your life worse

Yes

deep
I live in Spain but the "s" is silent

Yes. Everyone settles, or dies alone.

It really depends. Every relationship has some degree of settling. One of my best gf's was a far left communist for example but I could have seen myself marrying her because that was the only thing annoying about her. But it's a balancing act. Things that are deal breakers for me are being fat, having BPD, lots of male friends and excessive tattoos. Everything else I can deal with and most likely eventually change but everything I mentioned before are massive red flags to me.

Depends if you are a dyel cuck or a 2 plate bench Chad like me

fuck women of various sorts preferably in the ass

both fornication and sodomy are grievous sins

What is No Fault Divorce

It is bold of you to think that she will stick around ‘til death do you part.

Woman is like a kitchen appliance, it's okay to have it but you can live without it.

Marriage is for cuckolds and whores. It’s a humiliation ritual.

After the cuckold phase, assuming you catch her, starts the government ordered Alimony Cuckold phase.

Anon Babble was right about women following your politics if she's actually into you. I'm dating a jew chick and shit talk israel to her all the time

sins

Your god is happy to marry people in church, but always ducks out of the room when divorces are filed.

For some reason he likes to leave that part to the feminists family courts.

No, never debase yourself.

No. If you deeply vibe with a woman it’s fantastic but being alone and sexless is 1000% superior to having a gf or wife that you feel like you never really connect with

I never claimed to speak for God

AI slop?

non-whites will win the genetics war anyways

What in the world makes you think she give a single fuck about Israel if she's American? Plenty of Jews here don't care.

I blame God for what humans created/allowed to exist

Great mid 60s IQ take kikejeet
anything else to add to the discussion?

you are literally telling people what God wants and doesn't want. just go away and don't come back

According to all these videos being made by childless white women, anything can be acceptable if you always have a drink in your hand.

keep kvetching kike
I was paraphrasing from the Gospel

I wish it was normal to have a long term relationship and not move in together. That's why dating from 16-25 was the best you fuck a girl at her place and its your choice to spend the day with her or fuck off and do your own things. The dynamics shift when you move in. I have a tiny ass apartment having someone live here with me would be torture

I blame God for what humans created/allowed to exist

Show flag Thirdie.

Btw humans created god too.

It's not what he denies, it's what he asks me to deny and what he doesn't do to earn such demands. Authority is inextricable from responsibility. My efforts and my suffering are my own. They are neither shared nor alleviated by God. And thus, my life is my own. His moral judgements on activities that do not harm others are completely irrelevant.

That's clearly a man

quotes jewish books

calls people kikes

I don't care if you paraphrase the amazing spider-man just stop pretending you know what God wants, you have as much idea as any other mortal man

Lmao. No.
Dying alone is literally my number one goal.

redditspacing

no argument

my geolocation is Canada. Not that it matters anyways because you're a mindbroken kike regardless of your flag

You will die alone either way.

these moral judgments belong not to God, but to men who falsely claim to speak for God. never trust ANYONE who claims to know what God wants

Canada

checks out, this country is full of retards

so? who are (you) to tell me what to do?
are you God?

Based.

Define settling. I would advise settling on looks. I'm 34 years old and I can tell you that the better looking she is, the more hypergamous, shit test, and general disagreement with you she will be.
If you get a girl that knows you're out of her league, she will treat you like a king.
Attractive women make terrible gfs/wives

projecting this hard

you're the one saying this is sin or that is sin, judgments which belong to God. I am speaking for myself

still no argument

I accept (your) gracious cohencession

Lmao.
The fact that you had to learn this from Anon Babble tells me you didn't have a father in the house.

sure you do bud. please continue quoting jewish books while you call me a jew its quite hilarious

I am speaking for myself

and I am basing my argument on the Gospel

My aunt died alone. The issue is that she had a slow killing cancer that gave her 4 years to live where every day her body was slowly giving out until the last month was in her words torture She was mentally and physically in a bad state for 4 years with no one but my mother and me to come visit her. Everyone here is saying "durr everyone dies alone" but everyone also assumes you hit 70 and just die and don't realize it's a slow sometimes excruciating downfall till you actually die and handling it alone will be miserable.

I will just off myself at 40

Everyone says that when the are young none of you will actually do it.

which was written by jews who claimed to speak for God, as you are claiming to do now

none of you will actually do it

a lot of them probably will. male middle-age suicide is the most prevalent form of suicide.

Yeah she's just a typical jersey girl otherwise.

I had a father growing up but he just didnt teach me such things. he spent a lot of time in his den watching golf.

Skim thread, mostly "No"s, you shouldn't settle and it's better to die alone

But apparently us women should be forced to settle and it's bad when we do it because um it just is ok

Hmmm. My moid fatigue has been increasing lately while browsing Anon Babble. Your hypocrisy reminds me of other women in a bad way.

If you're married and have kids, you somehow won't die alone, you just won't.

Read Tolstoy's novel "The Death of Ivan Ilyich". It's only a 2 hour read max.

settle for what? A mediocre, disloyal bitch who nags you incessantly? Have mediocre kids who likely won't have kids of their own and will be living with you forever? Getting thrown out of your home when your wife decides its over, 8 years in? You're going to die alone, one way or another.

Is settling better than dying alone?

Everyone dies alone newfag.

jewish books

jews self-inserted you retard
they are larpers with very little if any connection to the Judeans
and (you) should go learn what happened to the Judeans after their last chimpout
don't embarrass yourself speaking of things you don't know
dumb cunt

If she's a jewess she's not American.
Though I suspect neither are you.

They won't. Every 20 year old says the same thing when they are young. If your life was that worthless there is no reason not to do it now

FEET

bible fanfiction

just go join the mormons. lmao

please read the rest of my post I made it clear what I was talking about. It's not about the actual act of death it's about having a family to comfort you as you approach that journey.

never settle for no hoe

Thing is, memefren actually hasn't said anything wrong this entire thread. Whereas you are seething that he called out an Israeli flag for acting like a deviant kike.
Who's the actual jew here.

You are reading impaired, the gospel is antithetical to religion in its simplicity. To think that Jesus is advocating for a religion let alone the same belief system that the priests he constantly argued with for his entire ministry, is borderline critically disabled shit. You believe the gospel you go to heaven. It’s that simple for a reason, people like you never figure it out for the first 50 years of your life until you start to notice that kikes never shared the same belief system as Abraham. And that Abraham wasn’t even a Jew. They’re not a race, it’s a religion based on race and that’s the trick they pull. Kikes are relatives to Arabs, being that they have very little to do with Hebrew beliefs. On top of you being comically wrong because you mistake a simple call to believe something as a grocery list asking you to literally unironically be a perfect human being in order to go to heaven, which is exactly what athiesm LIKES to ascribe to what Jesus is advocating for, (he isn’t, and never did). You unironically think that after they conspire to have him killed, he calls them controlled opposition, they do comically stupid shit, and at no point in the OT does it say anywhere that not only is it possible for man to live perfectly by the law, but that you could be justified by it. It doesn’t say it anywhere. You’re wrong, that’s it black and white. You get nothing.
You lose.
I accept your concession.
Believe it or don’t
Not
My
Problem

Religion is man made shit,
The term man made isn’t owned by atheism and doesn’t already presuppose the non existence of God.
Thank you,
Retard.

good partner > alone > bad partner

I’ve experienced all three. I’ve been sex starved and isolated for years, yet I’m still happier than I was when I was dating a hot cunt. The sex was not worth the misery. Physical intimacy is meaningless without a deeper bond

100% subjective.
Some people will take any company over no company, but it's on a scale that goes all the way to the other end.

What if your wife dies before you? What if your children die before you? What if they don't come to "comfort" you while you're in the process of dying for whatever reason? what if they do but they will be faking it and they don't really give a shit about you for whatever reason and you know it?

I want a gf but if she ever found my meme folder I'd be done for.

if you find a girls who doesnt bitch and gripe all the time and one who doesn't waste all your money you are not settling anon.

No.

Physical intimacy is meaningless without a deeper bond

this. My issue is that I have no desire for marriage or children and it feels sleazy to just date for sex/short term so I just don't do it at all anymore

AI gf > good partner > alone > bad partner
FTFY

2 plates isn't even a lot you cuck soiboi

What if they don't die before you? That's life nothing is guaranteed all you can do is try.

I am married. Managed to find a good girl back when things were different. But, if I was a lonely, nowadays, unable to establish a relationship with a normal woman, I swear I would go for good looking femboys and trans women if I needed to.

Dude, don't die alone, believe me. I knew this guy (coworker) who had no one in his life, we only knew he died a month later and that's when the cops the found the body in the apartment (he stopped going to work).

Find yourself a cool person who cares for you, be it male, female or whatever they call themselves.
Call it settling or whatever, but at least you got someone to confine your problems and to fuck at night.

Find your happiness, don't let others define what you should feel.

Is settling better than dying alone?

I haven't done either yet, so I'll let you know.

stop posting this jewish bitch

Makes your Germanic cock aroused? My Med cock loves him too.

There are countless articles out there about how loneliness is bad for both mental and even physical health. Do you really want to spend your life alone festering in a neetcave getting angry at the clouds? Surely the normalfag life is better than that (at least, that's what I decided). Living on your own and having independence can be fun, but the loneliness can be crippling. What is the point of having independence if you are depressed all the time and can barely summon the willpower to get off the couch?

I know people who are in hitting their 60s now and never got married or had kids. People who used to be well-adjusted chads are now just wasting away, waiting to die.. It's frightening what they've become.

it's a chick saying she is a femboy for instagram likes

Anon Babble was right

I'm dating a jew chick

You listened to the wrong advice from Anon Babble.

Dude, don't die alone, believe me. I knew this guy (coworker) who had no one in his life, we only knew he died a month later

Nonsequitur. I've cut people out of my life who were net negative emotional influences and never regretted it many years later. Living with something like a genuine narcissist is much worse than being alone.

you are a complete fucking faggot. The only men who get lonely are retarded normies, extroverts forced into a life of introversion. If you have any amount of autism, you will never feel alone.

You're the one who's assuming that getting married guarantees you a comfortable death license. It doesn't. You could be surrounded by 20 people around you who either truly love you or fake it while you're dying and still feel miserable, depressed and alone.

can’t meet normal woman

go for traps

Yeah I’m sure you’ll find a solid mentally stable woman that just happens to be a man

I can send you a pic of him showing his fem petit dick. Want me too?

Oh wow. Didn't know you were the archetype of every lonely guy here. Sorry for not knowing the way you feel should be the norm.

I think it's biological NOT to live with women. In fact women themselves seem to get angry if you spend too much time around them. Maybe cavemen had their own cave and women had their own cave back in the good old days. I don't know. But there's something unnatural about a man and a woman in the same location for extended periods of time.

Everyone dies alone. Living alone is less exhausting than living with a hag.

Sounds like you're just a spineless beta. If your woman respected you she would adopt your opinions and views instead of arguing with you. Alternatively, you dated a white liberal whore who lost the capacity to pair bond.

I met my wife when she was a newcomer to Canada and had fucking rainbow flags all over her facebook page. We now see completely eye to eye on LGBTQ and gender issues (including abortion). During our last election she happily voted for the right-wing anti-globohomo party.

It's not my problem you faggots need another meatbag around you to be happy. My parents are enough

This. Exactly. Pretty, wonderful, good to me.

Then you find out about her past, but it is too late. Then you feel like cheating and get to the point of not regretting it. This life is ruined

I've seen the onlyfans leaks, there is nothing i haven't seen yet. You are pretending to be smarter than you are and its cracking me up

We all die alone.

I know the bacteria in my stomach will be there for me.

I would say no. But it depends on what you mean by "settle." If you like being with her and she is submissive and treats you right, but she isn't a perfect 10, then you should "settle." On the other hand, if you settle for a girl with a toxic personality then your life will be torture. Trust me on this.

You could be surrounded by 20 people around you who either truly love you or fake it while you're dying and still feel miserable, depressed and alone.

Having a loved one be by you side when you are in tremendous pain is much more comforting than being alone

Practically all men who pair up with a woman are forced to settle, so it's not really the right question. It's a double-bind with no positive outcome and which is "better" depends on whether you deal better with denial (she's not so bad) or acceptance (I prefer peace and quiet) as a coping mechanism.

The majority of young women actually have the ability to land a guy better than them, but they squander it. So both settling and being alone should be seen as a mark of personal failure.

Everyone dies alone.

Where does that expression even come from, because it's factually untrue, lots of people die with someone else there.

You'll feel different ways about the same question depending on your age and circumstances.

CLOOOOSE THE WINDOW
CALM THE LIGHT

For women, yes.
For men, no

Speak for yourself

Maybe. Maybe not. Assuming that "love", whatever that means, is constant for life, which is not. She might love you today, but in 30 years from now she might get tired of your shit. That's why I advised you to read this novella by Tolstoy.

fpbp

For the vast majority of human existence, marriages have been arranged. Do not confuse infatuation with love. My wife of 20 years is not what I thought I would get. But she has proven herself time and time again and true love started to build its foundation. Every other relationship I had that started with infatuation ended with me being a cuck. Find a good woman who will make an excellent partner in life. Don't look for the chick who makes you the hardest or you will never have any power over them while they will have total dominance over you.

you always die alone, retard

anything can be acceptable if you always have a drink in your hand.

You think your mommy-wife will be holding your hand while you are on your dying bed?

It's cope lonely people use. This entire site loves empowering failure and retreating from society and it is starting to make me wonder if that is not natural and some kind of schilling. Like this guy seems to given up ever finding love and attacking anyone who gives any level of importance and comfort on it because if he acknowledged that he might have to come to terms with the fact that he screwed up.

Absolutely not.

Better to be alone than be with the wrong person.

lots of people die with someone else there.

you die alone because you're the one dying, retard
you can be in a roomful of people, but you're still dying alone
jfc

You'll never be more alone than in a loveless marriage. Tragically most women are incapable of love. Get a dog.

On a scale of 1-10, if you are a 5, then you should be hunting 4s and below. If you are a 7, then 6s and below. If you aim higher, you will fail in the end. Whether by outright rejection or costly divorce.

This is good advice. Marriage isn't about your fee fees. It's about finding someone you trust who can support you and vice versa, because life fucking sucks when you're forever alone, especially when you start to get older.

Yes and no, dying could be (and usually is) an excruciating long process while your body stops working, anything that you take for granted now will not be with you, either your strength, your mind or simply your lack of pain. In this process you may want a companionship that in another moment you may have considered less than ideal. Although of course some women are too pain in the ass to bother even dying

Sure, with that attitude

Maybe cavemen had their own cave and women had their own cave back in the good old days

That is mostly the case judging by what many jungle fucks still do.
Unmarried young bro and young bitches communal huts separated until you get hooked up, and then the adult&married guys tend to stick together most of the day, same for married women.
Day is over, then you go fuck and sleep in your couple hut.

not taking a kindergarten with you to Valhalla

Smh, never gonna make it

No, my wife-bot hopefully will

dying is better than anything

You think your mommy-wife will be holding your hand while you are on your dying bed?

My best guess is that I never will, can't imagine her alone.

In this process you may want a companionship

why would I want anyone to witness my pain and suffering and weakness?
when it's my time I want to die alone
you can come in clean up my piss and shit after I'm gone
but don't fucking sit around my bed looking at me struggle

One girl I felt like had the deepest connection with, I could literally say anything and she'd either roll with it or not take it too seriously, turned out to be a huge liar and slut so I dumped her. Years later found out she was a *literal* prostitute, fucking yuck.

Another girl who had a lot of potential and was a bit of an autist like but didn't want kids. Dealbreaker and she dumped me first anyway.

The woman I ended up having kids with loves my sense of humour, loves seeing me as a dad, and I trust her more than anyone else I've been with, because I've been at my most vulnerable and miserable with her and she still stays by my side. She's resilient and I trusted her to be a good mom. I gave up trying to look for the "perfect fit" so one could say I settled, but I love my kids so much it feels like they are a gift from god and it doesn't feel like settling at all.

I had children because once I got to a certain age life just started feeling pointless without a family.

The thread contents with picrel leads me to believe thas a tranny

Maybe that's when everything wenthill. When men started getting taught by women at school. And men and women started living and working together. That's why modern society is a disaster on the social level.

Your best and also your worst relationship will be with a cluster B whore and it'll leave you forever damaged and craving for more even if it all turned into pure hell.
No normal relationship will be enough anymore.

To be fair you all say this about almost anyone at any time.

Good question. No answer

First girl i ever caught feeling for turned out to be a legit paychotic bipolar whore. Fucked me right up but i agree normal relationships are pretty boring after. I think this is because it shot between 0-10 with very little invetween it was fairly intoxicating

Bullshit. My first two GF's were cluster B whores. It took a long time of being alone to recover, but now I'm in a long-term relationship with an emotionally stable woman (as far as a woman can be emotionally stable) and I don't "crave more". I'm glad as fuck I got away with only a few scratches.

I feel you, bro. Normal girls just do not compare after those wild rides

Are you also going to troon out and become a slut for bbc like Anon Babble told you?

why would I want anyone to witness my pain and suffering and weakness

As I said dying is way slower than you or most people on this planet realize, you are thinking about you last week in the hospital, when in reality you probably would have been on a downward spiral for years at that point, miserable but not outright dying

His moral judgements on activities that do not harm others are completely irrelevant.

They are VERY relevant.
You should be thankful that you have a partner that cares about not bothering others.
That being said, if there's an issue between you two, you two should discuss it between you two.
Just casually bring it up with a simple "Hey <name>, can we talk for a bit, please?"
It's that easy.