On the one hand,
*teardrop*
On the other hand, at some point this is indistinguishable from cuckoldry.
It's even easily argued that it's self-defeating in the long run.
Why?
Because at some point there has to be at least a bare minimum recognition of the value that such recognition has.
Why?
Because then this feminize element of society does what they always do
EMERGENCY! HELP! I NEED HELP!
OK now the situation is resolved and I don't need any help, so for all I care you can go crawl into a corner and rot and die.
Too much of this and you won't even be around to give of yourself, even if that's what moves you.
True story:
Martial art teach told me story of one of his original teachers, a Japanese guy who moved to a big city from Japan
Opens up Dojo in US
Very popular, lots of students
Some students are douches, don't pay on time
Over time, they stop paying at all
Other students figure, "If they're not paying, why should I pay? Or at least what's the big deal if I skip some payments here and there or if I pay a few weeks late?"
One day, teacher mysteriously disappeared.
They found his rotting body weeks later
Apparently literally starved to death
One of the detectives when they interviewed a relative said the relative told him for many months that he was complaining that students weren't paying their dues, but he felt it "shameful" to ask them for the money (that they owed) and "dishonorable" to kick them out (like the deadbeats they were) because he was a Sensei and the role of the Sensei in society is to teach
TL;DR: Give too much this way and you may just wind up realizing, too late, that people will take and take and take and take and take until you literally drop dead from being given nothing in return, at which point they'll shrug their shoulders instead of feeling any shame and just move on to the next thing.