I'm going to assume you're either ethnic or maybe just a bit young & immature.
Maybe incel, who knows...
Assuming you're not just ethnically challenged:
Allow me to edify your way of thinking; The current state of affairs relating to women are a direct result of not enough strong-willed superior men being available.
The nature of [shame and shackling] you describe can be done by just being superior in all ways. You were destined by natural law of this planet to be, as long as you were born a man.
Once you submerge yourself in the comfort of existence, you will lose all socially inept behaviors, and become a natural presence of danger in any crowd.
Confidence is a byproduct of maturity, and thinking you need shame or shackle women to force your worldview into reality is a sign of immaturity.
Improve your own morale, because it's the only one you can directly control.
Once you gain some confidence, you can be the beacon of hope you so seek.
It really is that simple.
why not rob someone just because you can?
Because the current era of human society doesn't function that way.
Forced resource allocation is violently opposed from the dominant species's dominant gender (men).
Ladies in the modern era are a form of currency if you really think about it. They always have been if you really think about it, too
We're currently in the less than favorable transitory period of the state of human evolution, at least within the social realm.
Give it five (5) years, brah. Improve yourself in the meantime.