Is male loneliness epidemic a real thing and what are the political implications of it?

Feminism is in reality extremely damaging to the female psyche over time. Instead of being introspective, though, they're outsourcing the thinking to another woman (who always tells her she's correct in every situation)
Therapy isn't "therapy" for women, it's more like visiting a hype man lmao

its just low value men realizing they dont deserve the only women they are attracted to so they dont even try. 30% of white men are millionaires and 70% of women are overweight. If you are poor, your looksmatch is a whale

What OP is pretending to say:

there seems to be a problem here, is there a problem (I ask this question 100 times a day and never ever advance my lines of questioning like a bot, and the responses...also, like bots)?

what OP is actually saying:

fucking incels, man up, go be a man being a man and make a woman happy so she can divorce you. everything is your fault and we mock you through fake questions because we hate you THAT much.

Don't matter. People will either not believe it, or just tell men to 'man up'. Because nobody cares about men.

Why don’t incels just open their minds for more women-centered voices?

Those voices are childish retards. There's a few good women left but they're extremely rare.

Posts like this in the AM are always going for getting antipathy toward the human race and a general misanthropy going for the rest of the day.

Man, people really are fucking evil, aren't they?

What pathetic and idiotic advice

Because they're all fucking crazy

lol didnt read

havent had friends in over 11 years

havent gone out with people in over 11 years

play vidya, movies, documentaries, shitpost while drinking 2 bottles of wine and having a blast

Only people who are angry is mother, single women in my age group and 3rd worlders living next to me now angrily calling me a faggot (peder) or thinking im a pedophile. Work colleagues questioni g my sexuality playing on maybe i like women or men, ahahah blablabla
Not having children in this social climate and maybe i was just born in an unlucky time. I acept my blood line not continuing. Let the 3rd worlders breed.

no sarcasm

I just want to shoot women until there are none left.

lol kill all women and death to the great satan america

Why would anyone want to talk to some creepy loner with no life experience

boomers are looksmatched to 20yo hot chicks

So we should kill boomers then.

Personally, I find genuinely connecting with people significantly harder than meeting them, which is hard enough. People are so dumbed down and gay or else selfish and shallow that it’s really hard to find anyone you want to be around. Men used to spend most of their time from 20s onward with their wives and family. They’re not marrying or having family now so they’re alone.

None of that gay shit will get you women. Lifting weights, getting a good haircut, wearing stylish clothes, talking to women, teasing them and then being an asshole to them will get you women. Many such cases!

I already hate women; you're wasting your time posting this stupid shit.

If you are poor, your looksmatch is a whale

lol it’s getting increasingly hard to believe living in the US is better than a Balkan shithole at least almost all the young chicks in here are Uber skinny hopefully they don’t ruin that as well

muh therapy

Why are all women so fucking fixated on this shit?

Because psychologist are hacks who just say whatever their client want to hear and pat them on the back for being poor little victims without ever bothering to force any improvement from them because that would be mean.

My sis go to therapy and she is still as much of a neurotic bipolar bitch as always, but now she blame her childhood and how peoples expected too much of her as a child, which is complete bullshit because she was an absolute fucking bitch as a kid and now she is 40 and still behave like a fucking teenager with tantrums and an utter lack of ibtrospection or accountsbility.

I've managed to meet some people who share my interests, but the problem is that we're spread out over the whole fucking planet.

Has anyone that isn't a woman or a turboboomer ever actually talked about the "male loneliness epidemic"? Because they are the ones affected most by it. I'm pretty sure those "lonely" males prefer being at peace all by themselves

lmao what the fuck is that shite advice

have you tried becoming a pussy-cuck that will repulse women by default, honey?

And when a man jumps through all those hoops and still end up with no bitches they'll already have the next set of hoops ready.

Lifting weights

getting a good haircut

wearing stylish clothes

That's gayer than raw anal gay buttsex

If u no what i mean

I was at my local watering hole watching the local niggerball team lose in game 7 and went outside to smoke only to lock eyes with my exs mother and father, who I haven’t seen in 4 years walking by. She waved excitedly at me, I waved back mouthing “what the fuck” inadvertently. I’ve been no contact with the ex for 4 years, and the only reason they’d be in my city is to visit her, who I didn’t even know was here still let alone in my neighborhood. Very scary. Not a chance the mother didn’t tell her. Would love to smash one more time, wonder if she’ll unblock and call me.

If you are lonely right now, you have never had to live with a woman in your house. Just got out of that situation 6 months ago, I will NEVER go back.

When my ex saw me on the subway she started sprinting towards the exit stairs in the subway
She must have not taken my “I will paint your walls with my brain” texts too well when we were breaking up

that image is straight retard math

They're actively screening for non-chad by giving bad advice

There has to be a solution for bros to be frens that isn’t super gay so bros actually want to do it. Everything in society is now run by women. Even the Gen-X males I work with act super feminized.

BUT HAVE YOU LISTEN TO MY WOMEN CENTERED WHINING?!

Too much already, as that was the reason I opted out of kike-media

you should add to your statistic that the average age of those millionaires is fuckin 60 and its a bunch of boomers in overvalued mcmansions.

excess estrogens and androgens floating around in our water supply.

I CAN'T STOP, THE RONRINESS, DAREKA TASUKETE
More like i don't want it to stop

Is male loneliness epidemic a real thing a

Well, is male loneliness restricted to a handful of isolated cases, or does it affect a meaningful portion of the population?

its completely real, you are very poor and will never catch up to the guys who have been sprinting since highschool
millionaire in the us is only liquid investable assets, equity in primary residence doesnt count

It is a real thing. There are more shitskins in the west than ever and they cant get laid because lets face it they are physically repulsive. Not my problem though.

It's amusing to me really. I've alrrady disconnected entirely from women media so their insane provlicities and drama have no impact on me - yet the gynocracy marches on as though the its assumed we are all deeply invested in women bullshit. Well, I'm just not going to be ever again. Good times.

My ex told me while drunk post breakup that she cheated because she was too afraid to kill herself and thought I’d do it for her.
Still hurts.

JFC.
I'm so sorry, Anon.

You might want to learn about the concept of independence in the context of statistics.

Thats the most obvious lie

lonely?

wow you must be a misogynist

do better, incel

Because they spend ages 15-30 getting railed by chads they met on a “dating app” (fucking app) and then wonder why average men their own age checked out and don’t speak to them.

Appeal to authority by proxy

Women are a meme lol

Therapy

Love this, it's not the diseased sick society that's the problem, it's YOU.
Therapy is a sect, a cult. They will just turn you into a drugged out tranny.

Soon, brother. Inshallah.

just open their minds for more women-centered voices?

Because women are fucking evil?

the only valid point is the first one, and it's already been confirmed repeatedly that at least 40% of "lonely" men don't even try in the first place. the rest of her post is delusional roastie screeching tho.

just do things that you don't want to do and act like you'll enjoy them

do these people even listen to themselves

The mentally-inferior male sex cannot compete against the newly-autonomous female sex, thus men flounder.

what percentage of "newly-autonomous" females are on SSRIs and in therapy?

have you done all these basic things which everyone would immediately try as a first solution

why do these retarded cunts even ask these questions

go to therapy

lmao

The most fucked up part of that is that women will prefer an absolute miserable existance that leads to suicide before giving a non-chad a chance

Incels being the last bastion of a male only group/space is collectively driving all women batshit crazy now.

This is really good framing, lol

Lets them borrow someone else's authority.
They know they are retarded as shit with zero authority. So they go to someone who charges a lot of money and has a title next to their name, try to fish for any line that could be seen as approval of their delusions, and then constantly go

Uhhh, actually, Prof. Dr. Anne Ahornstein agrees with everything I said. Are you saying you are smarter than her?!

Want to know a "secret"?
People who study psychology do so to find out why they are, themselves, so fucked up.

Doctor, heal thyself!

like visiting a hype man

shit man, that'd be tight

so then i told her

>YOU DONE TOLD HER

and then i did

>THAS HOW ITS DONE BRUHH

>headshaking and hand sign

id pay for that

I’d say about as many as the men.

The problem with female mate selection is that it's competitive.
You could have the following scenario

a room with 100 men and 100 women

all the women are conventionally attractive, so all of the guys would be okay with any of them

for every woma there are two interesting guys in the room

guy A, who is a 8/10 who all women in the room want

guy B, who is her personal 8/10 but which no other woman wants

Even though 99 of them could have their personal 8/10 with zero competition, the majority of them would decide to chase guy A because there's no point to them unless they get to make the other women jealous and take something away from them. It doesn't matter that guy B would be just as good of a pick for them personally, the fact that someone else would get guy A which all of them were into is intolerable to them, because it would put that woman at the top of their social hierarchy.
So, by default, any environment where women are allowed to be the gatekeepers will end up with some very few guys running a train on all the women while the majority of the other guys just jerks off.

I hate to say it but blacks might actually be better hype men than other races despite their deficiency in nearly every other field

So I went to work today

SHIIIEET, MY MAN GOT IT ON LOCK

I performed my regularly assigned duties

AWW YEAH, HE CONSISTENT AND RESISTANT

I talked to a girl at the water cooler for a while

DAMN MOFUCKA, RIZZ EM WITH YOUR 'TISM

then I went home and enjoyed reading a book

YOU DIDN'T EVEN NEED THE AK? TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY

Consider those last 3 are fantasies she has about a man she already finds attractive.

THAS RIGHT THAS RIGHT
BIG IT UP FOR MY MAIN MAN

im a 28m white english, 6ft2 and ive been rejected by every women i tried with and have only had sex once to an escort.

i now just am a hermit, make of that what you will.

Yes I have, and women are still cold bitches in those spaces. And even in those spaces they still are "only there for the hobby, not for dating" unless you're a hot guy

Yes I have, and all of it is feminist dogma that ultimately just shits on men. By the way, women aren't attracted to male feminists.

Yep and it's worthless. "Oh you're tired of living in clown world where the world hates you and you can barely afford to pay your bills? Well here's a script for sertraline, now give me 500 dollars"

I've never "resented" women. Funny enough, the more respectfully I've treated the women I've dated, the worse they end up treating me. And "asking questions that lead to a deeper understanding"? What does that even entail? I don't listen to her "emotions" enough? All they do is whine about every stupid mundane thing on earth.

Never listen to a woman. Men go to work. You will meet people, learn skills and cure loneliness at work. Women want to control you. Work will set you free.

Listen, if I had somebody to follow me around and go "DAS RITE" at everything I say, I'd think that was pretty FUCKING awesome. Unironically adds some appeal to pic rel

It's kinda vile how every demographic that is not white men desperately is clinging to their victim hood status and blaming everything on white men and making sure they get 0 apathy. We are legit living through really shitty times

Men are dropping out because the unspoken societal contract has been broken.
Men by their nature are wild men, we enjoy living for our own pleasures and goals, and don't care about civilization and society as a whole, and will die happy doing this until our final breath.
However there is one thing we cant get, pussy, and offspring, not with out a woman. So Men sacrifice their desire to live like a wild man, to join civilization and become "tame" which means they work for the continuation and support of a society that largely benefits women and children and is an antithesis to the nature of man, and as a reward they were given a near garuntee at partnership and procreation.
That promise is broken. Men can sacrifice their lives on the pyre of civilization and be given basically nothing for it, no women, no children, no castle/home, and very very little enjoyment.
So since the contract has been broken for men, men are choosing not to engage or uphold their end. Men have no reason to support a system that is no longer benefiting them.
The phase you are in now, is the phase of euphoria where women are enjoying a civilization were men basically check the fuck out, and they get free reign and control, however the system is only moving because of its momentem, but its very quickly going to crumble.
Pic related.

100%

You’ll never be a woman

You're fat and retarded.
And haven't posted tits, and thus have to go back.

Because they're too stupid to do self-reflection on their own.

I think the effects of loneliness is much more devastating among women. Most men just check out and if you have any self worth you just enjoy your life in solitude. There is enough to do, experience and learn on your own. Women, on the other hand, really need a male giving them superficial attention. Even if women have someone, most of the time they are still lonely because it's just some ugly simp they can unload their attention upon and not the chad she will never get.

Go get a hobby or something!

Women have invaded every hobby and ruined it by watering it down to cater them, we have no hobbies left where men can interact with other men in a fraternal capacity.

Listened to what women want and catered to their every whim?

That's literally what had caused these problems in the first place. I don't give a rat fuck what women want, I can get women no problem. What i want is to actually have like minded friends and those avenues have been shut by worthless holes yammering on about "Muh glass ceiling".

Gone to therapy

Therapists have a staggering failure rate for helping men because all therapy is structured around women. Men don't want to talk about their feelings, they want validation. They want to know that in some aspect they matter, that if they died today something in some capacity would stop, even for a moment. Women have actively sought to strip that very basic mental need away from men for decades.

Stopped resenting women!?

Holes actively create resentment towards themselves by not letting boys be boys at every turn they possibly can, and I can't understand it. Because the moment boys stop being boys women start saying they miss it. The cunt cheers victory when she stabs herself

women can't stand men who aren't top 1% yeah we know but it's always boring that women love pretending it's about anything else

Imagine being born as a white man and having your "prime years" after 1945, the start of the liberal kyke feminist capitalist age and before 2045, the year of the reconquista. The only 100 years in history where women were not under mens control.

The whore is half right. Pushing your boundaries and exposing yourself to social interactions teaches you various social skills that can somewhat compensate for your average anon's tiny penis and poverty. Reading and listening to "women centered voices" is bad advice though.

Women have invaded every hobby

I have been riding my dirt bike for twenty years now, and in all my time on goat trails and single tracks out in the mountains and the middle of the desert, I have never encountered a woman

Therapy reinforced that I shouldn’t focus on being with a woman at all. What is she talking about? Liberals are all about therapy until they go and find out they are batshit

"therapy" is just indoctrination into normoid society, women love indoctrination and being a normoid

listen to women and stop being resentful of them

Listening to women is how i became lonely and resentful, you stupid cunt. My entire adolescence amd young adulthood was filled with the message that I'm only good enough for emotional validation until some hawt guy comes along. Then the only relationship I ever had, which to date is the only woman who said they loved me, was an emotionally abusive bitch that constantly insulted me and made me feel inadequate before dumping me after feeling entitled to me buying her groceries when I had for some actual starting veterans I knew. No woman has looked at me twice since in almost 20 years, yeah bitch, I'm bitter and resentful after that and the female 'friends' I had taking all the care and respect I gave them and treating me like an asexual blob.

Funny enough, my most recent ex was always pressuring me to go to therapy when all I really needed was for her to stop being such a naggy cunt. Oh and she had been to therapy numerous times and had jumped around between like 5 different antidepressants the whole time we dated and nothing ever changed her at all. And god help me if she ever forgot to take her med one day, because then she'd just turn into a demon.

taking advice on mens issues from the twitter user "marriageandmartinis"

What did they say to you when they rejected you

How was the experince with the escort

Great points, guys. You are real world-beaters and your innate superiority is clearly evident. If I could only leave my six-figure salary and freedom of choice behind to suck your cock whilst you play video games. What a dream!

antidepressants

my parents put me on those. gave me sexual dysfunction, when I was taking them I could get hard but could never ever "finish"... this is why porn stars use them by the way. I'm so glad I stopped taking them

larping as a woman

man just go away its not 2009 lmao

The same thing happens to women and the bitch i dated would blame ME

it is a silly proposition though, to have hobbies, go traveling, have time to piss around with "community service" or "workshops" or whatever you'll have to be decently rich, if you're working all day then you don't have the time to spend on recreational activities, if you have the time because you're unemployed then you don't have the money to spend on hobbies and recreation, so the bitch is just saying "be rich and have a lot of free time" why golly jee I bet guys have never thought of that, stupid idiots

Just do therapy

Why are women all in therapy?

Because they need help logically processing their emotions. Usually though they just get put on pills and drugs.
Real men don't need help to logically process our emotions that's what we do naturally.
Also women who do therapy either do not have a good logical husband they can talk to, or they don't talk to their logical husband about their problems, or they're just single and so have to pay for someone to help them logically process their emotions.
The worst thing is women insisting we men need therapy because they don't understand men. No bitches, we don't need fucking therapy.

im sorry you went through all that man. there are good women out there anon dont give up all hope

if you work full time (40 hours a week) that still leaves plenty of time for hobbies... or "community service" but who wants that lmao

Well, I’d told her I would
Jokingly
It’s more her telling me that and the thought of someone I loved saying something like that broke me pretty bad

Not a hobby. But recreational time.

Most women are terrible and should have their rights reduced or removed.

Go out of your comfort zone to engage with people IRL by taking up hobbies, community service and workshops

This is the only non-retard suggestion
However, you go search for these groups online, and what you get is:

boomer groups, filled with people who don't understand the internet, trying to socialize

hobbies that you actually care about, but have 0 women

gay shit like dancing/meditating that you don't care about, filled with women

It feels like the only way for me to get a date these days is to sociopathic liar and treat it as a job interview
I'm seriously considering making a bunch of fake profile pictures with AI and outright lying about my hobbies at this point

In USA they can at least buy the AK we produce. Me not having an ak is why I will never fight for this country.

My life has been nothing but a series of getting led on and then rug pulled with the 'just friends' or 'you're great, but...' that one is the best because if I'm so great, why not give me a chance? The one I did date, unknown to me before we started dating, was a literal homewrecker and 'fell in love' with me because of sex so I know first hand being 'ugly' doesn't determine what you can do. Unfortunately some of my best memories are giving that terrible cunt physical pleasure

I don't know how old you are, but if you're 30+, go on plenty of fish. I know it's a boomer site. Just trust me.

The same opinion as a homosex Muslim. Revolting.

It's impressive how whenever I meet someone I didn't know before, it's a man. I have a curse or something

I turned 37 a couple weeks ago but the zoomettes i do talk to when I go to sing karaoke all think im 30 or just under. Ive gotten in better shape than I've ever been in my life but have a ways to go. I used every dating site for over 10 years without a single match or even like really. Im 6'2", but i was a huge fatass before. I quit drinking too but im not some aa scared of being around it guy.

Aka u? Nice.

I only do facts, not opinions.

That's why you expose yourself to social interaction while you're in high school/college, that's at least 8 years of time for someone to learn. After that concerts/raves (best around special dates like Halloween, valentine's), board game bars, not to mention birthday parties are where you apply said knowledge.

zoomettes

my brother in Christ, you are 37 years old and you've been on a 20 year dry spell. aim a little lower

ah yes, get up at 6 in the morning, wash yourself, get some breakfast, then spend transit to work, start working at 8, finish at 4 pm, spend another hour to get home, it's 5 pm, get groceries, make some food, take a shower, do your chores around the house, god forbid you have any other responsibilities, like family members, or a pet, or bills to sort out, or maybe have any health issues that need to be taken care of, it's 8 pm when you're finally done, now you can spend an hour at "community service" so you can meet some 40 years old woman who died her hair blonde so long ago that half of it is black now, or maybe you can watch a youtube video before going to sleep, and don't you fucking dare rest on the weekends, you need to be out there grinding in community service, lmao, nah man, it's silly
lol

how do I have friends

just have friends

great advice dude, but that's not what she said, she said that you should just be rich and have a lot of free time if you want to talk to women

The women my age are mostly revolting. Before I moved a couple years ago I got seriously led on and embarrassed hard by someone a couple years younger than me. I'm aiming at 25 to 30, not 21 year olds. The problem is all these 25 year olds never drank or partied as kids and act like high schoolers in public. I actually sing well, people approach me to say it was good regularly and clap when its my turn before I start. The issue is I've never been attractive, ever. My dad was a huge athlete and ladies man.

therapy is not a magic spell. therapy does nothing for loneliness. therapists are hacks, it is quackery. society invites misfortune to itself by handwaving and belittling real issues while only pointing fingers at easy answers with no thought behind them.

And I did have sex a couple times about 13 years ago. A fwb thing with one of the last friends I had. She ghosted me after a pregnancy scare and thought she'd never have to tell me.

do all this

get nowhere

the women that told you to do it still sneak around with situationships

turn 40

woman who needs to marry anyone at all gives up and settles for you

tell other men it totally works if you have a little patience and empathy

she's "just not a sexual person", sleep in separate beds and spend most of the night in your gamer shed

the funniest thing about "therapy" and "psychology" to me is that they'll tell you that it's being antisocial if you don't like the society you live in, but what if the society is just fucked, are you not allowed to dislike a society because being human means that you just do what everyone else does? it's so stupid, and the funny thing is that they tell you all this shit, and how hating trannies and niggers is not okay because that's like against the current zeitgeist or something, but then if you lived in a time period where it was totally okay to hate niggers and trannies then it would be okay? the entirety of therapy and psychology in essence is just "DO WHAT THE PEER PRESSURE SAYS OKAY???????" fucking clown shit

C'mon, things aren't adding up here. Who the fuck TRULY has 0 people around them for more than a month at absolute worst? My country is #2 in Europe in regard to how much time people spend working and every person, ugly or hot, poor or rich has at least some semblance of a social life that they can branch out of to find a partner.

Because Chad fucked them in highschool and they can't neurologically recover from that

How do you even end like this mentally like I truly don’t understand how can you be 31 years old and unironically write this shit and look like this lol

loneliness doesn't exist, everyone always just has friends and partners

ok, very constructive dialogue we had here

Imagine taking life advice from a drunk white roastie

Her name is actually Silverstein

I can go to a place like a bar and be literally invisible other than the bartender noticing my glass is empty. People will lean on me like I'm furniture and get upset when I tell them to respect my space.

read, listened to, and opened your mind to women-centered voices...

No, I won't be doing that.

I would rather live and die alone than write something like this.

sounds like you need to listen to women-centered voices and go to therapy

Women love therapy until the therapist tells them they are the fucking problem.

the entirety of therapy and psychology in essence is just "DO WHAT THE PEER PRESSURE SAYS OKAY???????" fucking clown shit

That is precisely what therapy is; supposed to rehabilitate you into fitting back into society. Only morons and women think therapy is there to make you a complete human in the objective sense.

Depends on the hobby but I mostly agree

They never tell them or they lose their customer

This, nothing will cure 'male loneliness' like living with a woman for a little while. My message to Incels, enjoy it while it lasts

For men its purpose is really to keep you from snapping and being violent

community service

I have no community faggot. it's just a mix mash of strangers living in the same area like most American cities. therapy is a scam, women don't have anything interesting to say for the most part.

marriageandmartinis

fuck you

might as well just get a lobotomy instead, be a good mindless little drone that never has any feelings or thoughts

Men already tried to be women pleasers and got brushed off. That makes them avoid and disdain women. We've all laughed at the pathetic loser who sticks on the fringes of a social group, lighting up with joy at every crumb of attention he gets, engrossing himself in the most mundane conversations hoping he can squeeze a relatable word in edgewise. When you're a teenager, yeah, sometimes you have to be that guy. An adult male going to the bar and trying to butt into a friend group despite being treated disdainfully again and again? That's sad and disgusting.

All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to

I love how these woman always try to sweep the main problem under the rug. Men have no good reason to trust women.

We hear from married men that their wifes divorced them over stupid things like not acting 'like a man' when he was upset from his mother passing away. Or the moment financial troubles happens they vanish and take half of what he has and leave the situation worse off while going away thinking nothing off the state she left him in.

The loneliness is caused in large part because of the behaviour of modern woman and how they think guys should be perfect but they should have all their faults accepted without criticism and that they guy should always be the one to get everything for her even if she has more money.

But of course woman will just say that's 'sexist' and move on.

the pathetic loser who sticks on the fringes of a social group, lighting up with joy at every crumb of attention he gets, engrossing himself in the most mundane conversations hoping he can squeeze a relatable word in edgewise.

I agree completely. There is more dignity in complete indifference

NGL, having fried my pre-frontal cortex by smoking a lot of weed in my 20s, it's pretty comfy not having thoughts or feelings. I'm very distant toward other people. I spent early adulthood cultivating good life habits, so I'm not interested in changing who I am or letting other people influence how I live my life. If you're interested in being friends, fine, I'll engage. If not, go your own way. I don't chase anyone.

My hobbies mostly center around computers so 90% of the “women” I see there have dicks
I’m almost at the point of asking older guys at my church if their daughters are single and would be open to a date. Shit is insane and my sperg powers definitely aren’t helping me otherwise

You don't outright ask them, you get to know them a little, show you're a decent guy, and then mention you're single

Try new things, it wouldn't be called "going out of your comfort zone" if it was easy.

they have no real friends, so they pay strangers to be their friends

looksmatch

Looksmatch only factors in looks, you retard. It's literally in the name.

She got me, I simply dont care anymore.

Don't go to bars alone. Go to a rave (Poorly lit atmosphere where you're less likely to be recognized makes women more likely to engage in activities they normally wouldn't), get a little drunk if you're nervous (pregame, not during the actual party because drinks are stupid expensive). Find a girl you like (my recommendation for a start is a 6-7s, as 9s and 10s are always in groups large enough that even I get intimidated and I do this all the time). No idea how old you are but if you're say 22-25 you already have a decent shot with the 19-21 age bracket right from the get go. When you find one that seems nice enough, comment whatever. Her dancing, her dress code, ask for a cigarette (I imagine this is less common in America). Exchange basic info on each other. Don't be cool but rather enthusiastic and feel free to give a fake laugh. If she asks you where your friends are (they ask 90% time) you say they left and you're just gonna stay an extra 30 minutes and try to meet someone (indicate to her). This makes her feel a bit safer as she just got info that whatever happens with you, good or bad, you'll be gone in 30 minutes. If her body language is giving you a go ahead, like facing you directly (this is the most obvious one in my experience as women's first instinct when they don't like you is to turn in a different direction), more exotic dancing, smiling. After that, feel free to get a little handsy above the belt. Put an arm over her shoulder at first (buddy buddy attitude), if she's responsive (leaning into you or at least laughing an not backing away) move into swooping your arms around her from behind in what is effectively a hug. If she still leans into you after this or better yet grinds into you (less common) you win. Give her a kiss and go from there. No idea what the customs are where you're from but here they tend to be okay with an ass grab so long as it's dark. Still leave after 30 minutes to give her some urgency. Try to get number.

Yeah its real. I have 2 people who I've managed to maintain communication with that aren't in my immediate family. Other than my wife, mother, and brother, I speak to 2 other people. And one of them is nearly 70 years old.

No it is mostly just projection/blame-shifting of the female loneliness epidemic. Men never cared if they were lonely. We can exist alone in the woods for decades unaffected. It is women that require constant social validation.

do they mean lonely man, or men without wife/gf?

still don't know what therapy supposed to do in their minds and what the mechanism behind it is supposed to be?
It's honestly impressive how many women, who are even married, never seem to actually met a man in real life and have ANY idea how they operate on even the most rudimentary level.

Formerly attractive middle aged fart here. This happens to us all at some point in our lives. once you slip out of the top ~30% of males looks-wise, you become invisible to the opposite sex. I would postulate it is better to have never been attractive in the first place. There is a difficult mourning period when you hit the wall that you never really get over.

None of that will give you sex with a pink innie pussy.

women-centered

Just wait for sexrobots

you guys are funny

True, women specialize in manipulation and dissimulation, there is no police force to combat lies, cheating, or social character assassination. the police exclusively hinder male strengths like fighting, raiding, and physical force.
Men's strengths are illegal when used, women's strengths are almost celebrated.
all of them, and theres no male equivalent to help men overcome their weaknesses.

i love you retards for all the info and persepectives one can get here

Very true. When I was a kid my mother took me to a family therapist. I guess one day he finally had enough of her shit and told her she was crazy and she was the problem for all the issues that she was complaining about. Suddenly that therapist was an idiot and we never went back. Turns out, he wasn't wrong, she was crazy, and the only way to get my life normal was to leave and cut off contact. He lost money in the end but he gave me an insight into female behavior that has helped me my entire adult life.

They are all crazy in some way. You won't find one that's not crazy so you have to pick one that's crazy in a way you can tolerate. I have been married for 27 years. She's crazy as fuck but it's in ways that I can handle so it works.

Try new things

such as?
men are solution oriented, so the

male equivalent

would be some path to effect legal and/or social changes that then modify other’s behaviors in the desired way

it really is crazy how MGTOW talking points from two decades ago are now common knowledge for young men/boys