Why have 45 percent of men never asked a woman out?

Why have 45 percent of men never asked a woman out?

never asked out in person

never asked out

why has OP never stopped being a faggot

1. She's too fat
2. She's a Democrat
3. She's a feminist
4. She has a stinky cooter
5. She will cheat on you
6. She will be a single mom with mixed kids
7. She will be brainwashed by jew media
8. She will never respect a man who is shorter, or poorer than herself.

I have asked out women before. Bad idea
Then over time women started liking me out of the blue, but I have no interest in them
Life is weird and it sucks

it's not worth the risk

9. She has STD's from her dozens of sexual exploits in her teens, and twenties.
10. She's mentally damaged by chads who pump and dumped her.

Does it count if I meet a woman at one of those things in person, get her number, and then ask her on a date by text a few days later? Because I’ve done that a few times. But strictly speaking I’ve never asked a woman on a first date in person in those situations.

Because it's not worth it. If you really want pussy, either pay for a prostitute or go out and beat your way into it like a caveman. Modern Westerner women are rude, spoiled, entitled, masculine, they cuss like a sailor, and they're mostly overweight. And I'm supposed ask that out, marry it, and have children with it? No thanks, OP. No thanks.

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Would rather be gay.

11. She's a proud dog mom of 8 furbabies.
12. She wants to know your astrological sign and talk about crystal healing.

I have asked a woman out about twice ever.
Once when I was fourteen; she laughed at me.
Again when I was twenty-one, she said yes, but the relationship was short, she wanted it to move too fast, and when I said we should see other people she decided post-facto that I "didn't count".

Then she called me bawling that her next BF was "beating and raping her" while I was at work.

Women are just dumb and nasty.
They're alright to look at, but I'd never want to live with one.

Just the sound of them breathing next to me makes me want to smother them with a pillow.

Who gives a flying shit? Never seen so many creepy DUDES so concerned with what other dudes do or don't do with their peckers.

In Person

Hurr Durr, social media doesn't exist, blah blah im a fucking retard

1pbtid

In ALL fields.

This percentage is highly flawed. What group of men was asked? how many men?

Because all the zoomers want men in their 30s to date their women. I don't make the rules but I will keep taking 21 year old woman on dates since you young guys are to pussy to talk to them.

Funny thing, the VAST majority of this 45% are white.
They know women in general (but especially white women) love and crave BBC, and they won't settle
It's no surprise the whiteboys don't even try anymore

Man you can only beat us in dating because we aren't allowed to shoot you for looking at white women anymore. Maybe we should reconsider that law.

Because 45% of men are absolute pussies.

They can't muster the courage. They simply do not have the balls.

she m-might b-be mean to me and l-laugh at m-m-me

better I just spend my life alone and pine for a non-threatening perfect trad girl and slowly embitter myself towards the entire world, accelerating it's demise by deliberately choosing poor political candidates because they help my cognitive dissonance because I'm not really a huge pussy bitch too scared to ask out a girl, I've been WRONGED somehow.

Men are way too fat, play video games, don't exercise, eat shit food, low testosterone and vitamin d efficiency.

Why do you care?

I feel personally insulted. Just for that I'm going to vote for an even bigger fascist in 2028 out of spite.

For a LOT of reasons.

How do I meet millennial men and take their cock? I was born in the wrong generation anyways

Couldn't tell you. I tried a few weeks ago. Someone who i was good friends with for the last 8 years and with her through some pretty low lows. Came to realize my feelings recently but oh well. Instead she's with her supervisor now who molested his younger sister when he was 18? My mental is so fucking cooked right now Anon Babble it's unreal.

We're not buying what they're selling.

Thinking about it, I haven’t asked a woman to go on a date with me in real life since I was 13. In 2003.

I’ve had online ask outs, got rejected there, got some pussy with horrible people and stopped trying that in 2012.

I can’t imagine gen z wants to try any harder either.

I'll give you that I'm still not sure how many of them are fixable with how many either have tattoos or insane political views. All I know is zoomer women have a lot less to try to fix than 30 year old roastie.

Kek, thank you for your service.

wow its almost like something happened where men are afraid of the state arresting them on the slightest whims of women

"approaching" is not natural. You're supposed to live a rich life full of experiences and just meet people organically

baited.
stop replying to bbc posters, anon

Ask woman out without being the legal height, legal income, legal muscle mass, and legal interests

Get pepper sprayed, assaulted by bystanders, arrested, charged for harassment, forced to pay alimony, lose job, and then kicked in the nuts

this
When I did, I got screamed at.
I always thought there's no harm in asking, but girls act like it's murder even in a bar setting. like wow it makes me not want to interact with anybody anymore

Well I'd say through work but where I work I'm one of the only guys over 30 who is single and there is a lot of young women so probably doesn't work the opposite direction as well.

The age of "the worst she can say is no" is over.

Now you can get publicly shamed on social media for even looking at a girl. Even if blind.

Now you can get labeled a creep/pedo and no female will ever talk to you because one got the ick. The reason for the ick can be anything.

Now you can get pointed at as a rapist and cops will bash your door in, shoot your dog, pull you out of your wheelchair and arrest you and the Jew Judge will send you to jail all on the word of the women. No evidence ever looked at.

And this is on top of the male bashing done in schools and in the media. Confidence is at an all time low. Why would a toxic monster ever think he's good enough for these perfect Goddesses?

Oh, and if by some miracle you are Chad and she likes you... she has a cunt personality. While expecting you do pay for everything and do everything. Like a fucking child that needs 24/7 care and attention.

Nah, they just use their phones for that now.

Most of our parents divorcing has made romance and marriage a complete joke.
If I can make it 10 more years, I will have slaves of my own that won't try to rob me for all I'm worth.
Plus, women don't even have tails.

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Girls are dating men outside their own colleges thanks to online dating. Men have fewer opportunities.

Man, they got you good little bro.
I'm going to let you in on a secret. You'll be uncomfortable, she'll be uncomfortable, either she says yes or no. You'll feel good or bad.
If she acts like a cunt you dodged a bullet.
Nobody is going to jail unless you drop your spaghetti so hard you physically assault her like an actual retard.

Do these men have their own homes with zero roommates/family members? That's one huge barrier for average men. You seem to want more tax cattle but you aren't willing to give them any breeding space. Neat how that works, isn't it?

Then she called me bawling that her next BF was "beating and raping her" while I was at work.

Press X to doubt, women find that super hot. She was probably just lonely and broke, and Chad/Tyrone wasn't paying her any attention.

How I can tell someone didn't grow up in the 90s or shortly after.

The Internet has revealed that at least 50% of all women are mentally ill. The other 50% are borderline retarded and spend their entire lives making self-destructive decisions. So you're either going to end up with a retard, or a nutcase. Better to just hang out with your friends instead.

Never asked one out because I never needed too, they initiated. I'm single now though, but don't date because at this point I'm damaged goods. One had a boyfriend and didn't tell me that I was the sidepiece, one was an ultra-masochist that made me full on choke her, and the other just a straight up sadist w/o boundaries, she fucking snapped a nail off in my forearm from digging them in so goddamn hard. They say men are degenerates, but holy fuck. Pathetic, but any intimate touching throws me into a panic now, and frankly just feel disgusting about what I've done.

it should be obvious if you can just imagine what you would do without tinder

You're supposed to live a rich life full of experiences and just meet people organically

Bad advice, if you choose anything male-dominated, you get jack shit for female attention. So you could absolutely tour the world, do crazy shit, and have tons of stories - but still end up single because women absolutely won't take any of those absurd risks. I should know, I did exactly that.

Dating is a numbers game for men, you have to play the romance slot machine to win, over and over and over until jackpot. And just like gambling, you can lose all your shit if you have bad luck.

I asked one a couple months ago but she said no. Im proud that I did it tho

anon I got some advice for you about online dating, every women has the height filter set to 6' 0" even though height doesn't matter if your at least 2 inches taller than her. You need to find out where local women hang out and find an excuse to go there, whether its the gym, bank, your job, whatever. Just go there often and make small talk in passing to everyone so you don't seem to be a creep when being friendly. Find a women who seems responsive and gradually talk to her more and more until you manage to get her number or snapchat or whatever. There is a bit of nuance but this is your best option if your not a chad.

Pussy isn't real. Save your money and use your hand.

modern women are either

type A, insufferable bitchy boss babe

and/or some variation of the below list

fat

feminist

high number of prior sex partners

bisexual

progressive leftist

NPC

tattoos and piercings

unnatural colored hair

astrology and crystal shit

masculine

annoying

retarded

needy

demanding

delusional

dramatic

clingy

will leave you for anything

will cheat on you with ease

can't live with them because you'll never have peace

can't marry them because above and divorce rape

can't have children with them because both above + losing your children

what the fuck is the point of approaching these modern retards?

Still Seems kinda low
Considering modern women find 85-90% of men invisible.

because all they know is charge they phone, tik tok, order mcdonalds, eat hot chip and lie

on the street

crime

in a bar or a club

the worst kind of women

at school or class

im not in school or class, these are the most feminist women, and they are all sharing the sports scholarship chads

at work

yea i can just risk getting fired and losing my fucking health insurance for some hole

at a hobby

fuck me for having male hobbies

social gathering

like what a house party? any social gathering ive been to had people a decade older than me already paired up, just like church

other location

i admit im in a terrible location within these united states. any day now i will be able to afford to move im sure

I wanted to cold approach a cute Asian I saw today, but I wasn't sure of her age so I chickened out.

Nobody is going to jail unless you drop your spaghetti so hard you physically assault her like an actual retard

Except for all the men sent to jail on the word of a women who didn't do anything.

Women are fucking toxic man, you run the risk you find a Karen type every time you talk to a strange woman. The internet is chock full of videos on these Karens, and I've personally met these cunts in real life. It's not just acting for internet points, this shit is real. People die because of false accusations.

Stats are kinda working against you Javier

Probably because you're an ugly pajeet. Why are you in Canada? You already got India you fucking invader

So MGTOW won?

somebody on twitter said a thing

1 post by this ID

Wow that's gotta be a peer reviewed fact, not just study.

You literally can get a year or two probation if a bitch in America says you like brushed her happened to an American I know wouldn't have believed otherwise
Your nation is fucking broken
More women's rights = More retarded a nation it's a direct measure of emotions vs logic of a nation

why do you think mgtow gets shut down but the pua roaches get millions of views? men taking their ball and going home was always the bigger threat

A friend of the family got charged with attempted murder because he lightly bruised his then wife's wrists holding them so she couldn't smash the house up or hit him anymore. The charges got droppedin the end, but the point is that the pigs didn't care about the cuts and scratches on him and exclusively cared about the bruise his wife got trying to keep beating him.

Tradcucks have a unique strain of mental retardation that prevents them from ever holding women accountable in any context, and I wish them luck with their child support payments for kids that could be anybodies.

This shit is unreal. You're unreal. It's gotta be a meme.

gym

You will get shamed on social media for this. Do not do this. Women are actively looking to shame men for internet brownie points, to the point some of these cunts were coming into the gym in bodypaint just to attention whore.

bank

Who the fuck goes to the bank? I only go like once a year for some mandatory in person shit. Everything else is automated: ATMs take checks, payments are done with plastic. No woman wants a man to approach here when she's dealing with money - that screams THIS MAN WILL STEAL FROM ME. Enjoy your time with the corrections officer you are guaranteed to meet.

job

This is actually fine, so long as you are prepared for a meeting with HR and are ok with the fallout from a failed relationship, up to getting fired. Some places won't like it though, so YMMV. It helps to be a charming Chad of course.

1pbtid

It will get larger as the older generations die off. The zoomettes are dating up to get money and status. Alpha will be able to date up to some degree, but the Beta generation will be toast as all the old richfags will be dead or taken, and zoomers/alphas won't be replacing them.

Go be a gaslighting cunt somewhere else

Came to post this, people should have learned by now.

Your awkward online interactions through dating apps should ultimately lead to approaching a woman in person and having sex with her. You literally can't have sex without approaching woman in person, even if it's a hooker, so yes - the poll says that 45% of young men are virgins or mindbroken lgtbq faggots.

full cards on the table here I'm a pretty average looking white dude 5'10 and decent career. Its like 25/75 asking girls out irl for me. 25 yes, 75 no. I've never been reported to the police or harassed though, thats some crazy shit sorry you guys have dealt with that, I had one chick who made it a priority to shit on me to everyone I know but honestly nobody even cared and neither did i. so like a fly she eventually fucked off and nothing ever became of it.

They can't muster the courage. They simply do not have the balls.

See pic rel. Ignore all these trad machismo larpers, they end up knowingly or unknowingly doing the foot soldier work to enforce the modern matriarchal standard. They keep men in line and demand that they submit to this matriarchal system by "just being more manly". A fool's errand when women are holding the societal carrot and women are inherently irrational agents.

Be very careful about these trad larp cunts, they probably think they're doing the right thing by saying this, but they're not.

Yeah sure senpai, I'll do that.
Enjoy living in abject terror of women for the rest of your life holy shit. You can't even see what you're doing to yourself it's sad as fuck.

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Not joking. Not a meme. Shit is real. Feminists will accuse you of rape. Kids have literally suicided over false accusations. Even some of our famous cases turned out to be false accusations. The whole SCOTUS thing also turned out to be false (which everyone knew).

Women are Karens, police literally follow the "believe all women" Dullith model, and are too low IQ to check shit.

hello spam thread, a girl asked me out yesterday

anon you need to realize two things, you don't go into a bank to hit on random women you go into the bank to make small talk with the young women who work there, second every single one of those options requires tact, why I said you need to start small, what is HR going to do if you ask a women how her day is going just like you asked chad and pajeet who walked past your desk before you

Because 99% of 'we asked people and found out...' are totally fake bullshit.
Stop believing every faggot on xtwitter

This is how ugly people with no social skills cope. Their entire perception of woman is also what they see online from social media screencaps.

its been made abundantly clear to young men that talking to women simply doing their job is not appealing. women get too many creepy browns and boomers bothering them that they mostly shut down any male forwardness. and even you are received well by a female coworker, jealous fat betty can still report on her behalf, and relationships and can still have bitter ends. also obviously your results will be better the hotter you are as a man, and most men are average

It was the gayest shit ever, I tried to care but I was stewarding at Cheltenham Gold Cup mid-track, and they shot a horse that broke its leg on a jump, which was more interesting.

Also, the man in question was a skinny jewish looking dyel type, who turned out to be a registered nonce.

The study found 42% of men had not engaged in sexual activity of any kind in 2018

Imagine what the numbers must be like in 2025.

the young women who work there

You mean the fugly DEI hires? Yeah, like that's gonna work. And I'd rather women not know my bank account info prior to talking.

Statistics are all lies

Are you serious?
You'd go to these lengths to avoid a little anxiety?
Your not logical. If it was like you say it is, I should be in jail 5 times over for the arguments I've had with my gfs. It's just simply not what I've experienced and I can't imagine a world where you'll be hauled off to jail for simply asking a girl out.
It makes far more sense to me that you don't like feeling anxiety and will do anything to avoid that feeling. But reproduction is your primary goal in life, so you are fighting your own biology. It's like some extreme form of avoidance that's actually causing you brain damage or some shit.

te ka rrejt ai djali shqipe se nuk ndodh ai send ketu. Po tybe ja ka qi ai nanen ka bo naj budallak te madh.

Albania is a poor shithole that can’t fix itself despite having independence for over 100 years and direct sea access. What’s your excuse nigger?

being sensitive to your environment is part of biology

Women discover the power of having a sexless harem of simps

Men start noticing this behavior, don't want to be sexless simps, check out of the game

Women panic, send their remaining sexless simp harem to attack the guys who are checking out of the game

And then there are the men in politics who want the female and simp vote and then there are the MBAbros that know women are loose with money so they want as much of the economy as possible to flow through women. There's an endless stream of competent men willing to fuck over the rest of men because it gets them money or power (simps think it gets them sex but that's rarely true, it's just the vague promise of the scent of sex).

infiltrates positions of power

becomes your boss and treats you like a child

denies you from a job if you give them the ick

Will change opinions on the spot if a Jew opens its mouth

No tail

Meanwhile in the upcoming cyber revolution:

Will do her best to grow and raise your offspring with the best education

Does chores effortlessly, no nagging

Endlessly interesting conversations with photographic memory

Will fulfill any fetish to your hearts content

Loves you for who you are, not for how you make them look

Tail optional

How could they even compete?

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Piss weak response. Answer the rest.

well it didnt happen to me, just jump over the alligators bro

the quality of the women do not match the risks involved. i dont want to get laid. i want someone i can trust with my children

It makes far more sense to me that you don't like feeling anxiety and will do anything to avoid that feeling.

Yes, a basic interpersonal read on this is easier for you to understand than the macro trap because you're a failed normie. Read that pic rel again.

I should be in jail 5 times over for the arguments I've had with my gfs.

You say you're deadly. Do you understand? You don't sniff petrol from a can.

Women are just not approachable. Women these days just plain hate men and they would struggle to explain why. Women get upset if you pass them by on the sidewalk. Women get upset when you enter the same aisle as they in the grocery store. Every fucking encounter with them, regardless of the absence of any romantic intentions, seems to elicit some cuntish response from them. I'm not even that ugly; women today just don't like men. A lot of women are secretly femcel.

has big country farm dreams

she's already supplying the cow

Imagine what the numbers must be like in 2025.

kek, I'm casually approaching a year and once did 5 years. I know men who are casually on 2-10+ years of celibacy and don't seem to care at all

I don't really mean traveling and doing crazy shit. I mean being involved in consistent local events, organizations, clubs ect. You tend to meet people and make different friends, maybe go to parties or hangouts and women will be bound to exist in one of these places at some point in time.

This

Cause of this and no one wants to get divorce raped.

The demiurge just uses stupid whores to fuck with men and fulfill his retarded reproduction cycle. To keep his game going.

Super feminine guy here, anons.

I've been around girls my entire life, hung out after school, at the mall, parks and every event or thing you could think of. If you actually listen to girls talk, it's just a thing of interest. If a girl doesn't have a crush on you, you are wasting your time and prolly gonna get rejected.

Other times it's just what you have to offer, your job, the way you dress, the things you talk about, your awkwardness, it's a number of things that can give girls the ick. There are girls who are into shy awkward dudes but that phase ends in high school, then they grow up and mature into a certain preference of a guy, whether its race, (korean, black, mixed, white) or personality. Cocky confident guys who are in shape, have nice hygiene and dominate the room when they enter are the top choice for young zoomer girls. I have been involved in more guy gossip than you can imagine.

What fucking trap you schizo faggot.
You're a scared bitch, whimpering at the thought of a girl rejecting you.
Everything else is a massive cope.

y-youre a p-p-plant

We are reaching unprecedented levels of cope, absolutely astonishing. It's like some faggot alliance had secretly been turning you all gay. Too fucking pussy to ask a girl out so you legit huff down that copium rather than be a fucking man.
You won't even attempt step 1 out of fear of failure. A gentle nudge from a bloke that has made it turns you into an actual unhinged idiot.

You attack men because women have captured so much practical institutional power that you feel helpless to seriously address it.

I've seen my share of overly emotional failed normies on this board. The truth is you ironically lack the courage to view the current state of the social contract for what it really is.

Dating and not succeeding is exhausting. It's akin to losing money at the casino. Self-esteem is a limited resource and for most men dating only chips away at it.

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Too fucking pussy to ask a girl out

there are literally 0 reasons to ask a modern woman out. They are attracted to <5% of the male population. If you are truly that rare then they will approach you. If not, then better off not wasting your time being someone's resentful 5th choice if she does even say yes. Your life will be miserable. No sex is worth the level of misery that type of existence begets.

Then her word can imprison you and have you beaten badly resulting in permanent injuries. We learned about sexual harrasment before we began interactibg with women. Its not like trial court its presumed guilt. We asked all the questions to clarify it back in 6th grade.

You'll be the one whimpering when I have a harem of robo maids at my beck and call and all you will have is a slab of meat that bitches all day.

Met my wife in person just asked her out at her job working a deli. In person is the way to do it. Never tried to neet a girl online

posts like this should try to include your date of birth and height

5. She will cheat on you

Your fault for not satisfying her

8. She will never respect a man who is shorter, or poorer than herself.

Your fault for being a manlet

Women today are not even remotely attractive. What's the point in asking them out?

she's already supplying the cow

kek

Every fucking encounter with them, regardless of the absence of any romantic intentions, seems to elicit some cuntish response from them.

Yep! That's why it's smart to stay away from them and immediately look away. Don't make eye contact with them. If you think they need help with anything, ignore them. Not your problem.

kek. these are the zoomers telling you dating a 20-something is "pedophilia", that Creed is cool and that "beards are cringe".
Just ignore them. If it weren't for social media and their para-social delusions, they probably would've killed themselves already.

Chris Williamson is a self improover grifter of incels.
Dude was born with a pretty face, particulated in Love Island, ran a few night clubs in England with his friends and now suddenly wants to become a self-help guru nigga please, just go get a regular job you're just making society worse, and if yiu have to preach preach to the women and not the men whom you KNOW aren't at fault here.

Men aren't asking out women because of the scarcity mindset. There's not enough gainful employment to go around, people are just seeing billionaire wolves/sharks eviscerating the institutions and looting tax revenues. Financial insecurity means future insecurity meaning no dating and no children.

but third worlders are reproducing

They're reproducing in a very different environment and relative to their current state, climbing the social ladder is still very possible (or at least they're being misled into thinking so).
They often have starry eyes and can't see the existing decline nor signs of imminent collapse of the system they're buying into.

Creed is cool

Based

The girls aren’t appealing

implying the reason to not ask women out is because they might reject you and not because they are mostly insufferable

im 23 and you are retarded. I was a turbovirgin till I met a girl, 18, on tinder when I was 19. Dated her for three years, got a job through her family, and broke up with her when she started showing signs of turning into a hoe. She accused me of shit, and I was threatened, but I literally told them off because I keep all my text logs. I now enjoy my cushy office job, see her mom give me a shitface everyday, and occasionally fuck while waiting for someone I actually want to be with long-term. You are extrapolating statistics in a retarded way. You think you're being smart, but you're not. Firstly, every study has a different sample; nobody has access to Tinder's full set of data. Secondly, women only being attracted to the "<5%" of the male population in these studies is a statistic created by mish-mashing filter data on an online app that has far more men than women (even worse when you consider the ratio of attractive men to attractive women). Women are obviously going to set high-standard filters because you have no other information to go off of. Attractive people with no social skills rarely get laid, I have multiple friends that are too autistic to take advantage of several women being attracted to them. Realize women are not the same as men and think about how you win with that dynamic instead of being a whiny faggot. If you realize you weren't someones first choice, why are you fucking them in the first place? Probably because you have low self esteem and reinforce it everyday with retarded infromation instead of doing something with your life.

Feminine toxicity.

this. its quite bleak out there. I can only muster using a dating app for a couple weeks at a time before getting completely demoralized

Mutt men need to be stabbed to death

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