How to reverse the indoctrination of women ?

this if you truly care for her. if not just dump her right now. there are more than enough women out there.

Leave her and she'll get horny again. That's just how it works.

First of all, if she’s a vaxxie, dump her
If she’s unvaxxed, untested, try to fix it by being more confident and cold
If she started pills, take her off of them

She is not a vaxxie, I was planning to have the whole package with her but I dont want to be in a fucking sexless marriage, plus she has a few modern woman beliefs.

Also she is not on the pill, she doesnt take any controlled meds

If she doesnt want you, she doesnt want you. Stop wasting your time. Prolly she wants dick, just not yours, and even if what you say about her libido were true youre still wasting your time

Also I'll add that when my ex started to 'not want sex" she just didnt want to have it with me. She broke up with me pretty soon after, saying she just didnt love me anymore

The people who take up social studies is about 75% women. Social studies is a CIA created psyop laboratory made to churn out NPC’s armed with nation subversing powers.

Those that aren’t directly hired to act upon foreign nations, are left to wander and wantonly destroy their own homeland.

My girlfriend of 4 years since over 6 months has no libido and she genuinely believes she has a right to refuse me indefinitely.

Just leave her, tell her if she isn't having sex with you, it's over. Not rocket science.

She considers me attractive

No, she doesn't nigger. And she doesn't give a damn about your attentions and likely sees no further use for you.
Or she would be doing everything you want her to in the effort of keeping you around. Now she has you, sees it aint shit and is thinking of how to get something better.

Also she’s cheating and you should dump her before she dumps you.

Probably just sticking around to steal your resources for a bit longer.

She doesn't understand intimacy and she doesn't have your interests in mind. It's curable maybe, but not by you. Leave her, no more negative women

She is not cheating nigger, she tells me everywhere she goes, she barely goes out without me ever. She tries a lot to "compensate" in other ways, she is a great cook and she takes care of me. She just thinks she has no obligation to give me sex, only when she wants it. Its that simple

Is she sad / disappointed because the lack of ring? Maybe you should just talk to her, better after some alcohol, she will spill what’s going on. Sorry mate but high chance she don’t love you anymore or something, they usually act strangely before breaking up

Dude your cooked 100% fuck one of her friends and when she confronts you don't apologize just tell her you can't live in a sexless relationship so you had no choice you had to fuck her sister or her friend.

Approach them and ask if you can talk about your relationship say that your worried about it. Once you have them alone pour out your heart to them be truly vulnerable, but do it in a manly stoic way if you cry like a bitch it will turn them off. However if you approach it correctly you will build intimacy with them. Once you have done this start taking them out as friends to progressively more intimate settings, buy them small gifts of appreciation.

say that you don't want the relationship to end and you don't want to have sex with random women instead because you don't want to bring disease into the relationship.

The only logic conclusion that could be drawn from this line of reasoning is they must have sex with you to protect their friend from disease and fulfill your desires.

The seed will grow in thier mind and like all women if you make them feel special and unique and close to you emotionally thier woman minds will spin and create justifications for them fucking their friends boyfriend.

Seriously she will be enraged and rage is one step from horny for women. Once she calms down she will be back to sucking your cock in no time, or you can wife up the sister or friend and she can deal with losing you every time you run into each other.

just get a mistress dumb nigger like i told you. Then you have the woman at home cooking and the side piece polishing your knob stop being a jew loving kike nigger thinking it's morally wrong. Morals were invented by kings, kikes, and bankers to control you.

libido gone

leave her. she lost reespect and therefore attraction to you
kick her out/go away and don't look back

thread reads as bait but on the basis that your gf is unvaxxed, faithful & only now dipping her toes in feminism, dumping her would be a catastrophic mistake you're likely not going to emerge as the winner from. you have less to lose from raping her.

he's fucking poolish. he can find another unvaxxinated white woman

six months without sex is a long time
faithful and unvaxxed is oretty good, but without sex, the relationship is void
most of my friends are loyal and unvaxxed
doesn't mean i pay rent for them

the vaxx probably screwed up something with her hormones

Read my messages. My ex didnt cheat either but the love is lost

Man, why yall niggers are so zogged that you think everything is bait ? ts a real fucking story, it would be a 1pbtid if it werent. I started the relationship right before she started college she became more feminist despite not declaring herself one and more hardheaded. She is faithful and unvaxxed, has a good father and values her family. Just has feminist values in her mind

We do do it, but far to sparsely for my taste, like an average of maybe 6 times a month. She mostly has desire during her fucking period which is the worst, lmao. I do it anyways. I am 24 and she is 21

Art of the deal.
Always be prepared to walk away if you don't get what you want.

I read it, perkeleanon. I just dk if its the case, im inclined to believe this is a common pattern in many women that they lose desire over time in long relationships. Women are just all kinds of weird. I want to find a way to fix it I guess.

like an average of maybe 6 times a month

she genuinely believes she has a right to refuse me indefinitely

Which is it?

I had the same situation and it's not going to get better. I stuck it out for a long time

If she was truly attracted to you she wouldn't need to be asked anon

Exactly what I wrote she thinks she can refuse me for as long as she wants until she has desire herself.
Yeah, man if thats the case im not gonna stand around for it. I dont wanna be redditor complaining he hasnt had sex in 1 year or some shit like that.

okay, then try to make her jealous

Well shit, dunno what to say. Think about it I guess. Sounds just like my situation though and I dont believe it was salvageable after 6 months of not having sex

Tell her that if you guys are not having sex any more you've just become just friends tell her you're cool with that and proceed to fuck other women
8 years with my girl and she never said no

Be cold and make her jealous. Kraut is correct, she got too comfy . You need to remind her she is supposed to compete with other woman

has no libido

I guarantee you she masturbates multiple times a week. I will bet real money.

Shit happens, just explain it's not right for either of you to always have to fight for what you want. Sex is something you have to enjoy consciously and willingly, some people just don't want as much in their lives.

this might work. be nice about it, but be firm
fuck other girls and she will come back
happens a lot with "open relationships"

Don't forget to tell her you'll no longer be doing boyfriend duties, like paying bills, protecting her outside, taking out the trash, fixing shit, taxi-ing her places. "What am i your boyfriend or your *insert word here*". Or say "well my ex used to fuck me all the time etc.

I want to be a temny trnenuu
Teen
Trennt
I mean trennh
Trenny
Tranny, yes. I want to buy hormones and transform myself into a bitch fit for sucking dick. Oh fuck yes failed Indian male!!!!

Idk dude just send her out on pointless errands and jerk off

Thats a good idea actually just sit there in bed jerking off to your phone and say well you wont do it for me will you?

I dont wanna go fuck casually like a manwhore its a matter of christian principles.
I guess I could try this I guess, that and jerking off to porn to see if jealousy changes anything. And yes I am aware of the hypocrisy of refusing to have casual sex due to christian principles but watching porn but I suppose its the lesser of two evils and its my way of solving the frustration.

I dont wanna go fuck casually

no fucking required, only her sense she could lose you to another woman
if she doesn't give a fuck about about taht, she is gone anyway

You don’t need to force anything on a woman who actually wants you. If a woman wants you she will change her personality overnight. I’ve had liberal alt girls turn right wing in the span of a week because they want to impress me. Very few women have any real cemented ideals and are always going to mold themselves around the strongest presence in their life. If she doesn’t listen to you it’s because she doesn’t respect you, or you aren’t worthy of being followed. If she saw you as something she couldn’t risk losing it wouldn’t even be a problem.

Is this situation salvageable ?

You can make your own sandwiches but you probably can't suck your own dick. So she is not doing the thing that she is most useful for. Break up with her and find a new gf.

has no libido and

He thinks she has no libido lol.
If you 100% sure she is not cheating then, read watch videos about sex-not-compatibility i can send you but its russian. And find another woman becase this one is broken and not fulfilling her woman duties.

Sadly this kraut is correct.

t.woman

If it was that shrimple he would've done it already.

Have you tried inviting a nigger into your bedroom to spice up her life and libido?

It's impossible without strong hierarchies of men taking control again.

Women function as an exclusive in-group with all the same interests and tendencies. Men do not form such collective in-groups naturally to back each other up specifically as men. This is why the idea of an oppressive "Patriarchy" is a laughable fictive system of control. Men compete with other men and only form small groups to cooperate with or they will serve hierarchically under a leader, say, in an army, but only under certain circumstances and never to promote and protect their interests explicitly as men. Women are one collective that functions together via group think and social programming as well as social policing and narrative manipulation and they view men as an out-group and will behave under this assumption when they are not properly culturally controlled.

This is why sexual equality is impossible and incompatible with Civilization itself. The women will always end up socially dominating the men due to the natures of both sexes and the fact that men evolved to naturally see their women as part of their in-group and an extension of themselves while women see men as an out-group that must be controlled and manipulated to benefit and emotionally gratify themselves and which they have no inherent allegiance to or unity with. All of the best parts of women can only come when they are shaped by a strong male dominated hierarchy that enforces proper behavioural standards and keeps the overall group, both male and female, united against *real* outgroups.

Feminism is a suicide cult based on rejection of Nature and Truth.

Bait thread, written by a woman.
OP is BBC property.

No. She is likely perimenopausal (look it up) and it will be your death to bring it up.

She is 21, nigger.

Uhhhhhhhh

21

no libido

Man, it’s over. I’m so sorry. Better now than later. But it is over.

says she understands how you feel but never ever changes

She's told you everything you need to hear, you just aren't listening or paying attention.

Leave. It will not improve. It cannot be fixed because there's nothing TO fix - attraction cannot be forced and it isn't a choice. If being sexless is a deal breaker (and it sounds like it is, and it should be), then you can rape her or you can leave her. Those are your choices.

She's cucking you

Truth.

she lost desire

This happens for many reasons. Some are the man's fault, some are the woman's, and some just happen, like in the case of fluctuating hormones (although if she's on the pill, get her off that shit - that reason would be HER fault).

she feels like she isn't obligated to provide me with sex

THIS is a much bigger issue.
Women ARE obligated to provide their husband/boyfriend with sexual release, that is a major part of the relationship contract even if it goes unsaid. It is in fact her responsibility to see her man sexually fulfilled - if she is unwilling or unable to do so directly herself, that does not abrogate the responsibility, she must either find someone who will or allow her man to seek it outside of the relationship such as an escort or a mistress/side piece.

If she is unwilling to fulfill her end of the relationship contract, and also unwilling to subcontract that part out to someone else, she has outright broken the contract entirely. Your relationship is already done bro, that is what she's telling you by withholding sex. It doesn't really matter WHY it's done, only that it IS done. Get out, you're cooked homie.

Shes 21 retard

Why would you ever ask relationship advice online? People will just tell you to break up for the mildest inconveniences, so you can't trust them even in cases where your inconvenience is not mild at all.

Yeah, this is my opinion also. I really love her and she loves me too. But idk, man if this wont change I cant see a marriage here. Ill just be miserable, whatever scraps ive been getting now will probably become a fraction of what it is now.

How to reverse the indoctrination of women ?

any rational thing coming out of their mouth is superficial and transient
they just repeat what they heard from the herd
the programming is on the emotional level which needs to be overridden
talking won't help
she'll need to become the sleeping princes and submit to her prince coming to the rescue

Im not retarded and I know how to filter information, but you are right in your advice

this... shes using you as an emotional support buddy while she fucks chadowski

no libido

she's cheating on you, fren

she genuinely believes she has a right to refuse me indefinitely

She does, you fucking rapist wannabe.
Break up, instead of pushing sex on an unwilling partner.

She's cheating on you 100%

Could be a shit test for your self control.
Sounds like you have already failed.
When you fornicate, have sex before marriage, you get what you deserve.

Only the (((media))) can do that. They caused the problem on the shallow pea brains of white women. They CAN fix it if they want but they don't so that's why I don't take the birth rate thing seriously at all.

Irrelevant. Most of the reason men tolerate women around at all is for sex. If she isn't sleeping with you, she's a roommate. Actually, worse than that - she's a roommate who mooches off your labor, time, and money, who doesn't even pay rent.

For women, their ass IS their rent. You're the landlord. What does a landlord do when their tenant stops paying rent? Evicts them and finds a new tenant to replace them. Your woman is your tenant, and she isn't paying rent. There's only one logical course of action.

By the way - don't tell her any of this. You don't need to justify your decision to kick her out, especially not to her.

Women ARE obligated to provide their husband/boyfriend with sexual release,

Tomorrow you will wonder why no gf sticks around your entitled ass.

She is cheating on you, you fucking retard

She's not yours, it's just your turn.

Looks like your turn is over, get off the ride and move along.

Grats you are de facto married, might as well go through with it so you have a more legit excuse.

If she truly loved you, she would do as you ask and seek to please you. Don't listen to what women say, watch what they do.

I don't keep girlfriends in the first place, so this intended insult is moot. It isn't my problem if my "tenants" want to stop paying rent, they can be replaced, but I have limited time and space in my life, and I'm not going to give it away to freeloaders - ass, cash, or grass, NO ONE rides for free.

You want the woman to enthusiatically want sex though, he has to fix that, otherwise the sex is just lame

lots of women have no libido, but they let their bfs fuck them if they fear losing them. If you woman doesn't fear losing you that's because she thinks she can get a better man easily after breaking with you.

he has to fix that

He can't fix that. Either she wants to sleep with him or she doesn't. For women this fluctuates with the time of day, the day itself, the month, the phases of the moon, and all sorts of other shit that men really don't care about because all of that is HER problem to fix, not his. From the man's perspective - he's dating her, providing for and protecting her, to sleep with her. She isn't sleeping with him. HE'S doing what he's supposed to, she isn't. That's a HER problem, not his.

That alone is an unforgiveable mark of disrespect toward the man. He should break up with her on that fact alone.

Sure. The women long to ride your shitty resources.

sometime making her jealous is enough as a wake up call for her

She has a right to refuse you borderline rapist weirdo

Its over. Start preping for end.

resources

Look at this clown. He thinks "resources" are what get women wet.

You'll learn, son. Or you won't, and then you'll be the one waking up in a shitty sexless marriage wondering how you got there.

And he has right to find new one that doesnt.

She does! Of course she does!
And he has a right to show her the door.

That's how trades work, genius, and every single human relationship is a trade at its core.

Nah, dump, carpe diem.

If she "refuses", why do you allow that to matter?

Modern men are out here taking no for an answer and wondering why their women are not happy with them.

haha Exactly!
They never like to be reminded of that.
Men don't expire anywhere near as quickly as they do either. Stupid women gambling on the next monkeybranch endlessly as they age is pathetic. Jewishly neurotic cunts

this is bad advice, women without libido will let you fuck them, but once you marry them and they think they have you locked, you won't get any sex.

Once the urban-economic bubble bursts and cities are in slow and steady decline, they will gradually return to the countryside and embrace the terrible patriarchy again. Urban remainers will stay behind and become more and more overly socialized, man hating, conniving, fucked up and depraved and it will be particularly common among the political and social elite, but more and more will return to their homes as mentioned. Unfortunately, this trend is also the death knell for our civilization. It is the sign that we are laying down to rest and to die.

That's because most men aren't rapists but also aren't confident enough to remove people from their lives that displease them. Women aren't happy with weak, unconfident men, but strong confident men don't tolerate female bullshit and they get rid of them. It's a very delicate dance we play.

As the other anon said, her not viewing sex as a relational obligation is a massive deal. Do you listen to her complaints? Do you comfort her? Do you provide her emotional relief? Because those things are also a part of the bargain. I'd explain to her that sex is as much of a need for you as emotional support is a need for her. It's the duty in any relationship to satisfy the needs of your partner. If one party doesn't, I personally do not blame the other party for looking to have that need satiated elsewhere. It's why I don't blame battered or neglected wives for cheating. Same way I won't blame men for cheating when their wives refuse to put out or have a sex life with them. Both people dropped their end of the bargain & deserve no sympathy.

It's one of the reasons the "two become one flesh" thing is such a core part of Christian marriages & why it generally works out well when taking the pledges and duties to one another to heart. If you can't find a woman who is willing to do something for you with a smile on their face even when they may not feel like it, it is better to remain alone. They are not marriage material. The same applies to you in turn. If you won't make time for your wife with a smile on your face after a long day when you're exhausted and maybe even ornry from the day, you do not deserve a wife. These 2 duties have been the core of successful marriages/relationships since the dawn of human intelligence.

but once you marry them and they think they have you locked, you won't get any sex.

AND!?
These whores don't think marriage is a lifelong commitment under god in front of the entire world and their local community.
They think of it as a shitty contract barely upheld by the government and a contract they get money and prizes from breaking.

she wants you to dom her, anon. just be a dom and she'll get excited.
it's like 99% of women and it's not even hard

That is primarily an issue surrounding marriage laws, and why men are less interested in marrying these days - it takes away most of a man's power and leverage and gives it to the woman, and of course, women don't respect men they are more powerful than, so they divorce. The laws around the institution force this reaction. A wise man doesn't marry through the government-enforced contract - it's suicidal for him.

she's getting railed by some other dude, my man.

That was your claim, retard larping as a playboy.

this leaf won't get the rake, nice post

Her clunge is filled with chads semen and she doesn't want you to find out.

tell her she needs to see a doctor to rule out any medical conditions that might be causing low libido. leave if she refuses.

then she lost desire for no reason

She is fucking someone else, idiot.

she has a right to refuse me indefinitely

She has, just as you have a right to get a hooker

I explained her the bargain but the core feminist values are stronger. Its funny, she doesnt call herself a feminist, she even calls herself a christian but she is not practicing. But most of her values are feminist. Ill cite a few : Im not obligated to cook or clean, she does it though (im the only one working right now)
Shame of being associated with the concepts of traditional house wife
This shit of not having to provide sex and thinking its only about her feelings
Refusal of the concept of the man being above the woman in hierarchy.

Come to think about it im pretty sure a very big percentage of girls who dont claim to be feminists are probably like this, practically feminists but without the label.

This anon gets it. Sexual gratification is an actual requirement for men to want to participate in relationships with women. If women don't want to do so with their boyfriends, then they don't deserve that boyfriend and they deserve no sympathy for what the man does or does not do outside of that relationship.

It's an obligation, a responsibility, a duty. Not every responsibility is a pleasant one all the time, but it must be done regardless. Your own wants and happiness have nothing to do with duty.

Ok i was just joking earlier but yes you need to get rid of her, she provides nothing to you except her presence that is literally femcel ideology. She is treating you like a doormat, a fool and a free ride. All you are doing is hurting yourself by delaying the breakup. You are worth more than some rotcel whore.

This is the internet homie; I'm obviously Elon Musk larping as a nobody Anon for kicks, and you're an idiot if you can't tell that.

That's sarcasm, for the slow people out here. Imagine how dumb you'd have to be to "attack the messenger" on an anonymous Tibetan yak herding imageboard, such a waste of time.

This happened in India. Brahmins would fuck any shudra or dalit woman without consequence. her cuck husband or father will raise any offspring.
It's why DNA tests dont help with caste census.
Lot of dalits have significant brahmin DNA, and a lot of Brahmins are descended from a long fucking line of pretenders.

I explained to her the bargain

Ooh, you fucked up there. You are in no way obligated to justify or explain your decisions to her, and doing so generally just gets an angry response from women. They don't want to know the why, they just want men to do or not do.

You don't owe her understanding or explanation. If she doesn't understand what the problem is, it isn't your responsibility to explain it, and she'll likely resent you if you do. Don't bother explaining yourself to women, it's a waste of time.

Either pack her shit up and record it for Anon Babble or stop posting, you either let yourself be a cúck or stand up for yourself.

The consensus is in bro. Shit or get off the pot.

You don't. Men have to raise a new generation of girls. This project has not yet begun.

This. Modern women can do anything and are never shamed for it. Even cheating and ruining families, you're the bad guy for pointing it out.

All women lose desire for their men. They get off on novelty and excitement, and in this world of constant dopamine, social media expectations, and coomer media and literature it’s just that much harder to please them. It doesn’t matter how attractive you are, how rich you are, how bold you are, how manly you are, how generally appealing you are, your woman will get bored with you eventually. Period. You basically have 4 choices at that point. You have her fulfill her sexual duties as a matter of obligation to you as her husband or you try to push-pull to constantly reintroduce a bit of spark and excitement into the relationship or you badboymaxxx to try to get her to look at you the way she looks at the bad boys she no doubt fawns over as the solution to her boredom or you a do a combination of both.

What you need to understand is that the way young men daydream about and idealize war, women do that about love (lust) forever. There will never not be a time where they aren’t excited at the prospect of fucking a young bad boy in a forbidden trust. Your job is to con her into giving that to you or making her give it to you. She won’t do it on her own since she has neither a church nor a law that makes her.

get rid of her, she doesnt like you anymore. i dont know what to tell you at this point. youre probably retarded.
she will not even give a fuck when you leave unless youre able to shower her with money.

girlfriend

So not even your wife? Just ditch the bitch

Thanks, anon. It puts us in a tough position, as even educating other men of the problem is difficult. Especially within the context of modern propagandistic systems.

Also, accept that marriage means literally nothing to modern women. It’s just another chapter in their lives and another time for the Instagram page, just like divorce will be. You should know that there is a high likelihood she will divorce you and call it pursuing her own happiness. You should know that so you know first of all what you’re trying to avoid, not a sexless marriage but a divorce, and also so that if and when it happens you’re not blindsided.

im the only one working right now

and she isn't giving you any sex? You are a fucking loser man, I don't mean it to insult you, but from the outside is pretty clear. Dump her and find another woman who will let you fuck. Or try making her jealous, you don't even need to break any rules from your jewish holy book. Just introduce some female coworker to your gf and she will get jealous pretty fast, you don't need to do anything. If that doesn't work just leave her or fuck other women.

i would go out with her and hook up new women when shes standing next to you. then you tell her that shes useless and youre making the rules.

As easily solved forever through impersonal engineering and readily available infrastructure.

Specifically, by putting women into barns, where they will be bred and milked to the full extent of efficiency granted by human Zootechnics, and then unceremoniously disposed of with a pneumatic needle when their bodies are spent and unproductive.

That's not how it works
Then make it look like you may leave her for other women, until she gets jealous and gets her shit straight

My girlfriend of 4 years since over 6 months has no libido

Unless she is suffering some sort of illness, she doesn't respect you, doesn't fear you, and likely takes your relationship for granted. Probably because you failed several shit tests. Give her an ultimatum: threaten to see hookers, threaten to leave. She needs to feel disposable.

thats a tough one, being a real man.

YOURE SO HEARTLESS

yea yea yea

Listen up, dude:
you both should be born again christians, recognizing the mystery of salvation which happens only through faith and faith alone

Then you man up and you propose to her instead of being a liberal godless faggot.

Prepare the best engagement ring, the best location, travel to an exotic place and make it exciting.

Dont listen to any other fags in this thread, specially the ones telling you to simply leave her right now.

If she says no, give her some time. If she still is made up about her mind, ask again with the same ring and make this your last attempt.
If she isnt serious about God and His Will then look for someone who is.

No, fuck her younger sister instead.

If you've explained this to her and she's still acting like that, you need to really lay it out for her one final time before just jumping ship. If she isn't willing to understand why it's important, she's not marriage material, but also if she isn't willing to listen to you and get behind you, she isn't marriage material.

It's normal for women to try to outhink you or find flaws in what you say, but when you out-rationalize them and they still don't get with the program, just run. There's no hope.

To wrap this up before I dip, I just want to stress how sad it is that femininity is still so widely loved and appreciated by men, but masculinity is absolutely not appreciated or respected by women anymore. They do not view men as leaders and it's reflected by their refusal to get with the program of how good men think & operate. Like I said, it's normal for them to push back a bit. That's totally fine and actually the duty of a good wife imo, but when you can turn an argument or line of thinking they make on their heads and they still battle with you, that exposes an underlying problem of not respecting men/masculinity or our ability to lead.

Find a new girlfriend because this one intends on getting fat

you are too boring in bed
mess her up real bad and you will see how wet she gets

It’s completely salvageable. You have to stay busy and work 3 full time jobs. She’s tired and doesn’t want sex from you because she’s getting gaped in every hole by Mohammed, Jamal, Tyrone, and dakwon. Now in a few months she’ll be pregnant. No, you can’t run away because it’s yours. Well your responsibility. lol enjoy being cucked, wyboi. Remember to tell yourself hitler was right (as if that will make any difference)

Your biggest problem is not that she doesn’t know your expectations. This is what men never understand. You can’t put expectations on a woman who isn’t attracted to you. Modern women aren’t kept in marriages by religion nor law. The only things keeping them are convenience and a sense that it’s worthwhile relative to alternatives. Furthermore, money and loyalty don’t keep them because they can get money elsewhere and women don’t care about loyalty. All relationships are strictly relationships of convenience for them. And what is convenient in the eyes of a woman? Excitement, pleasure, fun, maybe even a bit of danger. Authority, manliness, desire all these make men attractive but these sort of things are what really make men attractive. If your girl is depriving you of sex, acting cold and combative, the problem is usually not that you’re not a man, or that she doesn’t know your expectations, it’s that she isn’t attracted to you. What you should do is first of all, pull her attention back to you and away from the bad boy she now no doubt is lusting over and possibly fucking by doing a bit of push and pull, a bit of teasing, romance, gaslighting, the rough sex followed by aftercare of emotions. Then you have to looksmaxx and try to embody the bad boy. Be exciting and unpredictable, start scouting alternatives to cheat on (don’t cheat but make connections as if you would). Lastly, you need to accept that you cannot force a woman to be interested and faithful. Chances are she will divorce you and that’s just how modern marriages work.

Ok so you got a good run for 3.5 years. Time to move on to fresher pastures. Once a girl pulls this stunt it's virtually over. She has shown you she doesn't respect you and submit to you. And she has the audacity to challenge you. If you were someone she deep down respected she wouldn't even be able to look you in the eye and would spread her legs to please you at any opportunity.

If you continue down this path you'll only lose self respect. It's over bro accept it

just break up with her first, retard
tell her that you respect her decision to refuse you sex, but that it's important to you to have a partner that's willing to be regularly sexual with you, so it's over
she'll have your dick sucked by the time you get to the door.

start hanging out with beautiful women. spend less time with her and more on self-improvement. don't initiate sex, nor talk about it. once in a while, when you get very horny, act like you own her and can do whatever you want to her. if she protests of try to disengage in anyway, act like it didn't happen and refuse to talk about it. If this doesn't work after two months, dump her ass

I firmly believe it’s not only illogical but futile to expect a good and lasting monogamous relationship with a modern woman. Most of them just don’t want that. Sure, you might get lucky and find one that does but you probably won’t. I really dislike that whole Red Pill PUA community but they have one maxim which I really do believe is true: she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. This is just how modern relationships work. I’ve spent enough time around modern women to know that most of them consider divorce and when they don’t go through with it it’s almost always because they get too fat lazy to play the field not because they don’t want to. Sad and bitter truth but I do think it’s true. We just don’t have the religious, legal, social, and economic conditions that kept women with their men historically. Better to accept it than delude yourself think.

get her pregnart
Also TKD

It really is that simple. Show her that you are a violent man and suddenly she won't have a low libido anymore. All of the other responses telling you to get another woman or just deal with a frigid one are bathed in modern indoctrination.

How do you bad boy Maxx

By the way, attraction for women is situational. They’re not just attracted to looks like men are. It’s the whole package and especially context. This is why in every city there are ugly DJs fucking hot women. They have things that make them attractive which are more than just looks and wealth. Every nightlife scene in every city is filled with literal scumbags who are not even that good looking that fuck like crazy because they just have the vibe and persona and life that women are into.

This does often work but you have to be careful because this one panacea can really fuck up your life.

How do you bad boy Maxx

When you deal with so many bullshit from women it just comes naturally. Women are masochists, there's nothing that turns them more than slapping when during an argument, they naturally submit. Be possesive and jealous, women love that shit.

start hanging out with beautiful women. spend less time with her and more on self-improvement. don't initiate sex, nor talk about it. once in a while, when you get very horny, act like you own her and can do whatever you want to her.

players handbook

rollo faggmassi advice

FUCK THAT FAGGOT, I WANT MY PERSONAL WHORE'S LEGS WRAPPED AROUND ME PERPETUALLY OR SHE'S GETTING REPLACED IMMEDIATELY BY ANOTHER WHORE
Or go do some swingers party cuckoldry after playing in a shitty cover band at 70 years old like an attention seeking faggot if you want to pretend to be the bad boy like rollo advises

Yes.
Invent women,

1. Be athletic, or at least thin
2. Be good looking
3. Be a scumbag
It’s basically that easy. Literally just think about some guy you’ve known who lived in the seedy underbelly or on the fringes and live like him for a while. This is half the reason I tell guys they are wasting their time pursuing modern careers. They are transforming themselves into husband provider types in a world where women mostly want dirtbag bad boys who can barely hold a job or work as bartenders and DJs. When famous women cheat on their husbands, who do they cheat with? Some banker? A doctor? No! They cheat with their BJJ coaches, ski instructors, total bums. Jessica Simpson cheated on Nick Lechey with Johnny Knoxville. Leann Rimes cheated on her trust fund kid chef husband with a boy band actor who was modeling and doing drugs. Meg Ryan cheated on her husband with Russel Crowe when he was her co-star and known as a loose canon actor with a drinking habit. These are the kind of guys women lust after and especially who they look for when they get bored in stable relationships.

Anon, there is literally only one (1) lifestyle rule in the New Testament - the requirement for sex if you're married. True story. It was important enough that Paul wrote a whole epistle.

JUST FUCK SIDE CHICKS WTF

w*ves don't deserve loyalty or emotional support if they are bitchy.

Every feminist needs to be lobotomized and made into a good little tard wife.

She has some insecurity or medical condition, or doesn't love you.

No. I’ve been married 15 years and my wife has never refused me sex.

I’m guessing she wants you to dominate her in bed and just take her, but you’re too much of a pussy to do it.

Dump her asap. How is that not obvious.

Heidi Klum cheated on her husband with her bodyguard. Kristen Stewart cheated on her boyfriend with a director who was fucking models. Princess Diana cheated on her husband, the guy who would become King with a cop and probably her coach too. Madonna cheated on her husband with a baseball player. Paris Hilton cheated on her husband with a teenage heart throb. Brittany Spears cheated on her husband with a backup dancer. The list goes on and on. You’ll notice none of the men they cheated with were safe, normal, white collar working stiffs with security and good jobs. The most successful among them worked in entertainment and nightlife or were lowly cops and security.

Fix her hormones
"Rape" her, women love it

Anon, she already ended the relationship, she is just waiting on you to leave. Women don't like to tell you to leave because then it is harder for them to play victim.

she is either too sure about you or you failed some shittests. focus on yourself, reward her for good behavior, punish for bad. it will fix itself or fall apart.
keep in mind women are wired for babies, after 3 years of lots of sex and no baby her subliminal part may feel something is wrong and it's time to move on. don't expect women to understand what they feel. she can be feminist on her own, if she's with you set firm boundaries for what you accept. relationships with women work best when they think they can loose you..

Just leave her. It's over. She has already broke up with you. She's just a coward that refuses to tell you before getting a new bf

idk, i never needed sex, you sound like a massive bet retard and she's catching on.

I did the segx whenever i wanted... like... nigger ...
"Ive tried explaining that this is not how it works" wdym you explained ? if it doesnk work in a way just do it the way it's supposed to.

21

yea, it's ovyr

Alright niggas, update. I tried giving her an ultimatum. I ve told her I love her but I will leave her if this situation does not change. She got very sad and distressed, I feel like it may have had a positive effect. I guess, since I posted this thread maybe ill make an update thread in the future.

mine never says no if it's in a bed, we are both "clean," and it is btw the hours and 9-11 pm. window is up to midnight on a weekend. if she does occasionally initiate, her big move is to ask me if I want to go to bed early. missionary only. It is painfully boring. Basically like masturbating to the same face and tits over and over again, even if she's an 8.
-inb4 she's cheating, no. we both work from home. neither she nor I would be able to hide it.
I use other women periodically. because neither of us would be able to hide it, she is acutely aware. Her rigidity seeps into every facet of life, so there are reasonable guidelines that I am expected to follow. In most abstracted regards she is practical. Only in the visceral does she become completely impractical.
when I'm linking outside with a new one, suddenly her libido goes through the roof and we go to 10x a week and then it's game on however, anywhere, anytime. Although she would never admit it, I suspect she's a cuck, or maybe she's simply hyper-competitive.
I'm on a big push right and have no time for Extracurricular activities, so back to the doldrums.
recently, as I have done in the past, I stopped initiating, juice isn't worth the squeeze. After a couple of weeks, There is generally some accusations leveled at me. this time, she had the audacity to ask me if I'm in poor health because I don't try anymore. I told her AGAIN exactly what the problem is and she says that she understands and she's going to fix it. But she never does. Until I get another sidepiece. And then the cycle continues.
tl;dr
Wife is a saltless, mustard-less pretzel stand open for two hours per day until I come round smelling like fish and chips

girlfriend of 4 years

didn't marry her

didn't put a kid in her

Lol oh no no no no no no.
Bros, it's white genocide. Why did the jews make him not breed his gf?

Break up. Break out of sunk cost fallacy.

yeah, it's ogre. You need to find some new pierogi for yr kielbasa polishbro

Is she on birth control? If so, get her off of it, marry her and knock her up. No more birth control. Wear condoms if you dont want kids just yet. Birth control kills sex drive. I think it is the main reason women in first world countries are stuck up feminists.

mine never says no if it's in a bed, we are both "clean," and it is btw the hours and 9-11 pm. missionary only.

Anon, this is normal.
Learn to pound her properly. Skill issue on your part. You don't need to be inventive in sex, you only need raw animal power for massive orgasms.

A true Aryan civilization will purge all the faggots who use golem pseudospeaks and pseudocultures like C*** or whatever other insidious niggrojude babble.

You don't deserve to use the domain you are using to post here.
You will never be a young woman again, roastie!

dump her

you are her betabuxx paypig cuck, she is taking alphafucks BBC on the side 100%

ghost her and save some dignity

No, she s not and has never been. She has however been on antidepressants as a teenager. She s been out of it for over 6years or more. It was mainly due to medical malpractice

six months without sex is a long time

LOOOL I'm on six years now. There will be no Return to the Orifice anymore!

She got very sad and distressed, I feel like it may have had a positive effect

what?

Yup. Don't even try to convince or change her mind. Even if she temporarily gets back into it, this shit will always pop back up.

This is a sign of things to come, so bail out now, OP. If a man does this, she will start to chase him and put out a lot if she is really into him.

Isnt that whats suppose to happen ? She shows that she cares about me.

Is this situation salvageable ?

Yes. Cheat, or at least demonstrate that cheating is an option.

She needs to feel disposable.

He hasn't married her, after 4 years. 3 and a half, allegedly happy years.
She already feels disposable.

Well, 99% of threads are some psyop so can you really blame everyone?

Break up with her now. Clearly state it's because of lack of sex. If it's meant to be, she will try to win you back, if not you dodged a bullet.

I wish someone told me this shit 12 years ago.

t. Stuck in decade long unsatisfying marriage.

if shes not fucking you shes fucking someone else

Sounds like your problem is being too selfish.
She's distressed and very sad, and you believe that's a good thing. You're a terrible partner. No wonder her parts dried up.
My advice is to move on. Let that poor girl find someone else.

Being a needy incel is extremely unnatractive to women

she needs to see other women attracted to you. once she sees any sort of competition she'll suck your dick.

Stop wasting her time. 4 years have passed, and you're still unable to care for her as a person.
Let it go.

started the relationship right before she started college she became more feminist

Surprise surprise.

I had this problem with a girl, only wanted it once a month and I tolerated it for a year. If it was fine 6 months ago then she could have some health problems, get her checked out, if there's nothing, she's either cheating on you or just doesn't want you anymore but has committed to too much life BS with you to take the breakup dive, you could try to breakup and be roommates until you guys go your own direction after things are sorted in a calm, healthy way or you could just live together with the problem for however long, but a man starved of sex won't last, you do have to eventually get her out of your life, her presence alone will cause a lot of sexual frustrations even after you jerk off a ton.

4 years

No sex

What the fuck are you doing? You should've dumped her already by 6 months maximum and even that's pushing it to the normiecuck extreme. These days you'd want sex within the first two weeks, if it's more than that you are losing. You're a loser because you're a beggar and not a chooser.

How do you not become demoralized bros? I'm career maxing for my own sake, but it still feels depressing

Is the only winning move to not take women seriously at all?