When Molly Kochan was diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer aged 42, she had a rather unexpected reaction. Within weeks of her diagnosis she had left her husband and embarked on an odyssey of sexual self-discovery, trying anything from kicking a man as hard as she could in the crotch, to spending time with a foot fetishist and engaging in, er, “water sports”.
After relating one such date to her friend, Nikki Boyer, the pair decided to make a podcast about her new mission and in 2020 Dying for Sex was released. So extraordinary is Kochan’s story that the notoriously choosy five-time Oscar nominated actress, Michelle Williams, broke her acting hiatus to play her in a new TV adaptation of the same name. After two days immersed in Kochan’s story I feel like a human raisin: dehydrated from crying and laughing. It’s so desperately sad to keep realising that this vividly funny and thoughtful person died in 2019.
When Kochan started hormone treatment, two things happened: her libido increased and she couldn’t sleep. So she began posting sexy selfies in her underwear to men she met online all over the world – she loses count at 183 – to “distract [herself] from pain or illness”.
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