This is very true. Anon Babble will never want to accept it but women can read you, they don't understand what they're feeling, but they just know they are put "off" by you for some reason, and it's because of your psyche.
Why is it that they date psychos that are objectively bad news for them? Because those psychos still have some assets that are better than what you have, even if it's literally just confidence/attractiveness.
A guy is dangerous? Well, that danger could be in my favor if I make him like me enough. But having no ability for danger at all? Ew.
Your danger being directed towards her womanness? even more ick.
That's why Jamal is still an option in her head. He'll beat her ass sure, but he may beat your ass too to defend her, and Jamal doesn't inherently hate women (at least he doesn't present as such), he just has poor impulse/emotional control.
All of these are better than an incel, who is both weak and dangerous to a woman for the sake of her womanness.