Do male friendships last longer than female friendships because males secretly hate each other?

Do male friendships last longer than female friendships because males secretly hate each other?

"no"

Holy fucking projection kek

It’s true that all men secretly hate each other
You’d be a fool to leave your best mate alone with your missus, doesn’t matter how well you know him.

She's just mad male friendship is not transactional

Of course the colored woman doesn't understand how friendships actually are. Men never compete with each other, we uplift each other. I've had the same group of 4 friends for the last 20 years. I don't know a single woman who can say the same.

women can't comprehend friendship

kek

it's the opposite, men secretly love each other and women secretly hate each other.

I don't hate my guy friends. I actively petition for their lives to be better because I think they're good people that were there for me when I needed them.
We don't have to get into deep discussion (while sober) because men don't operate that way. Unloading your emotional baggage on anybody with ears has to be the least appealing female quality in the world. Combine that with the "I just wanted someone to listen, not advice" bullshit and I truly do hate women.
If you're not looking for a solution then keep that shit to yourself. I have problems of my own I'm trying to solve.

That sounds like a problem with your misses.

Moidbros... were been called out........

We only hate each other when one gets a girl and we are left hanging with our limp dick. But when we both get girls, now that's a different story!

I do get fed up with male friends from time to time but then we call each other faggots a couple times and are laughing about it an hour later

I am a Muslim and don't drink at all. I can be friends with people of different religions, but Muslims are my brothers.

I can't describe the feeling. It is like talking to a blood brother you have known your whole life.

pretty much. notice that gentile men never compete upwards? that requires cooperation. easier to fuck over the guy next to you than fight the jews

Hating and competing are not the same thing. I don't secretly hate anyone. I openly hate people and they know it.

They lack depth

My wife doesn't see her friends anymore because they all have kids and she does not. She feels inadequate.
Meanwhile in my friends group my one buddy makes 100k+ with a nice house and another is an unemployed literal schizo living with his parents. Women are just gay and retarded at everything

Fuck off to a Muslim country and be with your brothers

Nobody thinks this. This is giga projection copium

Is this how women cope?

A woman's observation

Women are only capable of seeing it by projecting themselves into the scenario. This woman can't fathom simplicity and has to assume men think like women and are petty cunts. She can't even fathom basic human companionship.

Buy an ad Abdul.

Kek, what? I've had the same 3 closest friends for close to 25 years. We'd walk through fire for one another and kinda have in the past.
Every woman I've ever met has cut her "friends" out of their lives entirely and started from scratch at least three times by 25

The 19th amendment was the worst mistake the United States ever did.

Men secretly are gay and love one another they don't want to admit that so they hate instead

do you go to Indian females for your understanding of human male interaction?
you shouldn't

femoid projections

might be true for blacks

Based (You) farmer riling up the retards

She's clearly never seen a white male friendship.

Male friendships last because of an agreement not to compete because we recognize hierarchy and equitable distribution.
If we were competing constantly and possessed no virtues at all, then you'd expect fights constantly and backstabbing frequently.
My friendships can go months without speaking and don't rely on drinking. We pick up where we left off.

because males secretly hate each other?

the exact opposite has been found. These demoralization threads are getting so gay.

This is projection.
Women are much more underhandedly viscous in sexual competition by basically larping as friends with each other while peddling bad advice. They have crab bucket mentality far worse than even niggers.

Male competition has always been more straightforward and honest. Fists may fly, but we aren't telling other men to get penis shrinking surgery.

lol this isn't true. I only have a couple guy friends and I love them like brothers. Even my guy acquaintances like neighbors are cool and wish I had time to hang out them more.

She was projecting. Women get together, drink and yap while hating each others guts. She knows what the problem is and hates that men don't do that shit

Shut up raj I can be happy for my bros when they have women and I don't. And I hope they aren't petty cunts like you who can't be happy for me when they're without. Is this what Indians do? Is this why you're all cut throat scammers? I've seen how you board trains. Makes crabs in a bucket seem civilized.

That guy just described female friendships. And maybe fags.

retarded woman projecting yet again

Bruce?

@grok can you confirm?

peculiar

Lord have mercy!

No it makes perfect sense. You share an automatic bond with people from the same background as yourself. White people have chosen to give this up for some (((reason))).

Because deep down you know all of you are incest rape babies.

Longest friendship I’ve ever had was for 15 years. He was my best friend. We ghosted each other one day over life stuff, but I don’t even mind. The time we spent together was high quality and I know he feels the same. Where ever you are peyton, you’re a g

They might be your actual brothers because most Muslims are inbred retards. No wonder alcohol is banned for Muslims, your cult followers are so retarded and violent they'd end up blowing themselves up and raping everybody when drunk

Retarded take.
Except avoid confrontations, generally true but that's a good thing. Men don't actually care all that much about other men's politics or opinions. Not to the extent of cutting people off. Guys don't secretly hate their guy friends. That's a woman thing entirely.

What does a Robert Heinlein book have anything to do with this?

Alright bro you're gonna have to post the NSFW one now

What a crazy whore. Men get along way better than women.

woman's opinion

rofl

absolute fucking drivel

sheboon

ah

That's how i felt, until i learned like half of them secretly hated me. Fuckers ruined my life out of jealousy. Years later they let all this out when drunk. It's better to be alone than pulled off the latter.

youtu.be/Exp5sGjOB9s

Male friendships, and I mean real male friendships last because they were tested in fire. There's no way not to stay friends with a man who carried you to safety while you were shot and bleeding out. The male loneliness epidemic is half in part due to the fact that most men are denied the dangerous and testing circumstances that creates the lasting bonds between men.

*ladder

This.

they actually hate eachother!

lol no we don't, quit projecting.

100%
Guys will talk shit to each other, but stand with each other when necessary.
Chicks talk sweet, but secretly conspire and betray their "sisters" constantly.

I’ve had the same group of friends since middle school literally over 20 years. I’ve gotten into fist fights with some of those guys and we’re still the best of friends.

The only thing that’s torn us apart is the friends who got into hard drugs and started living that druggie lifestyle. I still care for my junkie friends but I’d never be around them now.

This is totally ridiculous but def the type of thing a woman would believe because it's how she views relationships.

Then plant that seed in her so she can go Cruz with her mom friends.
This sounds like an easy fix

no we don't kek
we actually work with each other
she's projecting her women stuff onto men

That's some insane amounts of projection.

I don't hate any of my friends, male or female.
Maybe a bit of lowkey jealousy here or there but honestly there's no one I'm really jealous of. Not even the guy that dates my old crush. The only one I'm really jealous of is my future self who has a work from home job and doesn't have erectile dysfunction anymore.

Men most certainly do compete with each other. Add a female to an all-male group and you will see a coliseum match.

LMAO this. I might dunk on other men for having a small dick because I feel bigger in comparison. But I cringe eternally at the idea of even a dicklette chopping their dick off. In the ideal works we all make it.

Buy an ad Rabbi

Male here. I don't consume alcohol, I genuinely love my friends and care about them, and I think competition is good and healthy and not about hate.

Das hier

What a ridiculous attempt. Possibly the gayest thing on /pol (Twitter) so far today

See pic attached for the all-purpose answer

My exact same thought, My best friend moved to another country I still miss the motherfucker every week

Men never compete with each other, we uplift each other

Eh. Had a lot of good friends that will uplift you, but there are also lots of guys who only want to associate with you if you're not doing better than them. As soon as you improve, they discourage you or cut you off. So many fake mofos out there it's unreal

They just don't get it.

some do. men tend to think of themselves less as a unified group the way women seem to think they are.

women want to claim to be unique but then focus on how they all have ot have the exact same pattern in relation to men.

men meanwhile just want to hangout with someone they like. sometimes they have that, sometimes they don't. sometimes its deep and sometimes its not.

some guys compete, but they're fags who just over judge each others sex lives.

/thread

Exactly this, either the other guy has been extraordinarily lucky or he's oblivious. Also, when you become too dominant at getting all the women your "buddies" will stop inviting you out when they are going somewhere with girls

this
women are the real jews
when you think about it, jews are what happens when you let the female way of thinking take control of your society

black woman on xitter

Into the trash it goes.

gaius&aulus

I hate myself for understanding that joke

What I learned about having female friends is that women think their friendship is over if they haven't been in contact for a week

Holy cow projection Batman!

Males are tsunderes that will act like they don't give too much of a crap about each other or are even a bit hostile but secretly love each other and can't wait to interact again. Women use each other and try to act as lovey dovey as needed in order to keep getting their use out of another woman.

I wasn't talking about fighting some kike war, I'm talking about war and hardship in general.

woman projects, xitter screencap edition

I call my friends a bunch of faggot niggers all the time because they are but I'd still pull those dudes through a burning building if I had too.

Men don't talk everyday with one another so it makes the friendships last longer. Like i talk with my best friend once or twice a year and there is no awkwardness or anything because we only talk 2 times a year. Men understand the value of solitude unlike women that need constant interaction with people or they go crazy or suicidal. Constant interaction of friendships can cause friendships to break down.

it's literally the opposite of all what she said. All my best friends I have I got after fights, and we straight up call others BS if one did something wrong, even a black one we call nigger and we are all cool with it. but we got each other backs, one time a friend stayed with me 3 months till he found a house or he could have ended up homeless, and it was chill and fun months.
Men aren't complicated, in general, there's few nerve for each one and the rest is up to talk or whatever.

It's like she read one of those Anon Babble screenshots of greentexts where an anon designs a poetically arrogant narrative. one so captivating and thought-provoking that it keeps building momentum as you read it. and when you arrive at the end of the reading, the conclusion of the post hits like a proverbial punch enforcing the ideology being promoted.

She remembered seeing posts where a man has done this, so she tried to give it a go and imitated his prose as best she could. but being a woman was incapable of fusing consistency and logic into her monologue, instead pouring her random emotional slander. and just like that, the immersion of the reader ends up being ejected like an airforce pilot out of a crashing jet fighter.

Some wars aren't kike wars

Name 10

I have some muslims friends too, they are cool, I trust them with a lot of things. I trust men far more any woman out there, if not her being evil, it's incompetence.

No. People that think this have never had a friend.

Also, when you become too dominant at getting all the women your "buddies" will stop inviting you out when they are going somewhere with girls

Yup. Both men and women are threatened by exceptionally attractive people.

Then why don't you fuck off to a muslim country?

Fuck off pajeet, stop trying to blend in

I'm so fucking bored of women doing this shit

Thats rich coming from a kike ass meme flag faggot.

It is true that we willingly avoid confrontation with friends since there's no point, it is better to mantain peace. In my long time friend group there are nazis, commies, everything inbetween.
It's not true that we hate each other, but we surely don't trust each other - no one would leave his gf with his friend, for example.

My childhood friends are like my brothers. This 5head ratchet probably got dunked on by a nigga and is lashing out

Go back nigger.

Knock her up faggot

this too, like brake pedals, they will burn it quicker over silly shit, and you can get how that works when you get in a group of 'friends' with girls in it, all they do after the hang out is gossiping about each other. I remember one time had similar situation, and some of them left and I and a girl stayed, she shit talked all other girls, the next day I saw another girl and she gossiped about other girls, the third girl I didn't see except a week later only to find she hates the other girls too, then why tf all of you call each other sweet names and compliment the dress or whatever? women are just haters in general, but I guess they stick together of what look like to be 'friends' for survival means because they need a group to survive mentally and physically

fpbp

why are chuds so insecure? you will never breed a woman

Female friendships are "deeper" because they're literally gay for each other. They're attracted to each other both physically and romantically

that's why those whores make out with each other like it's nothing and are super touchy and intimate

men are tsunderes

Based and correct. Once again proving that men are truly the superior species, across all domains.

I have never had a good friend in my life, eventually they always want something from you and when you say no they erase your number

I've had the same friends since High School, can (and have during university) not talked to some of them for MONTHS and then come back and ask to hang out like nothing happened.

Yeah I just like posting titcows.

I wish I was a woman and had deep and interesting friendships not based on hedonism.

dat projection

another is an unemployed literal schizo living with his parents

This is you, anon.

The most common way for a male friendship to break is if someone in the group gets a girlfriend or gets married.
If you're younger and had friends most had this experience of someone getting a girlfriend and now his life 100% revolves around the girl.

moids are so disingenous

She's just mad male friendship is not transactional

ALL human relationships are transactional in some way. Otherwise they wouldn't exist. Both parties believe that they are either getting some kind of value out of the relationship or will get something out of it in the future.
If you think you have a relationship with another person that isn't transactional, you are just wrong and naive about the transaction that is happening.

There is some truth to what she is saying. A lot of very long lasting male friendships don't last that long because particularly high value relationships or people, it's actually the opposite. Low value people who don't have a lot of other options will often maintain low value friendships with other low value people who also don't have many other options.
If most of your friends are people you know from school or work or from growing up in the same neighborhood, you are almost certainly a low value person. Those kinds of friendships that are just based on other people being forced into close, regular proximity to you due to outside circumstances are much lower quality than the kinds of friendships that people make with other people because they have shared interests, values, personalities, etc.
There is a limit to how many active social relationships one person can maintain at any given time called Dunbars Number, somewhere between 100 and 250 different people. You might know more people than that, but you aren't maintaining an active, ongoing relationship with them and will have to sort of get reacquainted whenever you run into them.
Most average to high value people constantly meet new people and their Dunbar limit is at the max all the time. They constantly have to pick and choose which relationships they actually maintain and which ones they kind of put on hold or let fade away. And this determination is usually based on how much value a particular relationship provides or is expected to provide. High value people don't maintain active relationships with random retards they just happened to be in the same class with once that context is no longer relevant.

Lol. Lmao even. Men are the only ones capable of true friendship and brotherhood. If anything it's women that hate each other. I learned this just from all of the girls I've dated who always had some kind of shit to talk about their "friends" behind their backs

its all competition between men and women.
if you have an attractive girl friend every single one of your male friends and family members want to fuck her and will if given the chance.

This, i didn't make real friends until work and college. The highschool losers just wanted to keep me in highschool.

Women hate their competition
Men love the challenge
Women wouldn't understand

My favorite fact is that lesbians divorce at like twice the rate of fags.
I'm dead-set on having kids, but the pro gamer move might just be to marry a passing Asian tranny who has 160iq and can pay for surrogacy. I got one off Tinder that looks like picrel without much effort.

wtf is this bitch on?

Male friendships las longer because men are more forgiving and more willing to accept forgiveness.

I think this may be the totality of it, I’m not convinced male friendships have less problems (at least early on) than female friendships.

Random thoughts:
We may also have better conflict resolution, which leads to this.
There isn’t much tangible benefit to female cooperation (not friendship necessarily), but there is tremendous benefit to male cooperation. This also may lead to my proposed solution.
Women require more emotional support, meaning a “placeholder” will be substituted during turbulent times. Men do not and will not have rapidly sought out a replacement, also feeding into my hypothesis.

I’m struggling to come up with reasons that don’t directly lead to this forgiveness discrepancy, and I’ve never been wrong in my entire life, so this is probably the answer you are looking for.

thanks for your insight always-right-anon, it was illuminating

The only male friends I stopped seeing were people who over the years stagnated or started being around worse people, so I let go. It was especially bad because the moment things started to get better for you they’d always be crabs to keep you in the pit with them

I’ve seen multiple posts about male friends not competing.

The fuck are you fags talking about? We don’t go to fucking war, but we absolutely compete all the time.

He wouldn’t feel this way in a Muslim country. It’s an outsider effect that builds this feeling. Jews use this technique intentionally on themselves.

Surely you have noticed white unity rising as our situation becomes more perilous? We are slowly becoming the outsiders.

If the kikes can’t swing an absolute physical genocide before it’s too late, they will create a monster. Imagine if the white race truly and collectively felt they were in a racially existential crisis at all times the way Jews do.

Just imagine what we could accomplish.

Women think they have deep relationships and male relationships are shallow. They judge men for not knowing their friends well enough to be able to judge them and exclude them. If men really knew who their friends were, they'd exclude them.
And this is why male relationships last. Loyalty is more important than anything else. If you have a male friend who will stick with you through thick and thin, you've got an ally for life.
Women don't care about that. They want to know your political affiliation, your taste in music, your thoughts and X Y and Z. And if you answer wrong, you're kicked to the curb for revealing "red flags".
Women aren't loyal. They demand loyalty, but are not themselves loyal. They are judgmental and actively but passively aggressively exclude anyone they don't like.
Because of this, men can create and sustain a broader network of shallow but stable relationships called society. Women can't. No society, no organization, has ever been established or sustained upon principles derived from women's nature, psychology, or politics. Women are parasitic upon male structured organizations.

The worst things ive ever heard said about a woman we’re said by her supposed best friends when she wasn’t in the room. And it always something about being a nasty whore, women use it as a way of disqualifying the other from contention in the minds of men.
Think about that, between all the “living my best life” and “don’t kink shame me” they all instinctively understand that men prefer chaste women.

I think a large part of it is because women tend to be more extroverted and socially outgoing than most men and much more inclined to try to make friends instead of rolling solo. And this causes them to have a much higher percentage of more superficial, not very deep or well developed friendships with other girls. Plus the whole thing with acting like they are "besties" with random chicks they just met and barely know.
So when there is some kind of drama or conflict, it doesn't take much for those kinds of friendships to completely fall apart.
Regarding forgiveness, that might be somewhat true. But for me personally, I've gotten to the point in my life where there are certain things I do not tolerate or forgive. I'll put up with a lot, but sometimes it gets to the point where I'll be like "look man, you need to cut this shit out" and then if they keep doing it I will cut them completely out of my life. Even with very good friends that I have known for a very long time and have been through a lot of shit together.

If they are competing with each other they mustn't have watched A Beautiful Mind and are doing it wrong.

Did you mean Good Will Hunting?

LOL no. Males who hate each other can't be friends, at least that kind of friendship never lasts.

It was especially bad because the moment things started to get better for you they’d always be crabs to keep you in the pit with them

This was every k-12 friendship. MFs in this thread are delusional.

I thought about including this in my post tangentially, but as you noticed it takes much longer to explain than the other intuitive examples.

Many comments in this thread are about how men talk shit to each others faces and show love behind backs, while women do the opposite. This creates the phenomenon you are describing where women have very superficial relationships.

Male relationships are heavily frontloaded with forgiveness for minor slight. If they are unforgiving to a prospective friend, the friendship never forms to begin with. Male bonding is actually quite focused on forgiveness for small matters, and these matters are more likely to be highlighted because men are less avoidant of conflict.

So the potentially offended man may push back on the slight and risk offending the other. If all goes well:

both men have forgiven the other for their behavior

both men feel more comfortable risking offense knowing that forgiveness is forthcoming

So fraternity is born. They would feel more comfortable with each other than strangers knowing they can make mistakes and accept the mistakes of the other.

If it doesn’t go well, the conflict isn’t hidden for social appearances, and nothing resembling a friendship forms.

Basically, most male friendships fail at step one, and most female friendships pass step one via subterfuge.

As for your aside about being completely unable to forgive your friends, I interpret that as one of the following possibilities

one of you is a bad friend

Either you did not clearly establish your REASONABLE boundaries or they were unwilling to respect them.

you are feminine

Your boundaries might be unreasonable. It’s one thing to say “look pal, if you kick my 6 year old daughter in the face again we are going to have problems” and “if you don’t stop making fun of my skinny neck I am going to excommunicate you”
in the latter case you are absolutely failing in your duty for forgiveness

Character cap but whatever.

brown women

talking about men and friendship based on all her experiences with guy friends

L M A O

Forgot my pic. Nailed it.