Is this era soon to be over?
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Is this era soon to be over?
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Dating App Exodus
its filled with blown out roasty single moms looking for men to support their mistakes
Dating sucks so fucking much man. It's not worth it. Not in a world of porn. Modern women expect so much while offering so little. It's near impossible to fall in love after you've dated so much.
every app keeps trying to be THE dating app that's about love and not about one night stands and it eventually devolves into being about one night stands
I guess I’m lucky, I usually meet girls that like me a lot irl through friends and family
If I ever tried tinder I’d get massacred since I’m 5’7” and south asian kek
Total Roastie Apocalypse. Women need to return to traditional roles asap
bumbles entire schtick was 'women in control', but it turns out that they don't want to be in control. they want men to chase them.
Probably I used to get a shitton of liek on Bumble less than 2 years ago but now it's a small trickle. With the exact same pics barely getting anything on Tinder. Where has everyone gone? Hinge? What about hookups? Instagram?
it already is. You're expected to find someone in school and or through friends, and once you're out of school, you're done. Unless anyone has any actual rebuttals here. I am still single and have been for a while
Back when it launched I asked some guys what they thought of it and the whole "women message first thing". And they told me women just write "hi" as the opening message and still expect you to chase and put in all the effort. So even in that sense it was a failure.
The problem with all these sites/apps is that even if they're good at matching people, and those people actually get into a relationship and marriage and all of that. Then there's no need for the product. So there is a conflict of interest. They'd rather get you to waste your time, feeding them data. Clicking on ads. Nagging you to upsell to "premium" or whatever. To try to make as much money from you as possible.
But then when people feel they're just wasting their time, they delete the apps and don't spend any time at all there. And sooner or later the network effect that made the app good, starts to work against it, as more people leave there's less of a reason to stay.
There is a niche for an "app" or a website which is no gimmicks, and you just pay someone a fee if you actually get engaged/married as a result. Add in a system like people vouch for each other (that you're actually serious about marriage). That could work, but Jews are never going to think like that. They're only interested in those fast and easy shekels.
the fucking problem is, what now?
the apps burned traditional ways of meeting the opposite sex to the fucking ground. There's nothing left. Now they just wanna go "poof" and disappear.
Its gonna take a generation at minimum to rebuild healthy dating structures.
Only religious fundies and the mentally deranged men are trying to get married in 2025. That opens you up to huge financial risk. So men do the only thing they can, one night stands. If you did make a "marriage only" dating app it would just be 500 blown out single moms per betacuck man.
See if they had a free to play model more like path of exile I’d have paid money upon actually getting dates.
It’s all a scam. You have to pay to get matches and most of them are bots of catfish accounts.
I hope so.
If dating apps fail to provide the service expected from them they should go bankrupt
and the ratio is two men for every one woman
Asian femboys who are smart high earners and can pay for surrogacy >>>>> women
I'm 32 and I'm considering just going gay. You can make fun of me all you want, men don't bitch and moan and have phantasmagorical standards. I can't even get successive dates. I'm in shape, own a pretty nice house and work a stable job. The problem is women; their standards are unrealistic. Not every woman is a a 7 and thes bitches are acting like they're 10s when in reality they're 5s at best.
feel like I want to have a GF
Fap with some $50 onahole
Cum
Realize I can just go back to doing what I was doing and don't have to listen to some woman talk about shit I don't care about
I usually meet girls that like me a lot irl through family
Incest isn’t legal in the civilised world.
Most men have realized "dating" is just playing in a rigged casino and simply stopped trying since their goal posts shift faster than it's possible for a man to "do the work" and self improve. The future of the civilized world is gate kept behind female egos. I'm not sure what's worse, feeding their egos in an increasingly parasitic gynocracy just to spread genes or letting us die out with the last shred of dignity. This is probably the first step in the timeline of artificial womb fish people and time traveling grey alien gimps.
lol it’s way worse than that. Probably at least double.
I’m 31 and im not interested in dating girls my age. Once you hit 29 you’re pretty much out of the range of girls in their mid twenties I noticed on dating apps. Meanwhile, in my experience, in a large city, I had much better luck dating or just banging girls in their early to mid twenties by going out at night, but that takes a pretty big effort. Let’s be real.
The vast majority of men get next to 0 attention (and the little they get comes from inlyfans whores or bots)
The few women who are on the app find the vast majority of men ugly, and the extremely small pool of men they're attracted to will just pump and dump them. They get an ego boost from all the matches but at the end it isn't worth it.
The only one who truly benefits from it is Chad, but even he has to put a ton of work.
Of course some high tier normies here and there get dates but they're the exception, not the rule
modern dating is not worth it. Dating apps are full of women who fit one or several of the following:
single mom
fat
looks 20 years old than listed age
progressive politics/feminism
astrology
septum ring
covered in tattoos
former drug addict
bi-sexual
arrogant, thinks she is a celebrity
only on the app for validation
only on the app to make fun of men
every single time. You can be almost perfect as a man and still be treated like you're average because the women you're actually swiping on are matching with a bunch of men just like you because every man on the app is swiping right on them so they can be ultra picky. Social media is exactly the same. You need to have an instagram and living some extravagant feminine lifestyle while possessing all of the other traits they require. There are so many other things to do in life as a man from career to hobbies to friends that it becomes a complete insult to your integrity and self-worth to engage with modern women at all. I cannot deal with the humiliation ritual that is modern dating kek
Women initiate around 80% of divorces. Lesbian marriages have higher divorce rates than heterosexual marriages and even higher than gay marriages, which have the lowest. But muh men are the problem.
Men would be so much happier if they all were bisexual or gay.
I caved and plapped a hot East Asian ladyboy right after turning 26 because i rolled threes. Weiner tastes like nipples - not bad. If he were born a female and looked the same as he does, he would've never given me the time of day (even though I have a great body and future prospects). Instead, it took no effort - match on Tinder, the only money I spent was on gas, plapped, and he texts me back for seconds.
Their cope is that "men are more likely to stay in unhappy relationships" hahah. Women are miserable.
if you need to "consider" going gay, you already are
I’m not from Alabama if that’s what you’re implying
they were successful in turning all young men into incels lmao
I haven't been on one since 2007.
Only innovation is that foids do the "first move"
Remove it
???
- Profit
Without apps you need friends and a social life, which some of us don't have
bumble, more like FUMBLE! right bumblefuck sisters?
Its because those apps have to work against their users to earn any money.
Unless your ability to form relationships is damaged by mental issues and you don't suck in bed, meeting people who are a potential good fit will inevitably end up in a long term relationship or a few steady fwbs. This would eliminate any need to foruther spend money and time on the app.
So the only way they can earn money is by keeping their users in a constant cycle of pumping and dumping by fucking with their dopamine system and creating the empty illusion of someone better always just being a swipe away.This has to be intensified the more its shareholders increase pressure for larger profits.
As this is mentally damaging, most sane people instinctively don't engage anymore.
In this way, the user population mostly consist of mentally ill people (male and female) who only pump and dump and will unleash a torrent of crazy on anyone trying to date them normally.
The remainder are unfuckable lardasses and socially crippled spergs who think the internet will magically grant them a hot partner and allow them to skip working on their obvious issues.
Overall, finding an actual relationship though an app is nearly impossible, and even if you're just looking for sex, you will have to wade through mountains of creeps, weirdoes, crazies and bad lays no matter whether you are male or female. It makes hitting up random chicks in a bar look easy and hassle free in comparison.
In short, internet dating is back to being for the mentally ill and desperate losers, as it was in the early 2000s. All is right again.
This is true. And to pursue a relationship with a coworker is a profoundly perilous and cynical move.
Without apps you need friends and a social life, which some of us don't have
If you don't have either, why would you even want a relationship or think you can hold one? Theres few things that turn women off more than some no life guy waiting at home for her. The only women interested in that want a dependent cuck, and those are not the women anyone would want.
when women choose there will never be enough good men
when men choose there will be enough hot women
pursue a relationship with a coworker
Absolutely do NOT do this, even a fellow student in the same grad school department is a dangerous game. The female will to power knows crocodile tears and throwing a man under the bus will trigger every white knight impulse in the building to flock to her defense.
t. I was #metoo'd out of a university job by a girl I was never in a room alone with because she felt me wearing a Trump shirt justified back room lying to faculty
(((They))) we're crafty in their subversion, they turned those who should be our greatest ally into our worst enemies. The behavior of women now favors faceless bureaucracies and international corporations over their own families and potential life partners. And either they fail to realize or don't care that the momentum of how they act today will multiply on their sons and daughters.
HTG0Y
good looking women don't need dating apps, even ugly women who are caked up with make up get compliments from most retards
dating apps are full of catfishing jeets, niggers, cat moms, and shaniquas
and women who simply do it for attention with no intention of dating anyone
have already had sex with men in the past, knew I liked men at age 11. While I have the same feelings for women, I just can't be bothered to invest time in a sex that clearly doesn't care for men at all.
I'm not really into lady boys, but I have had been penetrated by some feminine looking Asian guys. I know pol doesn't like faggotry, but I am just being honest here with my frustrations with women. the sex with women isn't the issue, getting laid is easy; the issue is the lack of intimacy and committment from women.
You're a faggot.
This take brought yo you by metropolitan over socialization. There's a difference between being a fawning simp and one content to their own devices when the alternative is modernity. Go chop some fire wood in the snow so you can spend the night reading something written before electricity existed, it'll build character. Social media and Riz are for goyserfs.
its all just jeets anyways
It's because women don't want to pay money and be shown sub 9 chad lites. They were complaining that if they pay they should only match with 10/10 millionaire 10 pack 10 inch 7 ft private jet male models
You still need a mom for your kids though. So what's left? Passport bro or Christfagging?
faggots > simps
and if you're trying to get a woman in this day and age, you're either a simp or 6'5" (and therefore going to die of cancer at 60)
glownigger comes into to derail the thread to take about his gay experience at basic training
Jesus.
blah blah blah
I got friends, no need for social media. Even the ruralfags I regularly go hiking and camping with have friends and basic social skills, because not being an outcast isn't "oversocialisation". This is just some lame cope.
If you can't even hold a friendship, you arguably lack the social skills to find and keep a chick. First do one, then you will meet the other that way anyways.
And maybe she'll make up a story and she'll turn your group of friends against you.
I just feel a moral obligation to bring more White/Asian kids into this world to fight the nigger/jeet hoard. As long as you can pay for surrogacy, there's really no issue with plapping males. And it balances the dating market by giving women less attention.
You prevent this by having the social skills of recognizing and avoiding crazy bitches as well as disloyal friends.
They don't have to be mentally ill. They're living under the empire of usury and sodomy. Garbage in, garbage out. You never really know someone.
I’m 31 and im not interested in dating girls my age. Once you hit 29 you’re pretty much out of the range of girls in their mid twenties
Why not lie about your age on the up. Since you are just looking for a hookup and nobody will be able to tell when you meet them that you are two years older.
It is not like you are 40 and pretend to be 29.
can we stop pretending that dating with strangers is not weird as fuck? even worse is having sex with them
Idi Amin says God can't even make a woman happy.
Only by stocks that go up
Sage advice
I tried black men cause I was curious, not for me. I just stick with whites and asian guys.
I mean there's not much to derail because you're not going to read something new in these threads.
dating apps are riddled with bots or hoes shilling their onlyfans
women don't even reply to texts any more they just have a profile on a dating app for ego boosts
all dating apps are owned by match group and kikes deliberately fuck with the algorithms so that whites get shit/no matches
So you lie and say you don't have full blown aids? We don't want you back.
It's not weird. It's normal. Everybody used to do it at bars/clubs/parties. At speed dating events.
You probably have a lot more knowledge about somebody by seeing what politicians/celebs they follow on instagram, what hobbies they post, etc.
Projection much?
it was not normal since the beggining of human civilization until 50 years ago
This will not end until young people find some generally agreeable way for people to meet in public for any reason again. Until then, the dating apps may end in their current monolithic form, but without rl interaction the only option will be the internet. Dating apps will probably just disguise their purpose in increasingly stupid ways to distract from their tanking reputation.
I'm not the self-admitted coalburner here.
i have dating profiles and get a lot of matches but never have the drive to actually start a convo or meet anyone
A good chunk of people on Anon Babble are, I'm just being honest. I don't lie online, just like how I don't lie irl.
Well in the beginning of human civilization, they were probably raping strangers.
I tried black men cause I was curious, not for me
oh no no no nooooo, you stay there now.
I just stick with whites and asian guys
do you tell them about your curiosity?? Because if you don't, fuck you, if you do, fuck them for still going for it.
Whatever, niggerlover.
niggers do not deserve sex, anon.
tfw don't even like porn that much
I just wanted a family
I was actually thinking about creating my own dating website right now, focused on no-liberals. Dating for moderate values and independent thinkers. Does anon think it would be successful?
theyve gone too far
you never match with anyone unless you pay money for premium, AND have to pay for super likes. easily a 40/month app just to MAYBE get a single match.
Is this era soon to be over?
betamales are becoming blackpilled and realizing that no matter how much money they pour into dating apps to try to boost their profile, they just get scrolled over in less than a second while a woman desperately searches for chad. its actually insane if you see how fast women scroll through dating profiles.
thats why its giga copium when people say you need 'interesting bios', the only thing that matters is your looks.
they are 13/60, and you rewarded them with sex?
I think most men just gave up. Even If a perfect girl came along most of us would assume it's a scam. So we wait for robo waifus now.
design your system so no one can get a date so they keep paying in
they eventually give up because the women are fat anyway
Lol
It was a bad experience. He said my penis was small and I could't top him. When I did bottom for him, he bitched that I asked for condom sex. I don't want to be bossed around.
women are a liability, not an asset. you learn this in your thirties. you're too horny in your twenties, it's nature's trick to get you to breed. even the chinks realized this with their one child policy.
its because if you save 3 dinners you fuck a prostitute that is hotter than 90% of them anyways, and probably has lesser bodycount
Yeah because they're hookup apps. For serious dating events like speed dating, the men don't even show up.
Unironically watching vtubers and trying to slide into the DMs of mentally ill 20yo zoomer girls looking for a sugardaddy or chicks who play games like apex is an easier route to a gf than chasing 25+ gen z boss with attitude type girls.
The retarded gatekeeping and selection of obese chicks killed these apps.
What other options to meet women do I have as a man? If not for dating apps, I'd never be interfacing with women my age at all.
For me it was already over 10 years ago. I can't imagine how awful online dating is today. Haven't been on a date in ten years and still a virgin. I'm 40 btw.
Just stop being a MAGA Trump supporter bro... And there'd be lots of great women to date out there.
I had an idea for a dating app that scans your picture, and with AI, gives your face an objective 1-10 rating. It then only shows possible matches to you with people -1 to +1 within your score.
No girl ever speaks to me so if one does I'll be wondering what the catch is.
Women wouldn't use that because it's "too offensive and we're all 10s (unless you're a man under 6'3")"
Theres a surprisingly large amount of regular non whore girls who would be ok with a sugar daddy. I was shocked when this one girl I knew asked me to be her sugar daddy. I'm 36, she was 18, and only slept with 1 guy. I said no because...well, she was my best friends sister, but still.
I fuck libtards and am vocal about my disdain for Trump and how I want a Free Palestine.
I just leave out that it's because I believe in NHH
:(
woman appears to be a burn victim
possibly a consequence from her parents having failed to sacrifice her to moloch
young women showing interest in men way older than them and all women flocking to stable, employed, boring and typically older men is a recession indicator. As soon as everyone's financial conditions become comfortable again it is back to bad boy chad and denzel the donkey cock. That is not to say that the older man cannot enjoy it while it lasts, but one should not be under any illusions.
THE WORST PART IS THAT ALL OF THESE SLATTERN WHORES WHO FUCKED AND SUCKED THEIR EAY THROUGH A DECADE OF DUDES ARE JUST GOING TO BE OUT THERE DATING AND MARRYING MEN AND PRETENDING BONE OF THE APP FUCKING EVER HAPPENED EVEN MORE THAN THET ALREADY DID
doubt that. sure a lot of people are struggling financially these days but i refuse to believe that most girls even know what that is
and their male equivalent. the good ones find their partner young and irl
woman downloads new app men seem interested in
yeah ur a 5.2 at best, here's what you actual looksmatch and guys at the top of your league look like
woman uninstalls app, leaves 1 star review, makes social media post about how it rated her attractiveness as too high and there were literally no men in her league
Kill yourself faggott, why do you come here? You're worse than any jeet/nig.
cry, roastie
I don't understand how they make money at all
How is any one still paying for this shit
where do people even go to date?
yeah meta/fb/ig got this right. you don't want your business to be strictly a dating app
I had 3 fwbs, now I have 1 and I may reduce it to 0. All of the talking is sooooo tedious and stupid.
Unlike some anons here, I really don't want commitment at all. I wanted that, got damaged, learned my lesson. I just need a shag every now and then.
They wanted to be independent wahmen and I say: let them be.
Actual natsoc male here with non pozzed progeny, get off my board, you belong in the bog.
The only thing these apps are used for is single mothers live streaming themselves pointing their camera to the ceiling or wall or anything as long as it's not on them and waiting for simps to donate to them. The rest are trannies and pig butcherers in Laos.
Provide an argument for why it's bad, or kys. I gave you arguments for why it's good.
Nigga heil Hitler ?
NIGGA HEIL HITLER
and checked
Boy they sure are making these trannies convincing these days. I am ashamed to admit that I shagged women that look worse.
I don't know why you like anal though, I hate women, but vagina feels amazing.
NHH brother
I paid three times, the apps retarded. The only times I got matches or talked to women was on the speed dating mode which connects you to random profiles and happens every Tuesday and thurday for one hour 7-8PM, they removed that feature.
nice trips
pussy is definitely better, but settling for ass and mouth is better than dealing with these 170lb (U.S. average) 3's with overinflated egos
You mean 10 men for a bot impersonating a woman. All those dating sites are made to exploit lonely men, not women. Wasnt there one big leak of some dating site that involved cheating, where the hackers revealed that vast majority of users were men (90%) and most of the females werent even real?
It's not just dating apps. Irl dating is worse now, and ultimately women in general have reached (what I hope) is peak retardation. I just stack money and jerk off now I dont even try to make conversation with them any more.
Ashley Madison, yes. An app STARTED BY A KIKE to promote affairs.
I used to be able to enjoy porn, but it has gotten so overbearing and constantly in your face even if you aren't looking for it that I started to not only stop enjoying it but resenting it.
I don't really enjoy casual sex at all, sex without love feels hollow and kinda gross.
I don't think I really see much of a point in dating someone when the intention isn't to see if you would be a good fit for each other for marriage either, but somehow "dating" has turned into nothing but "we're having sex" with some sort of unspoken understanding that it won't be forever and you'll both move on to some other temporary arrangement sooner than later.
I've found a girl that I think I am going to marry, but I'm not really sure if its worth trying to start a family with how shit the current state of the world is. I wouldn't want to send our kids to a public school, I fear for their mental health and safety when they inevitably start to make friends with other kids from shit families, and even if I try to limit their access to smart phones, social media, and all the algorithms out their, the other kids will be fully indoctrinated in these things and will just rebel behind our backs. I'm scared that having kids will just result in a deeper heartbreak than not having them would, the idea that I would put my everything into raising good children only to have other kids get them into shit like fentanyl, gender politics, or whatever the current shit psyop of the time is whenever they're going through their rebel years is genuinely frightening.
I want to trust that I could raise good, smart kids that would be able to avoid falling into these traps, but I'm not even sure if I'll be able to own my own home, I don't know if I can even put that much time or effort into homeschooling children while requiring two active incomes to be able to afford to raise them in the first place.
The modern world is a shit and I don't know if it can be fixed.
Yea but all of them are owned by the same company aren't they?
Even porn is losing its luster for me now. Dating in your late 20’s is torture. Trying to find an decent white woman is impossible and I’m not going to race mix like a faggot.
I’m riding it out until 30 then I’m jumping off this giant cliff I know that’s about 20 minutes from my apartment.
I'd rather eat glass than go on a "date." They are not fun. They're job interviews without any possibility of a paycheck.
Meh, I'll just shag fit single moms and block them after. That works for me. After a week of watching "Frozen", or whatever the fuck their formication trophies are into these days, a bit of adult attention gets them sliding all over the place.
That being said, I may get one of those trannies to blow me or whatever. My ex loved anal and I was kind of meh about it... it's sex, so it is not bad, but vagina is vastly superior. Anyway, you have fun lad, you sound like you are having a jolly good time.
If you need an explanation why a fag A. shouldn't exist in the first place and B. Shouldn't bring more faggotts into the world you clearly do not belong here. You are degenerate and an abomination with zero self awareness. Go be a faggot somewhere else.
Wish I had an answer to you, but now in my mid 30s I've seen enough men destroyed by bad women to know that being alone isn't the worst case; and with modernity as it is she can coach kids to say you abused them before spiriting them away to some doctor who will chemically sterilize them. And I've seen enough women talking up affairs and running cover for each other enough to know women in group preferences prefer bad women over good men. There might not be a happy ending to this story possible, just one that minimizes loss. Before the fall of Rome, men complained women became unpleasable and left in drives, leaving the region unguarded and easily sacked.
Sure you do, Chang. You must need a microscope to spot your pecker.
Why would any guy under 5'8 even bother using it? (Only 15% of women have their app set to even see you). Im 5'7 and went to tantan which is an Asian dating app and got almost 2000 matches in 6 months I've been on it. When I was on tinder or bumble I was lucky to match with a few hogbeast looking things a month. And I found that blackpilling AF because I'm not even bad looking (lift, face is good) just I wont even appear because most women filter out everyone below 5'8.
and most of the females werent even real?
I was offered a "chat support" job a few years back thinking it was going to be like customer support or tech support, only to find out after getting through the first interview that the job was actually just pretending to be a woman on dating websites and flirting with men to keep them actively subscribed to the service,
Obviously I did not take the job, it paid like shit anyway, though I thought I could justify that kinda shit pay at the time (precovid before working from home was common) considering it wouldn't involve being on the phone all day.
But I've never forgotten about it because it explains so much about how dating websites work. They literally hire people to pretend to be active women accounts that will flirt with the men and act interested while constantly saying it would be nice to meet up but never being too committed to the idea. They had a whole document they had sent me about how they expected you to speak to people and how you could access information about each user with notes from previous agents that were talking about them and things they had brought up, or personal information about the user so they wouldn't be able to tell they were speaking to a different person.
I would wager that even the "real" women on these dating sites are just large scale operations like this to give the illusion of a thriving dating pool to keep retards paying for benefits or sending little rose emojis that cost $1 each or some shit.
They must be making decent enough money from lonely men thinking they might actually meet real women if they have enough left over to pay for a few thousand people to pretend to be women for them.
Occasional you can get set up through friends, but if you don’t have friends it’s basically over after school. That’s why dating apps exist.
Not an argument.
Insanity is trying the same shit over and over again, expecting different results. Fertility rates are plummeting in all White countries.
Ethical faggotry where we combines two men's incomes to pay for Ubermensch surrogate mothers has not been tried en masse.
That would be retarded lad. Give it til 40. In your 20s women still see you as a boy. At 30 you become a man. I know it sounds weird as fuck, I am 32 right now, I had more pussy over the last 10 months than I had in my entire 20s... and I almost got married in my 20s (whore cheated, damaged me, long story). Anyway, give it time, don't get into rushed decisions, if you build yourself in your 20s, you'll have more pussy than you'll be able to manage in your 30s, even more in your 40s (I have friends who are greybacks - they primarily fuck 19 year olds with daddy issues) and so on.
I don't know about Canada, but Tantan here is like 95% bots. And I live in a half-Asian area.
Seriously kill yourself before you curse some kid to a future with you as a father.
and once you're out of school, you're done. Unless anyone has any actual rebuttals here. I am still single and have been for a while
Find places online that women actually spend time on and try to make friends, like actually just try to make friends don't try to find someone to get into a relationship with.
You will eventually meet real women and if they think you're charming or have cool hobbies, you will eventually start to notice them reaching out and trying to stay in touch.
You can't come on too strong right away or you'll seem desperate, you have to just take it easy and treat them like a buddy for the most part, women don't want someone that throws themselves at them and showers them with compliments, they want to get the satisfaction of earning those things from someone that wasn't giving them that sort of attention or affection.
I'm currently engaged and I met my girl online like this, we started out just as friends but after a few months she was in love with me, and its been about 6 years now that we've been together.
Though, I'm also [spoiler] 6'3" and considerably larger than average junk so I might be biased [/spoiler]
I want sex
Hiking. When in doubt, just take her hiking.
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I will date a fluffy fox woman.
recession ends
quit my job and start neeting while 'dealing' legal weed on the side
now I'm the bad boy
Because it's no longer worth it and women approach dating like degenerate gamblers, what I mean by this is they could have a good thing, but risk it all for something that they see as .1% better and do this ad infinitum.
You can be dating a modern woman, but she's talking to (and possibly fucking) any of a dozen other guys at the same time and so the desire to put in *any* effort to a woman like this falls to zero.
It used to just be assumed she wasn't doing that, but now I don't want to play "ultimate gf manager 2000" and deal with all that crap and live my own life at the same time. Not only that but you know there was some guy that put in zero effort and got it for nothing, further disincentivizing any effort.
This leads to having to behave like a psychopathic narcissist if you want to get laid and unless you actually are one, it's a fucking chore and when you've had sex a few times it's actually just depressing because you feel like you are using the woman to masturbate with. There's no deeper connection and you realize when you start to think you might feel one, "oh yeah, she's talking to other guys, so this isn't special, and why the fuck should I go to so much effort for this?"
Damn its truly sad isn't it?
Thanks mate, that is reassuring. I’ll give it until 35, but if I still haven’t spread my seed by then, I’m jumping.
good, i hope they die.
The destruction of public spaces (bars, nightclubs, easily accessible parks, non-algorithmic social media), proliferation of casual sex, and the impossible standards on both genders resulting from algorithmic social media have caused total havoc on human sexual interactions in the west.
Is there any hookup app for size queens. I have a big dick and lean body with abs but can't really use them in normal dating apps. i figure there might be a market for me out there
That's also true for tinder/bumble lately as well. You have to really filter them and I have the money to travel (I've got all the sixes but the 6 foot lmao). I've met 5 decent women through it so far. Which was much better than matching with 2/10 fat ghetto trash.
Trust me, after 30, I don't know what it is, you just get on their retarded radar.
Just don't trust them. Never trust them. Not even one bit. Not even with getting you a glass of water. They are not like you or me, they have no concept of "honour" or feeling indebted.
They'll just use you and throw you away like an old toy. Be ready for it, expect it and have like 2-3 backups/other ladies that are in your rotation.
not to the same extent, at least not here. Tinder in my area might be like 50% bots. I don't see bots on bumble, but maybe 50% are IG whores just plugging their shit
I think I saw like 2 real people on Tantan. One was a tranny. And the other was an OF whore who ignored me until I said "I'm gonna get racist now :angry_emoji:" and she got mad so I unmatched cause i didn't wanna get reported
Dating apps were always a scam, it's good people are finally seeing through it
That's how they work. In the beginning of their life theyre basically open and its easy to find matches, but then they slowly close the valve so you pay more money to keep going
This
You fags do realize the white race will die without dating apps right?
Dating apps are the only thing that allows white people to match with one another in a world where it’s usually very rare to meet fuckable white people in your day to day life.
that happened to me at the start of the pandemic. A lot of dumb whores who rejected me in highschool/college days hunted me down on FB/Instagram...seen how good I have things and suddenly they apparently "always had a crush on you anon". And I'm the asshole for having self respect lol. It got so bad I had to delete all my social media.
Okay so then tell white women to act normal?
Those images are the same.
Tantan for a white man is the definition of retarded. You're basically advertising that:
1) You have yellow fever which azn girls hate
2) You have no success in other apps are desperate enough to discover this one
Even if I was a Chad I'd feel awkward making a Tantan as a non Asian