How are there some people who have THIS active social lives...

I am 40 and I have no woman, I have no children, I have no house, I have no friends, I have no money and live paycheck to paycheck. When will my real life begin bros? I'm tired of the grind, I'm tired of this life, just very very tired that's all.

AI image?

They dont actually. Everyone in that picture is incredibly insecure and they only hang out because they are in school together, one or two years later almost none of them have any contact short of 2 person friendships that spend the majority of their time talking about the "good old days" which they all know is a hoax and none of them actually enjoyed it

looks like a church group in the PNW.
They are mostly eastern european and do not include you if you are not an immigrant.

Anon Babble gives you a potent mind virus that you need to kill off

Explain? There is no such thing as pol virus, it's reddit virus then as well...

I don't have that virus, at least I think. But I'm totally socially isolated and haven't talked to people in years IRL.

lack of self aware and rewarding life without any trauma.

Looks like college kids. That's an easy time for friendship.

Why would you want to? It's annoying, costs money, and eats up your time.

But I'm totally socially isolated and haven't talked to people in years IRL.

A consequence of the virus that is inherent to anonymous imageboards.

This place used to use that effect to manipulate the world around us, the power was recognized and analyzed and now its all shit because Anon Babble helped ruin the world.

Take a look around you, 99.99% of the threads are shit and the remaining 0.1 percent is also shit. The cult has been killed, the sorry remains are lost causes.

Looks like college kids. That's an easy time for friendship.

I was in college. I didn't make any friends.

I just went to college, sat down for a lecture and then went home.

How do you make friends in college? No one talked to me, no people initiated any conversation with me.

start parties at 14/15

Yeah, just host or ask around for parties. And then go.

If you are inviting for parties, you need to have like a house that people can hang out at, and you need to spend money on alcohol, and people will show up, and you can basically turn your house into the playboy mansion. But you also have to spend lots of money, deal with drama, people fighting, fucking up your shit, stealing shit. Plus you have to devote a lot of time talking to people.

But if you do that, you end up with a bunch of retards and degenerates. Might as well become a drugdealer if you want easy pussy.

Arm is at a weird angle isn't it? AI

Damn dude just involve yourself in group activities and constructive hobbies. Organize bbqs or lake trips or whatever if you have to. People like beer, eating and swimming. Just have fun and dont care what anyone thinks about you.

it's a bit different in europe ,you can go to club or festivals,free concerts or raves easily ,it's pretty common desu so you go there ,you meet people ,you then do an after somewhere,sleep at someone's appartment.
but that's true dealing with the drama,fightings
never hosted a party personally.

Your life is over if this is true.

You can definitely tell that brunette behind the blond is a massive slut

Also this

You need to be social and fun to be around and people will invite you to everything. personally, my brain gets drained from having to pretend to be interested in people and having to force conversations because they are afraid of silence. I get all the socializing i need from work and visiting my mother once a week

Looks like college kids. That's an easy time for friendship.

Yeah, they're all basically the same age. Which is something rare outside of a school setting. A lot of universities also require people to live in the dorms for the first year coming out of high school. Not to consider things like fraternities and such. You end up making a lot of connections with basically people your same age. And no one has any responsibilities outside of school.

It starts early. People get interested in things like sportsball and doing all the things people older than them are doing like drinking/smoking. To do that, you have to go out. You get used to doing it and it becomes routine.

I'm in a very similar situation as you. I've had various "self-improvement" phases and theorizing about this, red pill, black pill, "it's all about charisma/dominance/status/looks/genetics" etc., and I've concluded that's it's all luck and based on circumstances. You go to high school and university/college, circumstances put you in long-term, sustained proximity to some people (same classes, same lectures, whatever), and those are your friends, that defines the majority of your social life going forward. 99% of friends and couples met like that, either they took some classes together, shared an office space, were roommates, etc. You can't control if the right people (extroverted, like to travel, have cool hobbies, do sports, etc.) will be there, it's not something you "self-improve" towards. All those cool friend groups you see at clubs, festivals or your pic are either childhood friends (their parents knew each other), they happened to be in the same class together in high school, or they had the same clases in uni. That's it. I've met literal diagnosed autists with friend groups and girlfriends, and there's plenty of good-looking, behaviorally normal guys in situations like yours. There is no "just put yourself out there and meet people bro", all social circles are circumstantial.

A regular old party organised by high school or university students. The people in that picture might not even be close friends with each other but are simply connected by class, fraternity, guild, hobby, or something else.

Yeah, you can also go out to events. There's not many free anything here, but there are raves and such. But everyone is basically drugged out. Could run with the juggaloes or whatever. That was big like 10+ years ago. I don't give a shit about any of that stuff though. But I mean, a friend of mine, he is constantly trying to be social. And he just like gets on instagram and facebook and shit and adds friends/recommended people, and then says he's bored, asks if anyone is doing anything. Basically, he acts like a woman. If a woman says she's bored, there will be a hundred guys wanting to do something with her. Pretty annoying.

I've met complete weirdos, assholes, autists etc. with friends, guys I completely mog social skills, looks and normality-wise. It's not about that, you were just unlucky with the situations life/fate put you in.

It's know it's over yet I still cling to hope.

/pol its ur social life

I’ve always been an outsider. Even in my own small friend groups. I learned to be pretty social in my 20s. Had a couple girlfriends, was going out quite a bit. But of that course that all fizzled out by my 30s, and now I spend most my time alone. I spent many years being depressed about it, but at some point I learned to just accept it. I have one friend we get beers maybe 6 times a year, but I find it pretty hard to relate to other men at this age now (41). I’m pretty much a loser so it’s mostly just embarrassing talking to my old friends who are actually successful adults now with families and shit. In some perverse way it’s kind of a weight off my shoulders. Part of me just kind of likes being a loser in a shitty apartment with a part time job. It’s just mentally freeing to embrace it and stop caring, but it takes a long time to let it go.

Yup. It’s AI

I feel exhausted just looking at that pic. Fuck that noise

you were either

ugly

mentally ill

too introverted

too dumb/intelligent

one or all of them
normalfags are attracted to each other subconsciously but only if you're neurotypical, and also at least average good looking

Basically, he acts like a woman.

kek

There is no "just put yourself out there and meet people bro", all social circles are circumstantial.

i think there is some truth to this because when you “put yourself out there” opportunities will surely appear. the only main requirement besides not being a complete sperg is to have money. then you can actually host gatherings or even go to bars and stuff.

Everyone is preoccupied with fucking their girlfriend and making children and wagecucking at age 25-30.

You were supposed to do all that partying stuff between 16-24. After that you become a boring adult in earnest. At 32 I'd rather be having brunch with my mom than going to a party especially if there's friends of friends there (ie people I don't know). That said if you feel like you really need to have wild parties to feel complete or whatever I understand many corporate retreats, especially in highly stressful occupations like finance, big law, etc., are basically alcohol fueled orgies so there's something to think about.

When I moved out at 18 into this place with 5 roommates, my house was a party house. I had people over every day, we were doing a shitload of coke, drinking all the time, smoking weed, popping pills, random people would be asleep in the kitchen when I'd get up, etc.
Believe me, that shit gets old fast. It's good to keep a balance or you'll get sick of your friends.

I think you're right, but the reality is also that most circumstances are just fine. Unless your peers reject you, you can get some friend group. The problem is that some drop out completely. They had the right circumstances, but they chose to not engage. Then they get older, and there are no opportuinites anymore.

White women weren't totally enmeshed in anti-White, anti-male misandry. White men were still at that time, the 90s, considered part of the human family and not something outside it, and something White women had to breed out.

White female psychopathy and race treachery existed, but not to these levels.

Long story short.

F.o.t.J

Focus on the Jews.

"Normie" here who grew up with OCD, beat it, got a social life, relapsed when she fucked me up in ways I did not deserve (30 now)

It's simple. Basically, you have 0 anxiety at all times, so you just do things. You feel restless at home, so you just go for a walk. You see your neighbor, you tell them you just couldn't be inside and needed to leave, they tell you what's on their mind, you talk for 5-10 minutes. You continue walking. You bother your friend with a text, call him a faggot, ask him what he's doing. He tells you he's playing a game on the PC. You ask if he wants to take a walk. He says no. You curse the sky. He tells you to come over if you're bored. You choose not to, and sit on the bench, looking at the ducks a little. You get a text from pic rel who says she sees you from her window. You go to her apartment and have sex.

Basically. Life is boring and you try find ways to not make it so.

When you are terminally online, you are never bored, so you have no reason to talk to others.

After you have sex with pic rel, you cuddle. Suddenly, your father passes and you have an existential crisis because he was your bedrock in life. She tells you that you have changed. Your anxiety shoots to a 100 as you're reminded about how you were before and you try desperately not to be like that again. You text her but she doesn't answer because she's confused, and you try desperately not to seem desperate. You try keep your cool but she just gives up.

You're confused. She reaches out but you still can't find your way back. You HAVE changed and you're scared. She gives you a chance but you fail. She cheats and you understand her as you seethe about how it got to this. You consider meds (I am here).

That's how you make acquaintances, people you can make small talk with or nod and greet when you run into them. Actual friendships require prolonged proximity, some external, involuntary circumstance that makes both of you belong to something together. Being in the same department in your company, being in the same fraternity, being in the same course, stuff like that.

That pic has got to be 15 - 20 years old.

I was like this at 13 until about 18 then I started university and it became less fun. I've been going out less and less. It becomes boring especially around late bloomers who think getting drunk is fun in their late 20's. Nigger I was getting drunk at 15-16 every weekend, now it's just boring.

unless he played baseball or something. you're right.
ofc there is a reddit virus. none of these people would spend time on either. ideally not on anything. Facebook and then Instagram initially allowed these groups to stay together, but have increasingly become their own obsessive distractions that tear those groups apart.

in America it's fraternities where each kid would have 2,000 "friends" but this pic is probably only half of them have an account with 120 instead. Id imagine.

the internet is the opposite of this. though it feels like a substitute FOR this so it sucks people in.

reddit people are in a throuple and have a cat watch netflix and spend their salary on an isolated hobby like 40k or Funko pops. d&d once a month with 5 weirdos is not the boozing every weekend pic you posted.

watch this weirdo be reddit popular:
youtu.be/RxMR1TMec04
and then watch this guy be millionaire smooth:youtube.com/shorts/kOegDml0L-w

theo has met Kai Trump. he pretends to be braindead so he's nonthreatening but is quick witted so actually is a tremendous threat. the other guy wrote books pretending to be smart but is a midwit castrati repeating the party line at every opportunity.

those are your options for success. another alternative is work friends like the drama playing out with Karen Read. a dozen psychos loosely correlated and all fucking each other (hell and orchestrated by women)

have something women want and they will coordinate to have you around.

those three options:
good luck.

ms puiyi

patrician gook taste

Being a part of a friend group like this is pretty exhausting if you aren’t extremely extroverted. Lots of drama usually one or two people are extremely insufferable but everyone still wants to drag them along

AI

here real life

You have to be outgoing and pretend to care what others do and are interested in - it's extremely taxing and boring after a while.

you're from fucking baltics. everyone's a prick here.

now it's just boring.

Yet it was an important developmental milestone once. There are many milestones like that. Fail to go through them all, and you're fucked for life.

OP

Before you post threads like this, ask yourself: what are you?

Chad

Normie

Sup 5

dont listen to the people saying its over lmao its not over till its over

tons of people finde forture in their 80's ffs

its over in taht you dont get to have awesome 20s 30s 40s whatever

the past is over the future has not yet unfolded

you can still litterly do whatever you want
i know people who because lawyers in their 50s and judges in their mid 70s early 80s and practitioned untill there early 90s

its super unusual but it happens

normalfags are attracted to each other subconsciously but only if you're neurotypical

Basically this. Humans are very social and sensitive creatures. Call it energy/vibes/whatever. Most of your communication (above 80%) is non verbal and is subconsciously picked up on by those around you. Lonerfags/introverts/tfw-too-intelligent aura is usually too apparent to those around you without them having to communicate with you. On occasion you might attract a fellow introvert/loner/nerd but never a normie.

t. chad looks, autist aura

I have a tested IQ of 133, 190cm, get rated 8/10 by tinder hookups, was benching 100kg/220lbs when I was 16 and my dad was making 150k euro a year during that time. I bought BTC when I was 18. I was excluded and mocked by jealous subhuman slavniggers around me because I was better than them. Never had a friend that wasnt a fake bitch because no one could compare to me. I spent my teenage years playing video games. I have nothing in common with normalfags. Theyre an inferior subspecies.

Everyone in that pic is miserable. They would have a full blown panic attack if you put them in a room by themselves for 2 hours. I can stay in my room, by myself for days. All I need is my laptop, some food and my microwave.

I used to have an active social life when I was in school and living with my parents.

I thought it would improve when I "grew up", got a job, got my own place - but actually no.

Working full time, cooking, cleaning and going to the gym leaves me with little time or energy to go out and socialize.

And the friends I still keep in touch with have conflicting work schedules so it's always pain to organize get togethers.

I’m sure that’s a big part of it. I’m also pretty sure I’m just fucked from being raised in the foster system. Probably pretty hard to feel accepted when your own parents cared more about drugs than you. Apparently I’m a success story because I kinda work sometimes and I haven’t killed myself yet. I never feel accepted in social situations and never get included in things. I probably have some visible disfigurement or something that I can’t see because I’m pretty sure I’m attractive but never get any attention from females and dudes all try posturing and dominance bullshit not realizing I don’t play those games because I know how to fight.

live near people who have free time and money

they all meet up to drink and do drugs together

There you go, that is the essence of these active social livers. Bros were also meeting up to play video games together like 10 years ago, but now we just stay home to play online and chat over discord instead of meeting up irl.

I have nothing in common with normalfags. Theyre an inferior subspecies.

This. Why the fuck would you want to associate with them? Waste of time.

OP doesn't want to socialize anyway. He just wants a girlfriend.

People say whites are individualists, etc, but then I see such group photos and rethink if that's really true..

It’s in the way of thinking, in they every day handling of things. Not that they are isolated or without gatherings. For instance did you know that in Latin America there are almost home care centers for the elderly, that is because people actually take care of their parents and grandparents. Because they are collectivist societies. Good or bad, that’s how they go about in their mentality. They don’t think only for themselves but as a family. Here, there’s a lot, but I mean A LOT of places for the elderly ti be taken care of. It’s an industry in itself. Because people think (for good or bad) only for themselves first, their careers, their pursuit of their dreams, their own stuff. This is a reason why third-worlders migrate in exodus, because they carry their whole families. When white people migrate it’s either for conquest (that is, mostly individuals) or for work/studies related.

socially isolated 29 yo virgin

flag checks out

You just have to put yourself our there anon!!!
Socializing with anyone my age:

You see that game last night?

See that new movie?

Oh you don't own a TV?

What do you mean you don't drink?

Oh what kind of books you read?

Hmm never heard of them

Really no Netflix?

You cook everything yourself? How?

You don't get laid much? Oh dry spell huh?

oh right, well there's someone for everyone

you're weird but you're funny

This is how every NPC interaction goes for me. I think I intrigue them by how vastly different my worldview and life is from theirs. Regardless women my age look at me like an alien and I'm getting to the point I simply don't care and find it entertaining. Be scared or be scary anons.

People are constantly wanting to be my friend. But why the fuck would I want more friends?

I feel kind of bad for them since I basically brush off their attempts at socializing with me. I know they're lonely or whatever, but I don't have time for that shit. I don't even have the time now to maintain a relationship with my family and the friends I already have. I'm like supremely neglectful.

Regardless, the OP wants a girlfriend. That's his real motive.

This. Why the fuck would you want to associate with them? Waste of time.

I went to a football game with coworkers once and I was bored out of my mind. Couldn't wait to leave. I don't know how normgroids get so excited about sportsball.

kek i always found it funny like sometimes i look really good and others not it gives me an insanely warped vuew when it comes to girls

i go from haveing them throwing themselfs at me (mostly for fun not actually trying to fuck but they just do this for some reason)

to haveing them be outwright disgusted by me it really is quite funny

i especially like when i look fucked up for whatever reason and some super hot girl i used to know randomly bumps into me they still treat me like im super hot for some reason

i recently had a things where i was at a bar *looking good* and some girl who had treated me like a peice of shit was with their friend group and you outwright here one of here freinds say very possitive comments about me loudly LOL and she had a fucking meltdown
BUT HES WIERD OMG YOU CANT
lmfao

wild stuff

Its amazing how a bunch of 2/10 dyel chuds in Europe all have 10/10 beyond supermodel tier women (Britain being an exception)

American women are genuinely just a bunch of fucking fat disgusting hogs and the few decent ones are privileged enough to spend their entire lives up to 30 years old being ran through by roided up gigachads

I find more comfort in sitting at a cafe in the downtown area of any city and just watch people pass by than watching sports.

I did this when I was in college. Maybe I was unlucky, but most of my friends were really fake and backstabby. Then I did blue collar jobs and made some awesome bro tier friends. Miss them everyday
I feel a lot better being in my 30s now and having a few close friends and family however

its not amazing at all what happens is all the guys go to war in theese places and war is the place heroes die

then only the hot girls get to breed

britain is different because we win our wars so all the girls get to breed kek

even rome drew the line at trying to conquer scots

Also: you can't be like them because it is simply very unlikely that you have the same likes, hobbies, interests, values at them. Even if they'll accept you, you're not going to fit it because you will be unable to communicate with them. You speak different languages. The faster you accept yourself that you're an introvert and learn to like yourself the way you are, the better. Also, not that many people are like the ones you posted on your pic. They are just the ones who are seen. Introverts outnumber them but you don't seem them because they're all home on their computers.

be roman general in brittan

weekly uprisings

have to send a letter back to rome talking about building a giant wall because the raiding is getting so out of hand

start sperging about swamp people in the letter

the island that has never been conquerd by anybody

In my experience, 99% of normie small talk is just about demonstrating social proof. Literally all they talk about is visiting their parents or friends or being visited by them, cool fun things they'll do or have done with them, all the trips they've done and all the cool places they've been to, and the occasional funny everyday life anecdote ("haha I tried to scan my pass in the bus and this happened", "haha I was cooking at home and this happened", "omg dude same, when I went to the government building to get my paper this thing happened", stuff like that). All you have to do is say things that convey "I'm normal, I'm well-integrated into normie society, I'm just like you, I have friends and a family, I've got a fun active life, I'm not some dangerous weirdo" etc. There is no pop culture/monoculture anymore so normies don't bond and socialize over movies, shows, music etc. anymore, this is all that is left.

tons of people finde forture in their 80's ffs

saar hello rashdeep

What a dumb take
America is just a kike hellhole where women have way too much privilege. Its similar in other more western areas like Britain and Australia but not as bad

bro after ww2 there was like 10 russian girls to every 1 russian guy

like 60 years later russia is known for haveing bueatifull women .... what a shock

Basically this. Humans are very social and sensitive creatures. Call it energy/vibes/whatever.

Yep. It's not "fair" and those things are the reason why nepotism and networking are so overpowered. It's all conditional and if you fail those shits tests you will never get anything from society. No friends, no pussy, no job, nothing.

Normies on /pol think that social life is like the SIMS game, where you just go outside, talk to NPC, and boom, a social life forms. It doesn’t work like that. Everyone who says this is a normie who does not understand what complete isolation is and that it is impossible to start from scratch as an adult unless you are a foid.

Everyone in this thread who is over 18, or just no longer in the school system, already in the job market, and currently has no social life will be alone forever. Social life is a train you catch at the station called adolescence. Once you miss that train, it’s over. Social life is formed during adolescence, and contrary to what normies will tell you, it has nothing to do with your personality. You might lose your social life during adolescence for various reasons (moving, lack of family, isolation, personal problems, whatever), but once you’re an adult, if you didn’t manage to build a social life during that crucial adolescent period, it’s over. Whether you’re a very sociable person or not, it won’t change anything, you’ll be alone as an adult. Why? Because absolutely no one makes friends in the workplace. Your “friends” there are just colleagues, and your colleagues already have a refined social life from a young age, sometimes even a family. And similarly, you’re not going to walk into a bar and talk to a group of friends as a complete stranger like some weirdo. In fact, you’re already supposed to have friends, not be looking for them, because you’re an adult, something the boomers and millennials normies will never understand. It’s what’s called a glass ceiling, it’s over. And by extension, no social life, no women. It's not even your fault, today's society is made like that.

(99% of jobs found are through nepotism btw, make the correlation)

Idk latvia bro i try not to think too deeply about it just makes me feel sad

I've met plenty of weird unconventional people who had good social lives and girlfriends, including literal diagnosed autists. I used to think the same as you, often got into arguments with black pill looksmaxxing types who think looks are everything over this, but after a few times of meeting people like that I was forced to dismiss that theory.

all they're doing is constantly trying to one up each other while shitting on "inferior people" (poorer, unhealthier, uglier, etc.).

It's not even your fault, today's society is made like that.

What do you think changed about society that causes this?

women my age look at me like an alien and I'm getting to the point I simply don't care

Same. Women have never taken me seriously so you learn you can never appease them, so may as well not try. It's funny cause guys don't care if you're into autistic shit, some even appreciate it, but girls cannot stand when they find out you're not a carbon copy goycattle script-following NPC

then what do you think the problem is with those people? misanthropy? just being negative?

it has nothing to do with your personality

yeah, people here don't get it. Fate and circumstances in high school and early uni give you your friend group, it's not something you choose, you can't just "go out there and meet people". You happen to meet the right people, circumstances happen to put in prolonged proximity with what will become your core social circle. Hence autists with friend groups and good-looking, socially normal incels. None of it is based on merit, it's just luck.

It is what it is

Which people? Socially isolated ones?

is that the girl reacting to herself? have you seen eyes wide shut recently?

his wife telling the naval officer fantasy just to hurt him was mirrored by some random patient he had treating him like the naval officer. but he didn't piece that together.

it's the only thing in their life.

their parents have money. It's really easy to have hobbies and a big social circle when you aren't living paycheck-to-paycheck.

Uh oh another Jew or chink divide and conquer thread.
Jews destroy the economy, poison the food and water , push DEI and other Marxist ideologies / policies , race bait , poison the population with “ vaccines “ and other Jew/ chink pharma poison, then say hey white people are fucking you. Not falling for it anymore , it’s time to kill the ruling class, the Jews.

for more on this check out Bukowski. the epitome of your post.
(miserable sadsack with fame fortune and pussy, in some ways made him more of a miserable sadsack - but you can judge for yourself as he put it all on display in writings and interviews)
he worked very hard and succeeded in an arena where it's "easy" for 50s, 80s to still find success.

(it's too late for mathematics or baseball obviously)

Hemingway maybe also but I don't know as much about his life before writing.

I agree with you that early adolescence social circle often largely shapes the social life further down the line. But don't you feel that genuine desire to be with other people is also a part of the recipe? This desire may not even be conscious. For example in my case, almost every time I've found myself in a large social group I always caught myself thinking judgemental shit about those people and wanting to be left alone. After many experiences like that I came to the conclusion that for the most part I simply don't want to be with other people, this subconscious desire to be alone is responsible for my current circumstances. Those social autists you speak of may subconsciously want to be with others and spend time with them, no matter how edgy they appear on the outside. I wonder for how many introverts this desire isn't just a feeling of loneliness common to all but a genuine desire to be with people. I don't think that would be the case for many. Because if you really want to be with people you'd behave differently - reach out, plan events, talk more etc etc

This too, there is a class element to it. As someone from a normal middle class family I definitely feel it when I chat with normies and they casually talk about all the cool trips they've done, cool interesting childhood experiences they had, their cool interesting friends and their cool hobbies, and realize a lot of it comes down to them being upper middle class, that at no point in my life was I even close to having the circumstances and life infrastructure that would have allowed me to experience all those things.

Thanks for the summary, that's exactly it.

You need a hobby

This picture reminds me of that sitcom from the 90s. The Sopranos.

several of them are probably related, like cousins etc. who bring their boyfriends

Then you should get out and do something. Ffs. What are you into? Join an acting class, meet girls, go to fucking anywhere to make friends. Dickhead. What are you even into?

aura is usually too apparent to those around you without them having to communicate with you

>t. chad looks, autist aura

Exactly this. I've been a loner my whole life and I used to think it was because I was below average. I was a late bloomer and filled out later, aided with blackpill knowledge. Girls have since shown interest but none of it matters because as soon as I open my mouth all attraction dissipates. Guys will also show me respect and will go out of their way to talk to me but no one ever wants to be my friend. In any 3+ person scenario, I end up being the least desirable every single time no exceptions even if I'm the one who "mogs" on paper. Normies want you to be a normie, and when you don't have the disposition of one you will never fit in no matter what because you don't have their instincts

idk, I’d say generically due to social media, but actually, I think it’s more cultural. In East Asia, it seems like there’s no glass ceiling in relationships. Their culture is different, colleagues become almost like family, keeping in touch beyond work with things like company dinners and all that. Well, I don’t live in Asia, so I don’t really know, it’s just a guess. What I do know is that this culture of being seen as a weirdo when you have no social life is purely Western.

Maybe in France this works, but everyone I know in my hometown that partied a lot in their teens are losers now. Most of them got pregnant before 18 and are now resigned to a trailer park and welfare. Or they kept "chasing the dragon" and are chronic alcoholics or on hard drugs. OP, save your time and work on bettering yourself. Your picrel looks stages af.

Your parents never got you any therapy or if they did, you never took it seriously and now your an adult social retard

*staged

Fuck off memeflaggot nigger.

You happen to meet the right people, circumstances happen to put in prolonged proximity with what will become your core social circle

And what they don't understand is that this context is no longer possible in the adult world. People work and are just there to make money, have families and then women have already known 50 guys before you... In fact it's over on all levels. Life is a race against time but no one ever told you that.

How are there some people who have THIS active social lives?

do you want to be around people that much?
do you want to play all those games?
do you want to act all that theater?
being around people tires me
I can handle it for a while, but then I need to be alone to rest
people are fake and phony
bunch of peacocking monkeys tripping over themselves to "look good"
tl,dr: you're not missing much

This Dutch guy is pretty on point actually. People like to formulate as if everything is red pill, alpha, beta- but it's like what he says. Most people I know usually had one circle growing up, and their life is usually around how they're perceived in that circle. I had to move around different cities due to my father's job, so I happened to go 5 different schools until college, all having different circles. What I realized is that "who I am" is more about how I am being perceived in a social circle. In one school I was the comedian, the funny outgoing guy, in another I was the strong silent type, etc. These happened because of the circumstances, not that I'm a psycho that completely acts different every time. When some people change their environment, like from high school to college, they utilize on that. That's why you see "glow ups", or old losers being the popular kid in some place else. Most people stay the same, because most people do carry on with their former circles. It's really natural to still have best friends from childhood. I do, so does my dad. In fact, it's rather hard and strange to get new best friends in the adulthood.

In the end, you'll have to make up your mind about how you'd like to spend your time. This is important because most of the time I realize that you autists think you're missing out because of normies' perception of fun. I know many people who enjoy solitude, silent lives although they don't have social anxiety, nor are they weirdos. They just like it that way.

yes

How are there some people who have THIS active social lives?

They are cattle. Later they are salami. Nobody will remember anyone on this picture in 10, 50, 100 years.
Why would you want to share their destiny?

Their problem is that, like me and talked about, they were unlucky with how they grew up, so for whatever reason life never put them in a position where they could have a childhood/teenage social circle. And since that is the basis, the beginning of your future social life, it snowballs from there, and it becomes exponentially harder to make friends the older you get. It mostly comes down to childhood, school and mayyybe uni if you really work your ass off to reinvent yourself, but it's very hard.

whats the problem? who says you need all those things? you are a grown man. you don't need validation. you do your own thing. if you are unhappy then change the things making you unhappy

b-but pol said you need to have a boogatti and a tradwife in da wheatfields

there is your problem. stop seeking validation

And regarding what I'm saying, I'm not referring to those who are 30 years old, even 20yo Zoomers in the working world, you won't be friends with them, they're glued to Snapchat and already have their group of friends outside.

Its a copy pasta

Maybe, but there were uglier people than me talking to each other... There were guys that even smelled like shit (not washing, sweat) and they had friends.

We don't care about social life, we know very well that we can be self sufficient today. But social life indirectly means = woman. When you don't have a social life, you don't have any context where you meet a woman and that's the reason why everyone on /pol ends up at 30 or 40 years old virgin of the mouth;

I have went to psychologists, psychiatrists, therapists and none of them said anything valuable and that I would have a social issues or issues talking to people... Although I don't know how to start meaningless conversations like that...

People invite them to those tbinga and like them. Copypaste a picture of one of the Anon Babble nerds from the meetup into that group. Notice anything standing out?

The Anon Babble guy looks short, narrow shoulders, small hands and small skull, not as big of the rear side of the jaw. Smaller teeth.

And girls dont like that. They see those low-Natal-T features as being what they call “creepy” and “ugly”.

If you got invited to that, the girls would pitch a fit at best and ruin the occassion. At worst they would leave and the event turns into a sausagefest.

Trust me, i and other incels I know have been going to these events for our whole lives.

If you frequently get refused service by female staff at fast food restaurants, but eagerly waited on by male staff, tbis is the reason.

Be hlad you dont have chad best friends that you let down by ruining all their events just by showing up. Bro, I am such an incel that my mere presence has turned chads into incels.

Wrong
Wrong you cant be an ugly skinnyfat flathead manlet drug dealer that looks like klinefelters

yea its common for people to feel like they missed out(they did) but whats also far to common is for people to just give up look i get it but the reality is you can still make it

its not even harder it was always super fucking hard its still super fucking hard kek

writing a book that bears your soul is probably harder at 20 than at 60

becomeing wealthy is probably equally as hard dependant on how wealthy

B but compound interest

sure just dont fuck up what it is you are doing the people at 20 only need to sucseed once they just have more time to fail....

I knew a guy like this. Chin up bro. At least you aren’t a complete mutant like me. I look like a peacock bass fused with a deer

I go insane when I don't socialize. The lockdowns nearly broke me... this is why early play dates and developing social skills is important. In high school we had this kind of bond with the ones that fit in with us, we'd go out camping, drinking, to the beach, cliff diving, even prom we all had someone.

What went wrong in your life? Even as a young adult we make time in our work and life schedules to hang out in big groups or even just a few of us, go to movies, concerts, fairs, amusement parks.

I can't imagine life without socialization, how do you do it? What makes you keep going? Even if I lost my legs I'd still be out there having fun. Do you not enjoy it? Anxiety?

None of them look white.

retarded take nigel but i dont expect much from our lessers

Notice how they're all about bunched of brain-damaged drunks?
That's the secret. That's all you have to do. There's a reason it's called a "social lubricant." It deludes you into being all self-important and blindly empathetic towards anything that gives you attention.

I know ugly guys and manlets with good social lives and ok (not gonna say good, but adequate) dating lives. What really makes a guy look like a "Anon Babble nerd", repelling to normies, is not bad looks, it's looking low-trust and unhealthy. Looking healthy > black pill psl nonsense
But anyway these two videos prove that looks have nothing to do with any of this

odysee.com/@TravisBlackpillArchive:1/WRAW3---Schrodinger's-Oofy-Doofy.-300-pictures:8
odysee.com/@TravisBlackpillArchive:1/WRAW---What-Really-Attracts-Women:d

hope russia will help you fren

kek good for you ameribro i love americans but have they ever won a war that was not against their own people??

the civil war champions without a doubt!! but a big zero on the board for foregin intervention

i mean 30million mexicans a year into the us
that one was defonately a civil dispute.

dont get me wrong i hope you guys do well but history books will write that you had more military spending than the rest of the world combined and did not win a single war but started a bunch

Similar situation. I started doing a hobby that only autistic weirdos participate in when I was 20. I joined a scuba diving club and going to their meetings, would go drinking with them after the meetings. Average age of a diver in my area is like 60 years old, I started hanging out with them at other events they did together like playing adult sportsball or volunteering to help with other opportunities they had that they would announce at the meetings. We went on vacations together, hung out on weekends and sometimes 7 days a week. Some members introduced me to their daughters that were the same age. Some of their wives tried to fuck me. I ended up marrying a college girl that I met through the group. Some of the friends I met helped me out with my career or work on home improvement projects. We're either diving, drinking or pulling dead illegal immigrant children out of the ocean and almost everyone does exciting illegal shit to make the most of our time underwater.

I was extremely neglected by my boomer parents, had zero social skills and lost all of my friends because of them that I had to start over at 18. All of these skills can be learned as you go. Men don't hit the wall young like women, you probably have until you're 80 desu. I just keep my most radical beliefs to myself and everything is fine. A scuba diving class is perfect for the autistic retard because they teach you how to pretend you know what you're talking about then send you out into the world to find more people like you.

Whatever direction you go you will find that these hobbies aren't that expensive when you appeal to boomer vanity hard enough they'll just give you all of their old stuff to get you going.

My existence is only 40% miserable though.

Like others have already said, it's just circumstance. Vast majority of relationships are formed in school. You take any of these turbo-hyper normies and put them a random town half way across the country and most of them would turn into socially isolated autists overnight.
There's research that backs this up as well by the way; proximity is the ONLY predictor of relationship formation. Being together with the same people, in the same environment, over a long period of time is literally the only way to make friends.

In my experience groups this large fall apart as fast as they form. There will be between 4 and 6 guys who keep it together, everyone else will go their separate ways.

And history shows that you let people who dont use toilets invade you lol

collectivist societies

Not true. Aside from the whole family thing, everyone in this shithole is a petty, individualistic, backstabbing motherfucker.
It is basically a even broker version of the US

it's probably not staged but it's a curated version of events where everyone is putting the best version of themselves at the forefront and trying to look like they all enjoy each other's company when in actual fact that's never how social groups work, regardless they all look beyond insufferable and i feel tired just looking at these fucking normalniggers with their shit eating half-grins and vacant stares

Tuis. Sales kickoffs are drunk parties. We all make 285k or more.

How are there some people who have THIS active social lives?

pic is from 1990s

be funny/pleasant to be around

So be a bootlicking "current thing" faggot without a personality.
We both know it boils down to that.

I was like that up until about 24 when I decided to chill on partying and get into dirt bikes and offroading instead, It was worth it.

Don't fret none OP - they look like Mormons so they aren't normal, white people.

You have to basically force yourself to be dumb and mindless to engage in social interactions like pic in OP. Alcohol also helps. ALOT.

Normgroids seem to be so oversocialized they become more autistic than actual autists. It's like in certain places they don't socialize at all unless somebody else starts first, they are so lazy.

It’s called the Matthew effect. The more you win during your youth the easier it is to continue winning. People with very active social life’s and success tend to have started winning as early as grade 1

Lived my teen and college years like this, but it all fades. A lot of my friends turned into faggots instead of maturing, with the rise of social media.

Geezus fuck at this point I’d just learn survival skills and live in the bush. Work the bare min just enough for some basic stuff and as a back up if you fail to cultivate enough food get at the store.

Way better to just live like this in nature and peace then be a work slave that has nothing going in life

Fuck, that is one of the truest comments I have ever read. This is why I constantly feel left out, many of them don't even have many hobbies at all. They just talk about what they did with their friends, so there is nothing to bond over with, because I'm not their friend. At least not everyone is like that but the vast majority is.

If you're into sportsball you're basically not even human. Unless you're betting and making money on it or participating in the game you're a fuckin loser. I cannot stand sportsball spectator fanatics. Fuckin mindless scum. Ugh

Top kek you're alright

Fuggen do it bro. I'm moving to my place in BFE by the end of June and never coming back. Homesteading out in nature is where it's at. Fuckin love the wilderness man.

You might be on to something, anon. I went from being a complete social retard to smiling, having lots to talk about, and engaging with several groups of people and they STILL act skittish around me like they did when all I could say was "yup" with a blank stare.

I guess the silver lining is that I'm still only a freshman in college and I have plans to join clubs/fraternities to get my name out there. At least now I know the truth.

just be a foolish drunk retard bro

Think about it. Will you be able to point out a fellow autismo in a crowd of normies? More than likely yes, and very quickly. Because your subconscious will recognize the familiar signs. It works the same for normies. Their subconscious know what signs of compatibility looks like, and you can't fool it. You'll be able to become friends with them when you'll genuinely become like them, then you'll appear on their "radars".

I was in a STEM college, so maybe that's why there was less talking.. Although some people talked, but I noticed that all people divided into smaller friend groups - 2-3 people and those groups didn't interact with each other.

I look like a peacock bass fused with a deer

Wtf is that ?

how are you going to consume big tech goyslop if you're outside and having a social life?

Holy cow, an actual sigma male. They really exist.

probably highschool or college
they'll all go their separate ways and be as isolated as you