I've noticed a trend. There's been a sharp increase in people who get very, very angry if you mention lifting weights, skincare, learning interesting skills, basically "self improvement" as a whole.
We've ALWAYS had dialouge over how the gym isn't the key to fixing every problem ever and that womeb dont like steroid built bodies, but now it's just RAGE. We're now getting about 5-10 "PLEASE STOP GOING TO THE GYM" threads per day,
I think it really is just people who look like this that find a weird comfort in telling themselves that their inceldom is COMPLETELY not their fault. If their face was better, if they were taller, if their shoulder span was just a little wider, then they'd be Chad. But you can't choose those things! It's not my fault! And they're right, you can't really change face and height and bone structure. This gives them licence to feel good about never trying to have any redeemable qualities, or to speak to women at all. Other people who challenge this worldview have to be shouted down, they don't want anyone thinking they can influence their desirability even in the SMALLEST way, because then it begs the question "why aren't I doing that too?" And then they feel bad about their choices, and they can't allow that.