seriously do you expect women to NOT go for the same minority of men? the difference between the average overweight unkept dude, versus the guy who is thin, does skincare, gets a nice haircut, has a nice sense of fashion and is confident is like 0 to 100. it's like "ew" vs "i need your babies right now".
you could very well look like this in less than a year. but you'd rather whine and try to force women to lower their standards online.
you could be living the life of the guy who gets ALL the girls, who gets approached and says "i already have 5 girlfriends" and the girls say "can i be the 6th?"
that's how it works. you are responsible for your own circumstances with women. guys who self-improve the right way, appealing to the FEMALE gaze and not to gymbros and lookismbros online, are SO WAY UP ABOVE the rest, they can get away with anything. and you could be one of them if you weren't a lazy bitter blackpiller.